Intro to Dating Asian Girls
Through my help you can be on your way to dating hotties such as Hyori Lee or Aki Hoshino.
Breaking the Stereotypes
Stereotypes about Asian girls that are untrue
Asian Girls Like White MenIt's not that Asian girls like white men, it's that Asian girls, like girls of all ethnicities, like men that are assertive and confident. This article pretty much breaks down why white guys are getting Asian chicks. White guys, in general are a lot more assertive than Asian guys. However, even so, the majority of Asian girls date Asian men (a statistic like 90% or higher). I've heard quite a bit say that they might prefer dating white men, but want to marry an Asian person. I'll attribute this mainly to Asian traditional values and the way our parents raised us.
Asian Women Like Black Men
Even more untrue than the previous stereotype. It seems this one came about mostly due to a video that went viral on Youtube.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOyRWuklsiQ
Truth be told, many Asian women actually prefer not to be with black men. I've seen one of my cute Asian friends back in College reject one of the football players. She told me that she's just not into black guys.
Asian Women Are Submissive
Wth? Asian women aren't submissive, that's for sure. But I've seen that many of them are more down-to-earth, especially the beautiful ones.
Breaking into their Cliques
All through High School and College I always saw a few white or black guys who hung out a lot with Asian people. This is necessary if you want to start dating Asians that aren't (as many of us Asians like to call it) white-washed. Because a lot of Asians will hang out with other Asians, breaking into their cliques is crucial. Start by making friends with Asian people and then, if you're at a University or High School, join Asian-themed clubs. You might even want to look at joining an Asian fraternity.You may come across as having "yellow-fever" if you're not Asian, however, if you are Asian then these steps shouldn't be hard at all. You should be able to fit right in. Don't be worried about these stereotypes because you'll find that most people generally will accept you no matter what ethnicity you are. As long as you have a good personality, then Asian girls will be attracted to you.
Difference between Asian girls and White girls
Do you need to treat Asian girls differently than White girls?
The short answer is yes. Especially if you're going over to China, Japan, Korea to pick up women.Physical touch is something that is quite different in different cultures. In general, the more "Americanized" the Asian girl is, the more they will be receptive to your physical touch. This was taught by master Asian pick-up-artist Asian Rake in his article.
Asian girls are generally also more conservative, especially in social circles where word can spread about them (in college). Occasionally you'll find a slut, just like any other ethnicity, but be warned that most Asian girls expect that if you sleep with them, that you will be progressing into a relationship. One night stands with Asian girls happen less often, but they still do exist. If a one-night stand is what you are looking for, then you don't want to ask this amongst girls in your social circle because not only will they probably decline because they are afraid of being labeled a slut, but they might also tell their Asian female friends about you (this is also for their own self-validation, to know that you wanted her sexually but she rejected you). The safe way to play with girls that are in your social circle is to begin a relationship first, sex later.
Resources
Here are a few more resources for you
Amped Asia is an online entertainment website that is catered primarily to Asians. But the reason you want to view their website is because they have a multitude of dating articles that are written by Asian men and women who are very knowledgeable on the topic of dating. Amongst their writers are master Pick-Up-Artist Asian Rake, Dating Guru Steven Lin, and Relationship expert, Vanae Tran.
Meeting Asian Women
This is an e-book by Travis that details some in-depth stuff about meeting and dating Asian women. I've personally read this and I find it (from an Asian male's perspective), to be quite a good resource for especially foreigners to figure out how to properly date an Asian woman.
Love Asian Women
Another e-book about how to date and win the hearts of Asian women. I personally have not read this one yet so I don't have a review for you guys.
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- fredie santos fredie santos Nov 16, 2008 @ 2:43 am
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