Big Woman - Plus Size Clothes

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A Big Person Searching for Large Size Clothes That Look Good and Fit Well




What follows comes from the horse's mouth. I shall tell you about what it's like being fat, and in particular how difficult it is shopping for clothes - It seems to be the story of my life - looking for decent plus-size clothes.

I was a chubby child passing through various stages as a tubby teenager, a large lady, a magnificent mum, fat and forty and lately an overweight oldie.


Even my brain is big, and as for my ego........well!




Image: Me on a bad day -
I'm actually better looking than that -
By Diana Grant (me)

This is Me, Aged 6, With my Father

On holiday in Ostende, Belgium, just after the War - This Was My First Holiday Abroad


You can see I inherited his genes, and I was chubby, even as a small child.

Fortunately I inherited his intelligence and humor too.

All I can say is that I was destined for great things!

"Mafuta!" That's What admiring Africans called out when they saw me

When I lived in Zambia as a child

There's even a font style called Mafuta - here it is -


Mafuta Font

"Mafuta is a round, happy font, named for the Zulu word for "fat".

In tribal societies in Africa, where food was often scarce and almost never easily come by, it was considered desirable to appear "well fed". Roundness was a symbol of high status in the tribe, and a sign of wealth.

The up-beat, bold outline of the font celebrates the confidence of people who feel comfortable being who they are. The font manages to be both contemporary and African."

http://new.myfonts.com/fonts/scholtz/mafuta/

3 things you should know about Big

Firstly, It's time to ditch Fatism - a Fatwa on Fatism! - that's what I say!

Secondly, contrary to what you see in magazines, statistics indicate that there are a lot of us about

And lastly, we're very cuddly

Have your Say - What do You Think About Clothes Shopping?

I think it's boring at best, depressing at worst -

I'm fed up with misleading adverts for large clothes on standard sized models - what I want to see before I buy something is what someone like me would look like in the advertised clothes. And I'm not talking about a size 16 - I would like to see a model size 24 or more. And on different shapes, from big breasts to wide waists and huge hips, short as well as tall. And fat clothes designed by fat designers..........Yeah, that's what I'd like.
Image: At the Dressmakers

fashion with a small 'f' - why do plus-size clothes always get shown on small models?

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The clothes look better and hang better

MissionBoundCreations says:

When you're trying to sell something you use the best display methods you can find. Heavier models should used for a more honest perspective of the product. But alas, money speaks louder then morals

Gloriousconfusion says:

MarcoG:

It quite liked being lonely!
From doing dressmaking, I accept that an extra width of material is sometime needed. And do you not think that we are charged extra for that?.....of course we are. If you look at prices of various sizes of the same model, you will see that the prices rise incrementally in direct line with sizes.

MarcoG says:

I learnt somewhere that it was more about costs and commercials of a business. On smaller models, less material is used and thus a collection can be put together that is more economically viable. How true this is, I don't know...the left hand side of this duel looked quite lonely, so thought I would add to it :)

I would like to see clothes for fat people modelled by fat models

RykiBergstrand says:

What's the use of advertising Plus Sized clothing when it's hanging on stick thin women?? Instead of me wanting to buy said clothing, it makes me go cry in a corner and eat some more icecream.

beautiful says:

Fat women wearing nice fitting, sexy,hip/instyle clothes is what I want to see! I do not want to see another full size women's co. have muumuu's for fat women's dress's! If I wanted to wear a dam sheet I got plenty of those at home! I curves and I want to show those curves, I am already large I don't need a muumuu or like muumuu dress's making me larger looking! I also don't like the short shirts they are making! I'm a big women i don't do half tops, I'm trying to cover my stomach a little at least!

MiddleSister says:

I'd like to see more models in their fifties and older too. And shorter, wider models. When clothes would look good on realistic models, we would know they'd look good on us too.

mbrownauthor says:

I was just saying this last week. It makes me angry, Showing plus size clothing on a size 10 model. Really?!

