Christian Marriage Advice

Praying together is just one way of worshiping God. This year has been the most enriching for our family as it relates to worshiping God and because of that we have become closer, happier and more fulfilled. We no longer are burdened by life and guilt out because we are constantly messing up. Even when we do mess up we are able to quickly make amends and move on.
One very important ingredient is making a decision to change as a family; this is what made the difference for Mark and me. We used team work. After Eve had given Adam the forbidden fruit in the garden, God did not call out for Eve, the scriptures say, "But the Lord God called to the man, "Where are you?" Today, God is still calling to the man to take spiritual responsibility for his household. This is true leadership. In fact it will be very difficult to lead in the other areas if you are not leading the way spiritually. When you take up the baton it will be easier for others to follow. It is unacceptable for you to be doing well spiritually while the rest of your household is faltering. It is your responsibility to help them up.

If you have children, they will need spiritual and positive guidance. As parents, you cannot allow others to mold them; that is your responsibility. Their counselors cannot be their peers because they themselves need to be counseled. Also, you may tell them to act one way, yet your life is a poor example for them to imitate. Children are natural mimics who act like their parents despite every effort to teach them good manners.
Do you lie? "Suzie, tell Mrs. Smith I am not at home, I really do not feel like talking to her today"; however, you scold them when they lie. Do you steal by bringing home the office stationery etc., but scold them when they are caught stealing? It is your responsibility to groom them, not only by your words, but also by your actions.
We have some friends who prepare at least two fifteen minute lessons that they share with their children every week. These lessons teach them how to live respectable lives, how to relate to their peers and how to fight temptation. They also use that time to find out about their struggles and reassure them that they can be victorious. How about you? If you have kids, do you spend times with them sharing your life, teaching them right from wrong or just listening to them? Do you have family devotionals and show them examples of young people in the bible and today's society who stood up for righteousness? Scripture says, "Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it."4 Do not wait until things have gotten out of hand and then you call in the guidance counselor, pastor or try to fix it on your own. Take on your responsibility, be the best parent you can be, teach your children to live pleasing, respectful and disciplined lives.
We hope that all we shared will inspire you to also take on the challenge as a family to have devotionals, pray together and stay together.

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