Attract Love by Loving Yourself First

Learning to love yourself is the basis for accepting anything good in your life. It is the basis for having the law of attraction work positively in your life. You can say all the affirmations you want, do the dances, and work through any of your blocks, but if you don't love yourself FIRST and foremost, the work you are doing will fall on sallow ground.

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How can you learn to love yourself so that what the law of attraction brings you is a blessing instead of a curse?

Send the message of love to yourself:

1.Look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you love 'you.'
2.Treat yourself the way you would treat a dear friend or a lover.
3.Fall in love with yourself; make a list of all your wonderful qualities.
4.Close your eyes, take deep breaths from your belly, get centered, and then visualize yourself as a small child; hug this child close to you and tell him or her how loved and special they are.
5.Take yourself on a date. Go to a movie, a drive, a museum.
6.Get to know yourself-spend time with you-not with a crowd.
7.Take time in nature, take walks, start hiking or visiting places you enjoy.
8.Give yourself permission to have fun. Then do something fun.
9.Write yourself a love letter. Go ahead I dare you!
10.Buy yourself a gift, and don't feel guilty about it!

The bottom line is if you don't think you're worth loving, who from the outside of you can love you? If you don't think you're worth loving, the universe will return to you events, people, and circumstances that underscore that belief. It's not the Universe's fault, its how the law of attraction works.

The law of attraction will bring you everything you desire and quickly, when you learn to love and accept yourself, your faults, and everything about you, deeply and completely.

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I drew to me my soul mate using the law of attraction. It took me until I was 42 for that to happen because I believed what my early childhood life taught me, that I wasn't worth loving. But when I let that go, when I decided that NO MATTER WHAT, no matter if the universe brought me a soul mate or not, that I was worth loving, and if no one else would do it, at least I would.

Though you may be in a relationship already, loving yourself first puts you in a place where you can more easily express love to another person as well as opening yourself up to the bounty of the universe. When you truly love yourself, you feel really, really good.

When you do not love yourself, you don't feel good. For the well-being and abundance of the universe to flow to you, you need to feel good about yourself first.

John, Paul, George & Ringo had it right, All You Need Is Love. Don't hold back-love yourself deeply and unconditionally.

I know that you are worth loving. You are worth whatever it is your heart desires, as long as it involves doing no harm to another.

I know this because you are a divine child of the universe.

You're here aren't you?