Let's face it. Conflict is a part of our everyday lives. That's because we are each unique and have different views on the same situation. That's what makes each of us interesting. It's how we deal with our differences that makes all the difference in our jobs, our relationships, and ultimately with our own success.
This lens will guide you through the "Martial Art" and science of conflict management and communication. You will learn how to deal with the most difficult people, how to speak commpassionately with others to preserve relationships, how to influence and persuade others to see your point of view, and how to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
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Articles By Tristan Loo
- The 3 Needs People In Conflict Have
- There are many human needs that people have, but in the context of an interpersonal conflict setting, three obvious ones come to mind. As simple as they are, these three needs are often the cause of unnecessary conflict or the escalation of a small
- How to Deal With a Difficult Boss
- 12 useful tips on how to deal with the boss from Hell.
- How to Identify a Manipulator
- Are you being manipulated? This article will help you identify manipulative personalitites.
- The Nature of Conflict
- A look at the nature of conflict from a Zen perspective.
- Understanding Anger
- This article discusses why we need to control anger, where anger comes from, and the danger signs of anger.
- Being a Compassionate Leader
- Orders are necessary for business, but they can cause underlying resentment and subterfuge. Learn the powerful secret to get anyone to carry out an order without conflict.
- Pain + Blame = Anger
- The process of anger consists of two simple elements and its when these elements come in contact with each other that produces an anger response.
Books & Products By Tristan
- Street Negotiation--How to Resolve Any Conflict Anytime
- We all want to get other people to see our way, but their conflicting views are the reason why frustration, arguments, and anger occur. How can you get even the most stubborn person to agree with you without provoking a fight? How can you successfully deal with the angry person who seems impossible to reason with? No matter who you are dealing with, Street Negotiation can show you how to defuse conflict and reach agreements...Anytime, Anywhere.
The Bookshelf
Street Negotiation--How To Resolve Any Conflict Anytime
Amazon Price: $25.95 (as of 12/02/2009) 
Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In
Amazon Price: $10.40 (as of 12/02/2009)
The Joy of Conflict Resolution: Transforming Victims, Villains and Heroes in the Workplace and at Home
Amazon Price: $15.56 (as of 12/02/2009)
Getting Past No
Amazon Price: $11.56 (as of 12/02/2009)
Tongue Fu!: How to Deflect, Disarm, and Defuse Any Verbal Conflict
Amazon Price: $10.17 (as of 12/02/2009)
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Tristan is a conflict expert and Personal Development Coach.
He owns a consulting company based out of San Diego County. Tristan is
a former p...
