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Please...No Real Names: Let's Call Him "The Joker"

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  • Lily Jun 17, 2009 @ 3:17 pm | delete
    Ladies of all ages, listen up:

    1) When you meet a man and you get that uneasy feeling in your gut, don't even think of giving him a chance. Just RUN and
    don't look back.
    2) If you don't like him the first time you lay eyes on him, know that your instincts are right on the money.
    3) Get your heads checked out, if you think his many lies, however big or small, are harmless and justified.
    4) Don't be fooled or charmed by his empty words. Listen to your gut and watch his actions.
    5) And finally, don't believe a man who tweaks his own tune.

    Here's a short story about a decent and loyal girl meeting a real sociopath.

    I'm a much younger (almost 20 years his junior), sexy, highly-educated, and loving woman. Guess an intelligent woman should know better, huh?

    Throughout the whole relationship up until he was caught in yet another major lie, he would tell me how special I was to him and how lucky he felt to have me in his life. He claimed our sex life was the best he's ever had, something he'd never experienced before.

    I eventually began to listen to my insticts and wanted out of the so-called monogamous relationship. Therefore, I tried to convince him to go back to being casual, so we could date other people. He adamantly refused, claiming that he could never do that. "I don't want to date anybody else. I don't want any other women but you," he said to me on numerous occaisions. He would tell me and still claims that I am the only woman in his life, that we have a magical connection, and that he loves me very much.

    It wasn't until two weeks ago, when I began to seriously doubt his words and noticed all the red flags. Every time I confronted him, he would get very defensive and angry (another major clue). His arguments and lies would be so convincing that I actually would end up apologizing to this 20 year old wannabe immature, calculating, two-faced, pompous, hypocrite.

    His best asset is his ability to bullshit and manipulate his way around anything. He claimed that his ex-wife and an ex-girlfriend had cheated on him, thus playing the victim role (his second best trait). He is a pathetic excuse for a man. An insecure, unstable, selfish, vain, disrespectful, inconsiderate, shallow-minded, remorseless, weak, and a disgrace to the male gender. He is so in love with himself that it is impossible for him to consider other people's feelings.

    Despite the strange phone calls, the unexplained long absences, the tampon's wrapper in his bathroom (which he insisted belonged to his assistant who worked for him), hair band in his bedroom, and so many other clues, he denied and continues to deny cheating on me, telling me "I could never do that to you. Look me in the eye. I love you and would never disrespect you like that." He recently left a message on my voicemail, stating that "I have never felt, considered, or thought of cheating on you with another woman.

    After finding solid proof, I finally came to my senses and saw through him and his web of lies before getting too involved. I'm chalking this as experience and happily moving forward. I'm blessed to have met and known some strong, honourable, honest, intelligent, respectable, considerate, and real hard-working men in my lifetime. Otherwise, this low-life coward would have destroyed my faith in men.

    The moral of this true but sad story is to listen to your gut instincts, never fall prey to someone's fickle charm amd empty words, and date men who are in your own league. Don't lower your standards by dating someone who clearly does not deserve you or shares your values.

    Here's to all the men out there who are truly wonderful, have integrity, self-respect, and a clear sense of who they are. On behalf of all single women out there, we appreciate and would love to meet you.

    Btw: This post was created to carry out a promise that was made to humiliate this two-timing manipulative snake, who wanted to have his cake and eat it too. He almost got away with it.

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