GrammaLinda says:

I think using small models is false advertising.

Valdacious says:

I would like more clothes for all different sized people - variety is the spice of life and all that - :)

hamshi5433 says:

ohh am so against the SIZE ZERO hype too..no offence but size zero should rather be called Skeleton models.

Photahsiamirabel says:

How can I know if clothes will look good on me when they are modelled by skinny minnies? ;)

 
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Manufacturers seem to have forgotten we exist

Give us a Break!

Image: amptoons.com

It has taken me years to find Online Stores which sell really nice clothes in larger sizes. I can't understand why we are so poorly catered for - when you go into a big department store, if you are lucky you'll find a tiny section labelled 'Plus Sizes' stuck away in a corner and many don't cater for large sizes at all. Why don't all the big fashion houses cater for bigger clothes - Is it some kind of misguided back-to-front sensitivity that their clothes won't be flattered enough if they are adorned by large bodies? Why don't Tescos, Marks and Spencers, and Aldi's, to name but a few, cater for size 24 and above? Don't they realize that if the clothes were there, we'd buy them?

It is so hard to find nice clothes that shopping becomes boring and even downright unpleasant. Who wants to go shopping and end up disappointed? So we don't bother until we really need to, because it isn't fun.
Woman Bathing in a Stream
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Obviously there are many styles which wouldn't suit people who have large busts, waists or bottoms, but surely it is not beyond the realms of possibility for good designers to create fashionable clothes for different shapes and sizes.


And why do we have to have different and inferior fabrics from that which thin people have? Things which make you feel a pleb, or make you look unfashionable, boring patterns on skirts, mainly in dull colours. I have been looking for a full year to find a pretty summer skirt in an appropriate size and cut and a pattern which I really like in a bright summery colour. I still haven't found anything I feel is worth buying.
fairies,fat,plump fairies,fat,plump

As for nightwear, who buys these things? Stupid baby pictures and silly writing on night clothes - I for one have never, ever wanted a nightdress with a teddy bear on it saying 'sweet dreams' or some other inane statement. Why can't they be sexy or sophisticated - Janet Reger rather than Walt Disney, grown-up rather than retarded.


Image: "Darby" by
BigBigTruck at Deviant Art


Most of the attractive lingerie that you find in the shops for small people would be equally snapped up in the right size by large people.
Why do bra's for big girls come mainly in black, white or beige and severe heavy duty fabric rather than pretty lace?

And why do most cover-up full size pants (knickers to you Americans) come in boring patterns or plain material? If I want something pretty and lacy, I don't want it in short briefs that hang round my hips, exposing my belly button and all my fat bits - I want something to cover the stretch marks and flibby flobby bits, in some delirious mauve lace stretching right up to my waist, with a mauve matching lacy bra. Can I get it? Rarely. Do the manufacturers think that might make me look too flighty, mutton dressed as lamb and all that? If they had their way, would I be dressed in white bloomers, to distinguish me from flibberty gibbets? It is now possible to buy a few lacy things, but not necessarily the best quality from the most well known lingerie makers. And if you want a set, they all seem to go in for tiny briefs and high legs rather than cover-up briefs. I cannot be alone in wanting pretty but appropriate underwear.

I'm too old to care so deeply these days, but I hope the generation that follows me is going to be better treated.

Links to some Good Plus Size Stores

These are fashion stores I would use myself

I haven't bought things from all of them, but I have seen their catalogues or websites, or know them by reputation and feel comfortable recommending them.

