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Caregiver Stress - The Impact of Caregiving Too Much

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Caregiver Stress - The Potential Impact of Caregiving on the Caregiver

 

Caregiver Stress is the emotional strain of caregiving for a loved one, or attending to the needs of a child or dependent adult. Caregiving can have a major impact on the caregiver's own health. Caregivers become so concerned about caring for their loved ones, that they may lose sight of their own health needs and overall well being.

Caregivers often report that it is difficult to look after their own health in terms of exercise, nutrition, and doctor's visits, while juggling caregiving with full-time jobs and parenting.

Additionally, Caregivers are more likely to suffer from depression than their peers and be more likely to have other health problems like diabetes and heart disease than non-caregivers.

As a result of the many demands, caregivers often end up becoming overwhelmed, and feeling irritable, angry, anxious, isolated and suffer from Caregiver Stress.

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A Quote on Caregivers and Caregiver Stress 

Thoughts on Caregiving from a Caregiver

    Being a caregiver is the most thankless role in the world.
    Everybody gives the patient some slack, as they should,
    but the caregiver has the stress of life
    and then you put a catastrophic illness on top of it
    ...the stress goes through the roof.

    Marcia Wallace

What is Caregiver Stress? 

Identifying the Emotional Strain of Caregiving

What is Caregiver Stress?

Caregiver stress is the emotional strain of caregiving. Studies show that caregiving takes a toll on physical and emotional health.

Caregivers are more likely to suffer from depression than their peers. Limited research suggests that caregivers may also be more likely to have health problems like diabetes and heart disease than non-caregivers.

Source: National Women's Health Information Center. Caregiver Stress. WomensHealth.gov January 2006.

YouTube Video on Caregivers from the Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation 

Featuring Dana Reeve

A very insightful view on what it means to be a caregiver for a loved one with a spinal cord injury.

The first thing you have to do is accept that this is your life. This is your life.
This is the new normal, like it or not.

You need to find balance in your life.
You need to be in it for the long haul.


Dana Reeve

Caregivers

Runtime: 16:35
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Reduce Caregiver Stress - Acknowledge All That You Do an Will Continue To Do 

National Organization For Empowering Caregivers

Take a deep breath and really acknowledge all that you have been doing.
You are an unsung hero and it is important
that you accept the beauty of who you are in this moment.
...look into the mirror into your eyes
and honor "yourself" for all you have been doing and will continue to do.


National Organization For Empowering Caregivers

How To Identify Caregiver Stress 

Symptoms to Watch

You may be experiencing too much caregiver stress if you notice that you have any of the following symptoms listed below.

Source: National Women's Health Information Center. Caregiver Stress. WomensHealth.gov January 2006.the time.
  1. Sleeping problems - sleeping too much or too little.
  2. Change in eating habits - resulting in weight gain or loss.
  3. Feeling tired or without energy most of the time.
  4. Loss of interest in activities you used to enjoy such as going out with friends, walking, or reading.
  5. Easily irritated, angered, or saddened.
  6. Frequent headaches, stomach aches, or other physical problems.

More Resources on Caregiver Stress 

Information for Caregivers on Caregiver Stress

These are resources for Caregivers to use to identify Caregiver Stress.
AMA (Public Health) Caregiver self-assessment tool
A Caregiver self assessment questionnaire available in English and in Spanish to help caregivers determine how they are coping with the additional challenges of being a caregiver.
Caregiver Stress -- familydoctor.org
Information about caregiver stress from the American Academy of Family Physicians.
Caregiver Stress
Information on and resources for coping with Caregiver Stress from the National Women's Health Information Center at WomensHealth.gov.
Caringinfo - Caring for Someone
A variety of helpful information from Caringinfo. Including "Acknowledging You Need Assistance" and "Respite - Taking a Break."
FamilyCaregiving101.org
FamilyCaregiving101.org: If you're caring for another person who is ill or disabled, this site was created for you. It's a great place to find assistance, answers, new ideas and helpful advice -- for you and your loved one.
Caring for caregivers
From Monitor on Psychology Volume 37, No. 10 November 2006 an online version of the Caring for Caregivers article.
Taking Care of YOU: Self-Care for Family Caregivers
An article from the Family Caregiver Alliance on the importance of "Taking Care of YOU: Self-Care for Family Caregivers."

