How Are You Living Your Life?
Personal Development - The 'Be Do Have' Principle
Are you BEING the person you truly want to be?
Take a few moments and really think about who you are being right now and compare that to who you really want to be. Do you want to be a better father/mother, be happier than you are right now, be wealthier, healthier, skinnier, be better at your job or be a better business owner?
Most of us have been taught that we need to HAVE things in our life to allow us to DO what we want, allowing us to BE who we want to be (ie. 'When I HAVE more time, I will be able to DO the activities with my children therefore I will BE a better father').
In reality, we will never be the person we want to be if we wait to HAVE first.
If you really want to HAVE ultimate success in ALL areas of your life (personal and in business) you really need to start BEING the person you want to be right from now!
You really need to reverse this teaching of HAVING, DOING then BEING...
...and begin with BEING the person you want to be, which will allow you to DO the things this type of person would do, so you can HAVE the results this kind of person has. (ie. 'I am BEING the best father I can be, allowing me to DO the activities with my children and now I HAVE the time for them).
This article flips the HAVE DO BE teachings on its head and explores the BE DO HAVE principle. We look at why this principle is so successful in reaching goals and hopefully will inspire you to start living the life you truly want, today, without waiting until you have everything in place before you start living the life you really want to live.
Are you BEING the person you truly want to be?
Take a few moments and really think about who you are being right now and compare that to who you really want to be. Do you want to be a better father/mother, be happier than you are right now, be wealthier, healthier, skinnier, be better at your job or be a better business owner?
Most of us have been taught that we need to HAVE things in our life to allow us to DO what we want, allowing us to BE who we want to be (ie. 'When I HAVE more time, I will be able to DO the activities with my children therefore I will BE a better father').
In reality, we will never be the person we want to be if we wait to HAVE first.
If you really want to HAVE ultimate success in ALL areas of your life (personal and in business) you really need to start BEING the person you want to be right from now!
You really need to reverse this teaching of HAVING, DOING then BEING...
...and begin with BEING the person you want to be, which will allow you to DO the things this type of person would do, so you can HAVE the results this kind of person has. (ie. 'I am BEING the best father I can be, allowing me to DO the activities with my children and now I HAVE the time for them).
This article flips the HAVE DO BE teachings on its head and explores the BE DO HAVE principle. We look at why this principle is so successful in reaching goals and hopefully will inspire you to start living the life you truly want, today, without waiting until you have everything in place before you start living the life you really want to live.
HAVE-DO-BE
Why It Holds Us Back From Reaching Our Goals
When you ask anyone what they would like to have in their life, most would reply: 'I would like to have more money and happiness!'
And when you ask why they don't have that in their life right now, they would probably say that is because they are waiting to HAVE something first. And when they HAVE it in place, this will then allow them to start DOING what they want and BEING who they want.
Let me illustrate this in more detail:
Many people will say they will be their happiest when they have financial freedom. And it won't be until they have financial freedom that they will start doing the things that make them happy. So they don't start doing anything until they have the money...but how are they going to reach financial freedom and a happy life if they won't (or don't) act until they have it?
This is why 'waiting until we have what we want' holds us back.
Because we aren't being the person who is financially free and happy right from the beginning, and doing the things (and making the choices) that a person who is financially free and happy does (and makes), then the road to having financial freedom and a happy life will be tough.
And when you ask why they don't have that in their life right now, they would probably say that is because they are waiting to HAVE something first. And when they HAVE it in place, this will then allow them to start DOING what they want and BEING who they want.
Let me illustrate this in more detail:
Many people will say they will be their happiest when they have financial freedom. And it won't be until they have financial freedom that they will start doing the things that make them happy. So they don't start doing anything until they have the money...but how are they going to reach financial freedom and a happy life if they won't (or don't) act until they have it?
This is why 'waiting until we have what we want' holds us back.
Because we aren't being the person who is financially free and happy right from the beginning, and doing the things (and making the choices) that a person who is financially free and happy does (and makes), then the road to having financial freedom and a happy life will be tough.