One of these stores is for comfortable shoes. They are wide-fitting and comfortable.
Spirito di Artigiano Sizes 14 - 28
This is my favourite and the mail order Company that I use most often. The clothes are good quality Italian design. Mid-range prices.
Shapely Figures - Size 32-56 Lingerie
Nice lingerie, swimsuits and other clothes
Plus Size Beachwear
This is a Squidoo webpage and has some lovely beachwear - I haven't tried it
Curvy Diva
Plus size clothes - I haven't tried this site - might be OK
Evans
I get quite a lot of my clothes from them, reasonably priced, which is sometimes reflected in the quality of the fabric. Nonetheless, plenty of variety in styles, lots of low-cut briefs (one of my gripes!), and even wide fitting shoes.
Beige - Sizes 14 - 30
These are upmarket, fairly pricy clothes. There are three stores in London, each specializing in a slightly different range of sizes. I have visited one of their stores and the plus size clothes are lovely.
Fuller Fashions - Size 20 to 34
Fairly expensive younger fashions. I don't know this firm but the clothes look nice.
Plus Size Network
A Plus-Size blog about self acceptance, fashion, news items and so forth
Watercolours Fashions Ltd.
Wide range of fashions, Sizes 18 - 30. Upmarket and fashionable. Beautiful colours and fashions. Shop located just outside London in Beaconsfield New Town, Buckinghamshire (M40, junction 2) "carries one of the largest plus size ladies fashion collections for the fuller figure in the south England". opening hours:Monday to Saturday 9.30am to 5.30pm
Hotter Shoes
A good range of wide-fitting shoes, including E and EEE. Nice styles to suit a variety of fashion needs, and as I have bought several pairs from them, I can confirm that they are comfortable and of good quality.
Rushka Murganovic - Base
55 Monmouth Street, Covent Garden, London WC2H 9DG. Right in the centre of London. An appealing range of upmarket fashions - Designer clothes for larger sizes
Chums
Some of the dress materials look dire - very old lady patterns - but there are some nice coats, pullovers and nightwear at the cheaper and cheerful end of the market. I haven't tried them
Home Shopping Direct
I haven't shopped with them, but the clothes look attractive, at the cheaper end of the market

Links to News and Health Information for Large People


But before we start getting serious, here is something irresistible - a slightly crunchy, sugary, warm jam doughnut - can't you just smell it and taste it?

Mmmmmm

Reach out and touch it. Run your tongue over that crunchy surface.

There, wasn't that good?


And I've just read an interesting tip:

Curb Your Appetite Painlessly -

Apparently, if you eat a peach before a meal, it can reduce your appetite for up to four hours, because it contains pectin, a type of fibre - fibre helps to slow digestion, thereby keeping food in your stomach for longer. I haven't tried this, but I would clutch at any straw!

I will add more as I come across them (news items, not doughnuts)
Type 2 Diabetes Mellitus
Just a short page telling you what things to eat or avoid. Dark red fruit and Chlli's good, white flour, white rice, white bread not so good
What are the Best Foods for an Anti-Inflammatory Diet?
Very useful article. I tried Cherries and Strawberries in huge quantities and my arthritis felt better after one day
Obesity marketing campaign 'funds to end' - BBC News 7th July 2010
"Change4Life was launched in January 2009 to get people eating better and exercising more to tackle obesity."
The government is now aiming to withdraw funding from its public health campaign, health secretary Andrew Lansley says.

Thank goodness, say I - we're grown-up, just leave us alone to get on with our lives without moralising. We know what we ought to be doing, but life is struggle enough without being made to feel guilty just for looking at two jam doughnuts and a Mars bar.

Having help available should we want it is good, and we might come to it on our own. But we don't need this paternalistic approach of "the State knows best".

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About the Writer, Diana Grant

Who I am and What I do

Glorious Confusion

This is my website, currently under reconstruction. It contains chit-chat, a blog, photographs, poetry, books, earrings, Beswick figurines, a phonograph, ephemera, art and bric-a-brac, some of these things are for sale, and others just for entertainment.

Or maybe you might like my blog: Diana's Blog at Glorious Confusion which contains items on politics, North London, Poetry, Mennonites, Biggles and a few other things

Although retired, I still help people to write letters, proof-read things they have written and help to improve and pinpoint the essence of what they are wanting to say.

(You can contact me if you would like that kind of help - contact is possible through My Bio Details).

