Beat Shyness - Overcoming the Fear of Approaching Women

Here's the funny thing...

You weren't BORN shy.

Shyness is not an inherited trait.

It's something that is LEARNED.

It's a skill that is DEVELOPED over time.

In short: Shyness is UNNATURAL!

Human beings, by nature, are social creatures.
We're raised by parents, have siblings, etc.,
so it's natural to desire contact
with other human beings.

Any feelings that make you act contrary to this
desire are contrary to evolution.

They are DANGEROUS!

They are trying to deprive you of a basic human
need -- contact with others.

When you fall back on the crutch of being "shy,"
what you're really doing is training yourself
to do something that's inherently HARMFUL to you!

Being afraid of others is the equivalent
of having an irrational fear of food. Food
is something you NEED to survive! And if
you're afraid of it, you're going to suffer.

In this case, if you were dying of hunger
because you're afraid of food, would you
rather die of starvation, or would you
prefer to FORCE yourself to eat, despite
the fear, in order to survive?

This is the same dilemma you must face
when confronting shyness.

Would you rather suffer emotionally from
loneliness and fear?

Or would you rather force yourself through
the fear and enjoy human companionship?

I'm hoping you choose to FIGHT the fear.

And I'll help you do it.

You can do it by simply MEETING PEOPLE.

Keep reading, because I'm going to tell you,
step-by-step, what you have to do.

Go out EVERY DAY to meet 10 women. It doesn't
matter what they look like, how old they are,
whatever, as long as they are WOMEN.

Walk up to them and say:

"Excuse me, can I ask you a question? It
will only take a moment."

If they say "No thanks," just shrug it off
and say "Well, thanks for your time."

If they say "Yes," respond:

"I need some female advice on something. My
little cousin's (or niece, or whatever) birthday
is coming up, and I need to get her a gift, but
I don't know what little girls would like. Can
you give me a recommendation?"

Then when they give you the answer, say:

"Thank you very much. My name is (your name).
What's yours?"

When they give you their name, end it with:

"It was a pleasure meeting you (her name).
Thanks for the advice."

And then WALK AWAY.

That's right. You don't have to hang around and
chit-chat. You can just walk away.

Simple, right?

You might be afraid to do this at first, but just
remember that you're only asking them a QUESTION.

Nothing more.

You're not trying to get a phone number or a date.
You're just trying to break through your barrier
about meeting others.

In short: You're re-training yourself to
fight through your shyness!

Do this to 10 women every day. You're not
asking them out or anything, you're just
asking a question and introducing yourself.

If you keep doing this, you're going to notice a few things:

1. Meeting people isn't scary. In fact, it can be rather fun!

2. Most people will want to be engaged in conversation, and may
even ask you questions or try to engage you in a
conversation in return.

3. The people who don't want to talk to you aren't worth your
time. It's the ones who DO want to talk to you who are
worth while.

Now, this is only part of the solution to
finally overcoming your shyness for good.

For a complete run-down of how to build your
confidence and conquer your shyness forever,
you simply must, must, MUST check out Joseph Matthews'
revolutionary ebook The Art Of Approaching.

In it, he breaks down the act of confidence
building in such a way, even a three year
old infant could follow it.

And what's even more is -- IT WORKS!

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