BE-DO-HAVE
The Principle To Success
By being the person you really want to be right now, whether you have everything in place to reach your goals, or not, you will bring about the life you want sooner than later.If it's financial freedom and happiness you are aiming for, then start being the person who is financially free and happy.
Imagine that you are already financially free and start being that person. Walk like a person who is financially free. Make the choices that a person who is financially free will make. Do the things that a financially free person will do. Live like a financially free person will live. Feel like you are financially free!
Also, imagine you are completely happy. Start being the person who is completely happy. Choose to live your life being happy. Embrace the personalities of your children and be happy they are part of your life. Experience things that will make you happy. Do what happy people do...Feel Happy!
How Can I Start 'Being' When I Don't 'Have'?
It's Not What You Have, But What You Are Being
How can I live like a person who is financially free when I don't have any money? And, how can I be completely happy, without having the things that will make me truly happy?
If you want to be a wealthy home business owner (for example) who has plenty of time for your children doing fun things together, exploring and relaxing...then start BEING this person Right Now!
Picture clearly your future and what you want to have in your life when you are living your Ulitmate life...
...Now start BEING the person who has achieved it.
Working with the example above...
Start BEING The Person Who Is Wealthy:
>Sit with the posture of a person who already has wealth.
>Talk with the confidence, diction, influence and belief that a wealthy person talks with.
>Conduct business, make decisions and lead people like a wealthy person does.
Start BEING The Wealthy Person.
BE The Person Who Runs A Successful Home Business:
>Talk like a successful home business owner will talk.
>Build the business a successful home business owner will build.
>Organise your office like a successful home business owner will organize.
>Conduct yourself like a successful home business owner will.
Start BEING The Successful Home Business Owner.
BE The Parent Who Has Plenty Of Time And Fun With The Kids:
>Give your time to the kids like a parent with plenty of time.
>Create the fun a fun-loving parent would create.
>Be the consoling, sympathetic and loving parent would be.
Start BEING The Parent Who Has Plenty Of Time And Fun With The Kids.
Can you see where I'm going with this? You don't have to have money to start BEING wealthy. You don't have to have a successful home-based business to start BEING a successful business owner. And you don't have to have a lot of time to start BEING the parent who gives valuable time and has fun with your children.
All the material things will naturally happen because you are BEING the person who makes the decision to create the life you want.
Just start BEING the person you want to be. Make the decisions to DO what this person would do (as if you already have achieved what you're aiming for). Then you will HAVE everything you ever dreamed of because YOU started being the person who already had reached the goals way before you actually did...and that is powerful!
If you want to be a wealthy home business owner (for example) who has plenty of time for your children doing fun things together, exploring and relaxing...then start BEING this person Right Now!
Picture clearly your future and what you want to have in your life when you are living your Ulitmate life...
...Now start BEING the person who has achieved it.
Working with the example above...
Start BEING The Person Who Is Wealthy:
>Sit with the posture of a person who already has wealth.
>Talk with the confidence, diction, influence and belief that a wealthy person talks with.
>Conduct business, make decisions and lead people like a wealthy person does.
Start BEING The Wealthy Person.
BE The Person Who Runs A Successful Home Business:
>Talk like a successful home business owner will talk.
>Build the business a successful home business owner will build.
>Organise your office like a successful home business owner will organize.
>Conduct yourself like a successful home business owner will.
Start BEING The Successful Home Business Owner.
BE The Parent Who Has Plenty Of Time And Fun With The Kids:
>Give your time to the kids like a parent with plenty of time.
>Create the fun a fun-loving parent would create.
>Be the consoling, sympathetic and loving parent would be.
Start BEING The Parent Who Has Plenty Of Time And Fun With The Kids.
Can you see where I'm going with this? You don't have to have money to start BEING wealthy. You don't have to have a successful home-based business to start BEING a successful business owner. And you don't have to have a lot of time to start BEING the parent who gives valuable time and has fun with your children.
All the material things will naturally happen because you are BEING the person who makes the decision to create the life you want.
Just start BEING the person you want to be. Make the decisions to DO what this person would do (as if you already have achieved what you're aiming for). Then you will HAVE everything you ever dreamed of because YOU started being the person who already had reached the goals way before you actually did...and that is powerful!
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