If you want more detail, you can go to my Bio at the top right hand side of this page. Or, if you prefer, you can go to my website, Glorious Confusion, where there is a page About Me

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I will be Writing More About Plus Sizes in 2012

And will add them as I finish them

At present this is the only other web page I have written about Plus Size - take a look:
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Here are a few of my lenses

A mixed selection

Hope you find something to interest you
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More plus-size things to wear

Large Clothes and Wide shoes


These are all Squidoo lenses or web pages, and you don't have to worry about whether the clothes will fit you - just worry about choosing the right outfit, and whether you'll have fun and draw compliments when you wear them

You'll find the Nurse's costume pictured on the left at the link below - Womens Plus Sized Costumes
Womens Plus Size Costumes
If you are going to a fancy dress party, this is the website for you - very cheeky Nursy, saucy Supergirl, sexy Sheriff, and a corsetted Tavern Wench, to name but a few - it's nice to know you don't have to wrap up in a sheet and pretend you are a Roman!
Dansko Shoes for Wide Feet
If you need large-size clothes, chances are you will need wide shoes as well. Plenty here.
Supersize Clothing
More useful information
Plus-Size Lingerie
Lots of lovely underwear, some a bit raunchy (not my style, but may suit some). There are lots of pretty bra's, pants and thongs as well. Not sure thongs are suitable for large bottoms, but I suppose it depends on your shape generally

More Featured Web Pages - Big Women

Big Women, Plus Sizes, Big and Beautiful

Take a look, you might find something you like
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Here's where you get to comment and leave your mark as you pass by

It's great to hear from people, even thin ones should have their say



You can talk about anything here,

doesn't need to be on the subject -

I'm not that bothered as long as you leave your mark

  • MissionBoundCreations May 24, 2012 @ 1:50 pm | delete
    I've been bothVery thin and Very Heavy. BOTH have their pros and cons.
  • merylvdm Jan 13, 2012 @ 8:28 pm | delete
    Found you when you added me on Google+. Love love love this lens. You are obviously a 'real' fun person as we say in the US
  • MiddleSister Dec 18, 2011 @ 4:13 pm | delete
    You are hilarious. Thanks for saying it for those of us with some"flibby flobby bits." And what about those of us who are short? Plus size clothes seem to be for taller people only. Hhhmmmmph! (Thanks for the jelly doughnut. It was perfect.)
  • mbrownauthor Jul 27, 2011 @ 7:49 pm | delete
    Another great lens. I love your style and your sense of humor!!!
  • GrammaLinda Jul 19, 2011 @ 5:17 pm | delete
    Thank you for such a great lens! I, too, have trouble buying clothes, so I wind up making most of them. See my Plus Size Sewing lens for more information. Thanks again, and thumbs up!
  • iandrzej Jul 12, 2011 @ 12:27 am | delete
    Good informative lens, good to know your interest about Plus-Size women... thanks for sharing.
  • Photahsiamirabel May 16, 2011 @ 11:17 am | delete
    These days I work in jeans and t shirts and lounge in kaftans.... :D
  • clothingplussize Apr 25, 2011 @ 9:35 am | delete
    It might be hard to find plus size apparel for women but with the help of the world wide net, online shopping is possible.
  • skiesgreen Apr 19, 2011 @ 6:40 pm | delete
    Well, this fits my size as well. I have almost given up on shopping for clothes. Fashions that are more suited to a dummy than a live person, pants that hang so far down you can almost see your knee caps, bras that are wired like gates, and clothes that hardly last long enough to get them home before something goes on them. Having bought a new sewing machine I am having fun making my own and surprising myself with the quality, look and money saved as a result. I am back into the designing business for myself. Great lens
  • Momsbusy247 Mar 30, 2011 @ 12:22 pm | delete
    Another great lens Diana, big women are beautiful, I know I am not a small woman and I think I look "Marvelous". Thanks for writing this.
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