Catch and Keep Him

Let me ask you something:

What are the things that women who are "smart" in love do that help them find and create loving and lasting relationships?

Great question.

I'll get right to the point. Here's a short list to get you started...

1) "Love Smart" Women Understand The Danger Of A Connection With A Man

How many women do you know who have dated "bad boys"?

Lots I bet. Maybe you have too.

What's with that?

After it's over, it's soooooooo obvious that things would have never worked with a bad boy, right?

The thing is, bad boys often create an intense level of attraction with a woman, almost by accident.

The crazy, wild, unpredictable things that they do, that might even be selfish or negative, can actually make a woman feel attraction.

Nod if you know what I'm talking about and you've ever been attracted to a bad boy or to a guy in a way that just didn't make any "sense".

When attraction strikes, logic and reason often goes right out the window.

After years of study, I've recognized that attraction works at a much more unconscious and subtle level than most of us like to think it does.

When it comes to feeling attraction, our minds don't just say to us,

"Hey, this guy just did something really sweet or has this great quality - I think I'm going to FEEL ATTRACTED to him."

It's nice to think that way, but that's not how it works most of the time.

Lots of women say that they "just felt something" when they met a man they were attracted to.

In fact, sometimes the guy isn't very nice or sweet at all, but she still "feels it" for him.

The difference is, "love smart" women understand that just because a man can make them FEEL attracted, it doesn't mean ANYTHING else about him.

Like if he's loving, mature, open and ready for a relationship, loyal, a good listener, etc.

A connection and attraction can be dangerous this way...

They make us FEEL things intensely for someone and fill in all kinds of blanks about them before we even find out what their true qualities are.

"Love smart" women know that there's WAY MORE to find out about a man besides how he makes them FEEL if they're going to get emotionally involved.

And they know how to go about finding these things out in a way that creates MORE ATTRACTION and interest from the man, drawing him in closer.

2) "Love Smart" Women Know That Being "Selective" With A Man Can Actually Make Him Feel MORE ATTRACTED And Not Just Scare Him Off

One of my favorite ideas is that what often works in life when it comes to other people are things that are COUNTERINTUITIVE.

I've learned that the choices and behaviors that people respond to in dating and relationship situations are no exception.

One of the most powerful and counterintuitive things that I've seen that women can do with men that both builds ATTRACTION and set things up for a better long term situation is being SELECTIVE.

Let me explain...

Lots of women who are looking to find deeper and lasting relationships think that if they're up front about what they want with a man when they're dating, and if they're "picky" about what kind of man they want to be with, that a man will somehow
be scared or even turned off by this.

They're right and wrong at the same time.

Immature men who aren't relationship material will get scared off... and it's a good thing,

Immature men, players, or emotionally unavailable men know that if a woman is clear about what she wants and she's being selective about the men she spends her time with, it's going to be harder and "costlier" for them to get what they often want - casual sex.

But mature men and emotionally available men who are the kind of men that a woman would actually want to continue talking to often become more interested in a woman when they see that she's being SELECTIVE.

It's a signal that a woman values herself, her life, her time, etc.

And, it also tells a man at a deep unconscious level that the woman is EMOTIONALLY IN CONTROL of her life - which is a strong direct signal that a
man will pick up on from a woman.

Being SELECTIVE helps women "naturally" remain in a positive state of emotional control and identify good guys who are "relationship material" from all the rest... AND does it in a way that happens to AMPLIFY the ATTRACTION a man feels.

But, a woman has to know how to communicate her SELECTIVITY without pushing shy or less assertive men away, or being seen as the stereotypical
"bossy" woman that lots of men talk bad about.

3) "Love Smart" Women Know How To Create The More Long Term Attraction With A Man - "Intellectual Attraction"

Men can and do fall quickly for some women.

And, often times it's a short-lived thing that ends as quickly as it began.

So, what are the things that make the difference when a man wants to stay with a woman in the long term?

What makes a man want to truly connect his life with a woman?

If you've ever even dated a man, than you know that it takes a whole lot more than just physical attraction for this to happen.

For a man, there's an elusive and more long term kind of feeling that a man has to experience for this kind of deeper connection to happen.

I call this deeper attraction "Intellectual Attraction" and it's something that I've spent
years studying.

Here's the GOOD NEWS-

I've put together some of my VERY BEST IDEAS on what ACTUALLY WORKS to create a deep level of lasting attraction with a man that can build a kind of "unbreakable connection".

All of these specific ideas, actionable concepts, and "love smart strategies" are inside
my ebook.

