Dads House Educational Center Manual
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Teaching Dads Their Rights & Responsibilities
Whether a man is dealing with a divorce or paternity case, it is very important to learn his rights, and responsibilities. Further, what steps a father should take to avoid going bankrupt paying legal fees on top of child support that are out of line with the ability to survive financially. The sections below will provide you with indexed links designed to teach you everything you need in dealing with Family Law issues. After reviewing, please sign Guest Book & Leave A Comment.
Contents at a Glance
Welcome Video
Facebook Group Pages
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Q&As
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Post questions here related to the issues addressed by Dads House in educating fathers, and all persons, about their rights, and how to address them in today's family law system.

Children of Separated Parents
Chapter 1: Table of Contents

In all the turmoil that surrounds the problems of separating, or separated parents, often the needs and desires of the children become lost. As much as possible, the children should not become a part of what is happening between the parents. They already have enough challenges ahead of them, even if they do not know it. Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
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Children of Separated Parents
Lacking Two Parents In The Home
Kids & Divorce: For Better or Worse
Video: Fatherless America
Results Of Fatherless Family Statistics
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Desires & Needs
A Child's Bill of Rights
Beginning Vocabulary
50 Phrases To Encourage Your Child
A Child's 10 Commandments To Parents
The 10 Do's Of Disciplining A Child
Reading Corner
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Children of America
Fatherless & In Need Of Immediate Intervention
Lead
Preface
Introduction
The Problem
Current Policies
Recommendations
Comments
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School Records
Federal Regulations
What The Regulations Mean To You
Questions & Answers
Sample Letter To Request School Records
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StepParents
Second Wife Club
Living In Step-Families
Premarital Expectations
Understanding Your Answers
Reading Corner
Stepparent's Right To Custody Or Visitation
Child Support & The 2nd Spouse's Income
Stepfamilies on YouTube
2nd Wife Club Store -
Our Youths & Teenagers
What Boys Do Not Learn In Sex Education
When Does The Child Deserve the Same Rights As A LEGAL ADULT?
Teens Earning Money In This Economy
Right Age To Get Married -
Writing Letters
Writing Legislators About Issues Facing Fathers
Sample Letter To Legislators
Writing Editorial Letters
Includes Editorial Letter Links To Top 100 Newspapers
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Useful Links
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships "must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness....the lack of a father's guidance in children's lives is a major cause of their suffering. "Marriage is the best child welfare, crime prevention, anti-poverty program we have".
Circle of Life
Telling a teen that their life will not end by waiting until they are mature for making adult choices.
Divorce
NonTraditional Families, & Its Consequences For Children
Fatherless America
"Ominously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless." Fortune Magazine
Fatherless America:
Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem
HELP!!! Parents Are Separating
Our Parents Are Breaking Up What Will Happen To Us?
Kids & Divorce: For Better or Worse
PBS Special
The American Myth of Divorce
Cell Phones For Kids
Getting Started
Chapter 2: Table Of Contents
With Knowledge Comes Power!
With Power Comes Rights!
By educating themselves, fathers can learn how to put together the needed materials, and evidence, to further their case, plus how to pick the right attorney with whom they can work as a team with a common goal. In far too many cases, a father will hire the first attorney they see, without conducting a thorough interview, and without first preparing materials to streamline the process, and avoid extensive legal fees.
Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
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Keeping A Daily Journal
Your #1 Piece of Evidence
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Chronological Statement
Preparing the way before speaking to an attorney.
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Recording Conversations
Using technology in the many states that allow it.
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Can We Tape?
Listing of State Laws
Attorneys & You
Chapter 3: Table Of Contents
One of the most important decisions you will need to make is choosing an attorney to work with you in attaining your goals. Your success in and out of the courtroom is crucially dependent upon the skills of your attorney. The outline below is intended to serve as a guide to consider in finding and working with a good attorney (male or female). Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
- Family Law Attorneys & You
- Interviewing
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To Be, Or Not To Be: Pro Se
Representing Oneself In Court - Help Yourself Divorce
- Family Law Terms
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Court Watchers
Maintaining Honesty In The Courts - Request For Continuance Of Court Date
- How to File Criminal Charges for Perjury
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Cornell Law Library
Available for research
Divorce Help
Chapter 4: Table Of Contents
DIVORCE!!! The Wretched D-Word
Any man faced with the possibility of a divorce is looking around wondering what they need to do first, asking themselves:
Do I need to immediately hire an attorney?
Will I be removed from my home?
What will happen to my child(ren)?
Will I lose everything I've built?
Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
Paternity Rights
Chapter 5: Table Of Contents
More than 40% of American children are born out of wedlock. The fathers of these children often will become involved in paternity cases to determine their parental responsibilities.
The issues of single fathers are two fold, covering those who are having children outside wedlock with a significant other, and those who have learned they are (or will be) a father by an ex, or that one-night-stand.
However, they share the same issues in that both are financially responsible for the child, and neither have any presumed "Legal Parental Rights" to the child, even while paying child support. Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
- Paternity: What Men Need To Know.
- A Fathers Rights Movie
- You & Your Unborn Child
- You & Your Ex
- How To Deal With A Claim of Paternity
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A Paternity Order Request
Completing a request for an Order of Paternity when you suspect a child is yours. - A Petition To Determine Paternity
- Depression In Men & Fathers
- Giving Up Parental Rights
- PreNatal Testing For Paternity
- Should There Be Mandatory Paternity Tests On All New Births?
- Challenging An Already Established Child Support Order Due To Non-Paternity
- Safe Haven Laws & Single Fathers
- Is Getting A Vasectomy Right Out Of High School The Answer?
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Married Girlfriend Is Pregnant By Me, What Happens Now?