Video on YouTube on Caring for the Caregivers 

Featuring Sandra Martin

This video is an continuing education program featuring Sandra Martin, Project Coordinator and Research Specialist from the Department Missouri Institute for Mental Health.

Care for the Caregiver

In this video Ms. Martin identifies and explains a multidimensional model of assessment that healthcare providers can utilize to improve their self awareness and performance as providers of care.

Runtime: 23:04
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Preventing or Relieving Caregiver Stress 

Ways of Taking Care of Yourself

One of the best ways of relieving caregiver stress is to take care of yourself.

Take the following steps listed below and begin making your health a priority.

Source: National Women's Health Information Center. Caregiver Stress. WomensHealth.gov January 2006.
  1. Take one day at a time.
  2. Find time for exercise most days of the week.
  3. Prioritize, make lists and establish a daily routine.
  4. Try to get enough sleep and rest.
  5. Find out about community caregiving and caregiver resources.
  6. Ask for and accept help.
  7. Stay in touch with friends and family. Social activities can help you feel connected and may reduce stress.
  8. Look to faith-based groups for support and help.
  9. Join a support group for caregivers in your situation (like caring for a person with dementia, Parkinson's Disease or Spinal Cord Injuries).
    Many support groups can be found in the community or on the Internet.
  10. Eat a healthy diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains and low in saturated fat.
  11. See your doctor for a checkup. Talk to her about symptoms of depression or sickness you may be having.
  12. Ask your doctor about taking a multivitamin.

CarePages - An Easy Way to Connect Caregivers and their Families 

Connect - Care - Share

CarePages can be a very helpful way for Caregivers to stay in touch and keep their families updated when a loved one is being cared for.

Utilizing this type of freely-available service is a way of helping to reduce caregiver stress.

Lots of Helping Hands 

A Way to Organize the Offers of Support



Lotsa Helping Hands was created after witnessing four years of awe-inspiring community support and response to a family member's serious medical crisis.

Seeing how earnestly friends wanted to help, and juggling the difficulty of organizing their assistance, the founders designed Lotsa Helping Hands with the understanding of how to bring together a variety of social circles and what a resulting community like this would need.

When designing their online organization system, they paid special attention to making the web service intuitive enough to begin using immediately.

There is no charge for this service to the users of any Lotsa Helping Hands web site.

Lotsa Helping Hands 

Helping to Organize the Helping Hands

Lotsa Helping Hands is a simple, immediate way for friends, family, colleagues, and neighbors to assist loved ones in need--developed for those times when friends and family need help.
Lotsa Helping Hands
This is the home page for Lotsa Helping Hands.

Squidoo Lenses on Resources for Helping Care for the Caregivers 

Tips for Managing Caregiver Stress

A selection of other lensmaster's lenses with various coping strategies for managing issues and stressors faced by caregivers.

Recommended Books about Caregivers and Caregiving 

Available on Amazon

A list of some of the books available on Amazon that focus on the caregivers as well as the caregiving.

May I Walk You Home?: Courage and Comfort for Caregivers of the Very Ill

Amazon Price: $8.76 (as of 10/12/2008)

Share The Care: How to Organize a Group to Care for Someone Who Is Seriously Ill, (Revised and Updated)

Amazon Price: $10.20 (as of 10/12/2008)

Chicken Soup for the Caregiver's Soul: Stories to Inspire Caregivers in the Home, the Community and the World (Chicken Soup for the Soul)

Amazon Price: $10.17 (as of 10/12/2008)

American Medical Association Guide to Home Caregiving

Amazon Price: $10.17 (as of 10/12/2008)

Reader Feedback on the Caregiver Stress Lens 

Your place for comments, messages, suggestions, ideas and feedback

Are You a Caregiver, or been impacted by Caregiver Stress?

Do you have any other good ways of managing Caregiver stress?

Be sure to leave your tips, comments, rank the site, pass on the word about the site (email) and leave a message (Reader Feedback).

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Thank you for spreading the word.

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Posted September 20, 2008

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Caregiver Carrie

Posted March 24, 2008

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Posted March 18, 2008

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Excellent lens! I've been a case manager helping caregivers reduce their stress. With total focus on their loved one, caregivers frequently state they have no time or energy left for themselves. You've done a thorough job providing much needed resources.

Posted August 26, 2007

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