It's called "Catch Him And Keep Him" and it's the only book on dating and relationships out there that I know of that explains the actual inner-workings of how attraction with a man can lead to real and lasting love - and EXACTLY what
to do about it.

Of course, I've already shared with you a small part of one of the strategies that works to create "Intellectual Attraction"- SELECTIVITY.

There's an entire section of my ebook devoted to the topic of creating a connection with a man that he'll find almost "addictive", along with the lasting attraction that goes along with it.

I also cover, in detail, what to do about those common frustrating situations with men while you're dating or in relationships.

Because, as we all know, there's no such thing as a completely issue free relationship- especially when it comes to some of us clueless men.

The women who make great relationships work and last know how to deal with these situations with men when they come up, and don't waste all the precious time, love and energy that they've put in.

I bet you already know some of the situations I'm talking about that can quickly set your love life back.

Like when a man quickly withdraws and becomes "emotionally disconnected" or distant.

Or what to do when you find yourself with a "Player" type or a "bad boy" and you don't know whether you should try and "tame him" or set him free,

Or how to have "the talk" with a man who doesn't seem to want to or know how to move things ahead and grow closer with you - and it feels like things are slowly slipping away.

The scary truth is, if you don't know what to do and how to communicate with a man in these critical and unfortunately common situations, then odds are you won't find or create the loving and connected relationship you're looking for.

But, hold on - am I saying that if you read my book that you'll learn everything you'll ever need to know about men, dating and relationships.

Of course not.

We both know that's impossible.

But, you will learn the specific psychology, communication and behavior that has led woman after woman to happier, healthier and more love- filled relationships with men.

So, what are you waiting for?

Waiting for a man to figure it all out?

That would be nice, but at this stage I think you've grown enough to realize that it's almost certainly not going to happen that way.

But, I do have several communication "secrets" inside my ebook that will help you LEAD a man to start figuring things out ALSO.

That way, you won't have to do all the heavy lifting yourself when it comes to love.

So, go check out my ebook RIGHT NOW.

You can download a free trial of my ebook and be reading it in just a few minutes.

And best of all, I'll let you try it FOR FREE.

If you don't like my book for any reason, just email me and I'll refund 100% of your money -no questions asked.

And yes, I'm for real.

So, go here now and check it out: Click Here to Start Download the Ebook

And, best of luck in life and love!

Your Friend,

Christian Carter

When I first put "Catch Him And Keep Him" out there for women to read, I was honestly nervous.

I knew the information was fantastic and I'd done my homework, but would women be able to actually use it to find and attract the man they always wanted?

The responses I've gotten have been more than worth all the time and energy spent. Here's just a few of the great results women have had after reading and using this brand new information...

"Hello Christian,
I have read the book twice now! I have a few more wrinkles from not sleeping, but I also have my peace, power and integrity back. The book is truly empowering ... I thought that at this point relationships would be easy - you just gotta love someone with the same intensity, and you'll have a beautiful relationship a nd it will be reciprocated. Well not so, since the man I am attracted to is not on the same wavelength and this is where your book is so valuable...
Carolyn T., Thousand Oaks, CA"

"Christian,
Hey, what you said in your book sounds like you're a fly on the wall when my boyfriend and I had a discussion about our relationship the other night we don't even kiss anymore, he's distant and it's just like you talked about- I really feel like he's cheating because of the reasons you talked about but I know I love him. I'm great at communicating and he's not but I know what I've got do about my situation now after reading what you said about a man's mind and how to talk to him.
KC, Broken Hearted in Ohio"

"Hi Christian,
So far the things that you have written in your ebook especially about resistant and unavailable men have helped me tremendously with understanding my boyfriends non-verbal messages instead of taking it so personally like I have done in the past with other relationships. It can destroy a woman's self esteem and confidence. Thank you so much for de-mystifying your gender's behavior. You're a peach!
J.R., Galveston, TX

P.S. - I actually thought my relationship was over, but now I feel like there's a chance for it to work. Thank goodness because I never had more fun with anyone else!
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"Christian,
This was like a god send for me but I still wish I that I got this book a month. Then I could have saved myself from the stuff I just went through. I was just dealing with two of the things you talked about in your book on distant men with my boyfriend of four months. We live almost 500 miles apart. I was having the hardest time figuring out what to do and we were either fighting on the phone all the time or he wasn't calling me and didn't seem into us the way he used to be.

I've tried your ideas and so far things have been a lot better w/ us... probably also cause I've calmed down a lot. Now I can let him know what I feel & think and it's so much better.

Thanks Christian! I've told all my friends that they need to read Catch Him And Keep Him NOW!
J.R., Galveston, TX "