50 Ways To Be A More Romantic Husband

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How To Be A More Romantic Husband

Perhaps you have never considered yourself a romantic, or perhaps romance has just gotten set to the sidelines over the years, whatever the case it just might be time to fine tune those courting skills once again.

The fine art of romance is actually quite an easy skill to develop. Despite what many people believe romance does not have to be expensive, nor does it have to be a difficult, or a time consuming task. Becoming a romantic man can involve nothing more than creatively using a little item that is known throughout the world as "thoughtfulness". By simply displaying and using techniques of thoughtfulness toward your love interest you can effectively create any number of romantic scenarios.

Of course, being romantic does have other rewards, the wonderful rebound effect of romance is a beneficial side effect that both partners get to enjoy.

So just in case you are not too sure where to begin here are 50 ways to become a more romantic husband......

The first ten steps to becoming a more romantic husband.... 

1. Say "I love you" and say it often.

2. Hold her hand. Whether you are out for a walk, or just sitting on the couch watching television together, take the time to reach out and hold her hand.

3. Kiss her good-bye when you are leaving the house, and kiss her again to say hello, when you come back home.

4. Purchase an apron, keep it handy in a kitchen drawer, and be sure to put it on at least twice a week when you do a few household chores. Dishes, dusting, sweeping the floor, cleaning the bathroom, or cooking supper, she'll appreciate any help that she can get around the house. Believe it, or not, helping out around the house is one of the most romantic things that you can do in a relationship.

5. If you have kids take them out and away, for the day, or afternoon. A tired stressed out wife is not going to feel as romantic toward you as a relaxed and well rested one will.

6. Bring home flowers. There is a reason why this is a tradition, giving flowers shows that you are thinking about her, and that you appreciate her.

7. Take her out on a date. It doesn't have to be expensive, it can simply be a coffee date to a local restaurant or park, just make sure that you do take her out.

8. Surprise her or do something unexpected every now and then. Set a little chocolate heart on her pillow so she discovers it when she crawls into bed or leave little love notes in strategic places for her to find. Even if it takes her days to stumble onto one, these tokens of your love are very romantic, and they serve to re-enforce the strength of your relationship bond.

9. Chivalry is important and it is definitely romantic. Open doors for her and hold her coat to help her into it. Do all those little extras that show off the gentleman in you. She'll notice and appreciate it.

10. When you are planning activities to do together, insure that you also include things that she wants to do, and not just the things that you want to do.

 

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Pamper her, and don't just presume that she knows that you love her, take the time to show her that you love her..... 

21. Phone her from work just to say that you love and appreciate her.

22. Help her relax with a spa adventure. You can either purchase her a gift certificate to a local spa, or you can give a gift of aromatherapy candles, and bath pearls so she can enjoy a relaxing spa experience at home.

23. After you finish supper in the evening help to clear the table. Never just get up to go watch television after dinner leaving the clean up to her. Remember that helping out in the home is the most romantic thing that you can do.

24. Cleanliness is important. Clean up and dress up just for her. Take the time to really shine for your lady.

25. Take her dancing!

26. Be nice to her relatives.

27. Give her a foot massage.

28. Give her a back rub.

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29. Send flowers to her workplace or stop by to take her out for lunch. These little gestures will allow her to feel special in front of her co-workers.

30. Send her a card or love letter through the mail. E-mail her one.

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There are so many little gestures that are just so romantic..... 

11. Participate in a sporting activity together, it can be walking, biking, swimming, bowling, yoga, or playing tennis or badminton together. The point is to have a common interest that will allow you to spend time together in a common fitness goal.

12. Read a book or the paper together, so that you can later talk, or discuss it with each other.

13. Keep your lines of communication open. Talk with each other! Talk about daily events, confide your feelings, discuss issues and concerns with each other. When you learn to be a friend to your partner, then being a lover to her, will just follow naturally.

14. Respect your partners hopes and dreams. Encourage her in the issues that are important to her. Compliment her on her achievements.

15. Give her time to be alone, or with her friends, "Me Time" is very important to the health of a relationship.

16. Don't degrade or criticize her. Putting her down will only serve to decrease affections. Focus on positive attributes rather than negative ones.

17. Try to compliment her at least once a day.

18. Bring her a little present for no reason other than that you appreciate her.

19. When purchasing gifts make them personal ones that are specifically for her enjoyment. Discover what her favorite fragrance is, what her favorite food is, and her favorite things to do in her spare time. Don't buy her kitchen gadgets, or other such household items, these gifts make her think that you simply want her to make you happier. Don't go there!

20. Buy her a card every now and then just to say "I Love You" or "Thank You".

 

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Showing her how much you care for her is very romantic..... 

31. Take her on a mini vacation. Spend a night at a local hotel, drive to a nearby town for lunch, tour a local historic site, or spend the day at the park.

32. Hug her.

33. Park at a viewpoint with her.

34. Take her back to the spot where you first met.

35. Write down those all important dates. Don't forget special anniversary dates or her birthday. The day you met is one that you should try to celebrate each year.

36. Plant a tree together.

37. Volunteer together.

38. Listen to her when she needs to talk. Women are communicators and discussing or talking out issues is very important to her.

39. Have a date at home. Dress up as you would for a night on the town, turn on some romantic music, dim the lights and have a very special date with the one you love. You can share a bottle of wine, have a candlelight meal, dance in the living room, simply cuddle up and watch a movie, or do any other number of things that the two of you might enjoy together. Just add those special little touches to the evening that will make it extra special.

40. Take her out to a movie and share a popcorn while you are there. It's another traditional date that just works!

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41. Tell her how beautiful she is.

42. Take her on a picnic or out for a bonfire.

43. Watch the stars together in the evening.

44. Bring her breakfast in bed, even if it is just coffee and toast, give her those few extra minutes of relaxation before she starts her day.

45. Buy her an ice cream cone.

46. Offer her your coat when she is cold or put her hand in your pocket.

47. Do something a little crazy every now and then. You could throw your coat over a puddle for her, this one is not very practical but it is super romantic, and will definitely get you some brownie points.

48. Re-create your first date.

49. Take her back to the place where she grew up.

50. Renewing your vows serves to strengthen and bond your marriage anew. Propose to her again.

It's really not difficult to be romantic, it just takes a little creativity, a little thoughtfulness, and a little more time spent showing consideration for her feelings.

Just keep in mind that it only takes a minute to say I love you and that minute can make a tremendous difference in how she returns that love to you.

 

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