Accepting Your Writing Style

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There is no one else who writes like you!

I think one of the hardest things for a new writer to do, is to just be themselves. To inspire them, I have reprinted here an article I wrote a few years back. May it inspire you to be yourself and do your own thing.

Dare to be different.

Dare to be unique.

Dare to be YOU!

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Created on 04/18/2007.
Last updated: 08/12/2008

You are The One and Only You! 

Once again, a post for fellow writers, kind of, something to think about, next time you set out to writing:

Do you accept your writing style? Many writers do not. If fact, it is far too common a thing for a writer to strive to write like someone else. Do you love Poe? Are you frustrated when you strain yourself for hours trying to write just like Poe did, only to find yourself sounding more like Dr. Seuss? Do you respond by throwing your piece away and starting again? Why?

    Why what?


Why did you throw your piece away?

    Oh, that? Well, it didn't sound like Poe.


Are you Poe?

    No, but . . .


Yes, that's right: No buts allowed. You are not Poe. You never well be Poe.

    But I love Poe, his stories are so. . .


Yes, I know! I love Poe too. His stories are wonderful. But Poe is dead. And he is not you. You are not he. You are you. No one else can be you but you. You are the only you the world well ever see. Poe was the only Poe there ever was. There well never be another Poe. There well be millions who strive to be Poe, but they well all fail, because no one but Poe can really be Poe. The sooner you accept that only Poe was Poe and only you are you, the quicker you well move past all this and become the writer you were truly ment to be: you.

    But


Uh! I said no buts! You are not Poe. You are YOU. There is no one else who can be you. You are special. There is no one else like you. YOU are the only one like you. Others may even try to be like you, but only you can be you. Poe cannot be you. You cannot be Poe. Poe was the only person who could write the poems and stories hidden deep within the heart and soul of Poe. Only YOU can create the stories and poems hidden deep within you. Accept yourself for who you are.

    But, Poe


Did Poe try to be like you?

    No of course not! Poe was Poe. He didn't try to be like anyone. He was a unique individual. He didn't try to be like no one. He was just himself. That's why I love him so much . . .


Ah! Did you hear what you just said? Poe was himself. He didn't try to be like you. He didn't try to be like Tennyson. He didn't try to be like Shakespeare. He didn't try to be like anyone. Poe was himself. Poe was different, Poe was unique. Poe has his own style. HIS OWN STYLE. Not a style he copied off someone else, but a style he created. That is why Poe stood out. That is why you like him. Because he did his own thing. Because he never did what other people did. Because he developed his own style and ran with it, instead of trying to copy someone else, gosh darn the consequences.


The lesson here? Be yourself. Don't try to copy others, it never works, you can never be anyone other than who you were born to be. Develop your own style. People well love you for it. Someday, you well be a classic, and a hundred years from now, your stories well be on the shelf along side your heroes, and people well be striving to copy you and your style. Accept yourself for who you are and you shall truly shine like the bright star you really are.

~~EelKat

 

 

Article Copyright 2006 Wendy C. Allen


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    Eclectic_Muse Eclectic_Muse Oct 3, 2008 @ 6:13 am
    It took me a long time to realize I am me. I believe it's a carry over from youthful magical thinking. When I quit trying to be somebody else, I fare much better. Love your article!
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    Tiddledeewinks Tiddledeewinks Jul 26, 2008 @ 10:49 pm
    Just found your lens. Nice job again!
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    bekat bekat Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:12 pm
    I graduated from high school and went off to college thinking I could become a new person in this new environment. What you say proved to be true, "you can never be anyone other than who you were born to be". Glad I learned it 40 years ago. I thoroughly enjoy being quirky weird and even boring sometimes ME.
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    EelKat EelKat Mar 22, 2008 @ 11:29 am
    AWK! a side effect of the server change hi this lens as well! All the punctuation marks have been turned into weird random gibberish! ick! Now I have go edit this lens back to normal too! oh well, eventually I'll get caught up on this, I just hope Squidoo doesn't do any more major switch things that result in so many errors on my lenses again!

    ~~Wendy
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    thoughtful thoughtful Feb 19, 2008 @ 5:18 am
    I hope all beginning writers, and even experienced ones read your lens. Being yourself and finding your own voice is the only way to reach your full potential. The road to finding your voice may be long, hard, and full of not so great work, but the end is magnificent.
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    mr0801 mr0801 Feb 3, 2008 @ 11:51 am
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    Christian Christian Sep 27, 2007 @ 3:24 pm
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    roseflr roseflr Jun 4, 2007 @ 9:40 am
    Hi- You gave me a message I needed to hear today. Lately I've been self conscious of the simple nature of my writing. I started a blog in which I write like I speak and then I was appalled to read other much more sophisticated blogs. Horrors! Now I can relax after finding this. Thanks.

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