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Get your Ex to Return your Call!

 

Are there 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Introduction 

Believe it or not, there ARE words that will almost cast a spell, maybe compelling your ex to return your call.

Interesting, eh?

I am going to share this with you because I have learned that this is one of the biggest questions asked by people who are trying to put their relationships back together.

I found the Magic of Making Up System a while ago and it lays out an 'overall' plan to help you get your ex back, and with its help I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

I MUST WARN YOU - if you use these techniques without first working out an overall strategy then the chances are you may do more harm than good to your relationship!

What NOT to say! 

Don't do any of these.....

Before we get into the right thing to do, let's go over what almost NEVER works.

And worse still not only does it not work but it also puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

Generally, these usually fall into two categories.

The PLEAD
This is where the message is something like:

"Gary, please, please call me. This is the third time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

The EMERGENCY
"Jenny, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I'm guessing that you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches.....

Using Curiosity and Self Interest 

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

* Curiosity and
* Self Interest

When you combine both of these you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

Let's take a look at what you can say that will work nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi Garry. It's Jenny. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Gary will NOT be able to resist!

He will be thinking, "What did I do?" or "What does she appreciate?"

And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is working out what he or she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...BUT it needs to be plausible.

IMPORTANT
Please have an underlying strategy. Like the one laid out in the Magic of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique without an underlying plan in place and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is that what you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

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