5 Myths About What Women Want in a Man

This is the biggest myth of them all. Many think the only way to get a super-attractive woman is to be attractive yourself. This comes from the myth that all girls want a tall, dark, and handsome man to date.

This is completely false. Sure, I'm not going to lie and say that good looks don't help. But it's been proven that "unattractive" men can still have wild success with the opposite sex.

Probably the best indicator of success with women comes from your personality. The supposed "alpha male" attitude is a quality that can really have lots of success with women.

Unlike men, women don't care that much about looks. Instead it's all about that the man makes them feel inside. If you can make them feel excited and enjoy being around you, then looks don't matter that much.

This goes hand-in-hand with the previous myth. Many guys believe that the hot, attractive girl won't be interested in them. This even happens to guys who are good looking themselves.

Unfortunately most men don't know how to act around attractive women. Most of them time a girl's looks will reduce them to mumbling, stuttering idiots who say really bizarre things.

Usually they act like this. They'll get excited while talking to an attractive to women. As a result, they'll act in a manner where they're trying to supplicate this woman. They'll shower her with attention and try to impress her. The hope is they're presenting themselves as a "quality catch" to this girl.

What does this end up doing? Usually a woman isn't attracted. That's because she said *anything* about herself; yet this guy is treating her like something special. She's had this happen hundreds of other times by hundreds of other guys. So you're basically behaving in a way where she sees you're nothing special.

The truth is your goal is to act like a high status men. YOU should be the one who acts like someone who is worth meeting. That's the way to get an attractive woman.

Sure some women (ie: Gold Diggers) love it when you buy them expensive things and bring them out on fancy dates. But most want to feel that spark of attraction and a connection to you.

So bottom line...skip the fancy presentation for the long-term relationships. This does absolutely nothing to create attraction with women. Buying her things gives the perception that you have zero-value about yourself. In a way, you're saying "I'm someone who is not worth knowing, so I have to buy your attention."

I'm not saying you can't do nice things for a woman. But this should comes from a mutual give and take where you're both giving to one another.

Instead of doing the "fancy date" thing; focus on dates that are full fun and exciting activities. Don't make them like a job interview. Instead fill these dates full of laughter, physical contact and sexual tension.

Rather then trying to use logic to impress a girl, you should on building attraction and using your personality to make a woman interested in you.

It's actually pretty funny to watch a man interacting with a new woman he's just met. Especially if she's attractive. Usually he'll nod his head and agree with everything she's saying. Some will even bob their head up and down like an idiot...positively reacting to everything that's coming out of her mouth.

There's not easy way to say this - BE a man!

Don't agree with women just for the sake of agreeing. This is yet another way to demonstrate that you're a low-status man who is not worth meeting. Even worse, you're basically telling women that you're a man who doesn't have much of a backbone.

You have to present yourself as a challenge. This part of demonstrating a high status personality that naturally attracts women. Don't always agree with what she's saying. Actually sometimes it's better to disagree and *slightly* tease her about what she's saying. This might seem counter intuitive to what we've learned from society. But disagreeing actually helps you display a quality that women usually don't see in the guys they meet.

This is the worst myth to believe. It comes from that inner-voice that tells you "no girl will like me; and there's nothing I can do about it."

The reality is ANY guy has the capability to change their current dating situation. All you have to do is have the firm belief that you can make a change in your dating life.

What you need to do is work on yourself BEFORE trying to impress women. This is the quickest path to getting what you want from the opposite sex. My advice to do this first and then understand what *really* attracts a woman to a man.