A Consequence Of Cheating
Mediation
Chapter 6: Table Of Contents
Mediation of custody and visitation conflicts involve a process of short term counseling and may be ongoing, with a specific aim of helping separated parents resolve the emotional issues which prevent them from reaching satisfactory agreements regarding their continuing relationship with their children. An uncontested divorce or paternity action need not require the hiring of two attorneys. Using a Certified Mediator, a detailed agreement can be developed.
Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
Father Custody
Chapter 7: Table Of Contents
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but the reality is more about attorneys unwilling, and/or lacking the knowledge, to truly represent a father. This is why it's important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to learn what you can do on your own, rather than spending thousands of dollars paying an attorney to do the prep work.
Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
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Child Custody
Father Custody Of Their Children-Can They Win?
Contested Considerations
Basic Procedures To Be Demanded
Concepts To Be Made Apparent
Expert Witnesses
Specific Areas Of Questioning
Relationship With The Attorney
Venting Aggression, Slinging Mud, & Derogatory Testimony
Rights, Duties, & Responsibility Of Each Parent -
Joint Custody
A message about:
James Cook (1924-2009)
Father of Joint Custody
Obituary
The Case For Joint Custody
The Psychological View
Not Equality, But Best Interests
How Should You Conduct Custody?
From A Plan Into Agreement Or Decree
Awareness Of Case Precedents
Prepare For Appeal
Joint Custody Conclusion -
Bird Nest Custody
Bird Nest Custody
Debate
When The Kids Get The House -
Cooperative Parenting
Cooperative Parenting
What Is The Law
What Are The Needs Of Parents?
What Are The Needs Of Children?
Developing A Cooperative Parenting Plan
A Final Thought -
Considered Factors
Considered Factors
In A Decision To File For A Child Custody Modification
Evaluation Of Your Motives For Wanting Custody
Positive Parenting Factors
Accentuate The Positive Factors
Negative Parenting Factors
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Preparation
Prep & Interrogatories
Brief Background & History
Conclusion -
Other Articles
Child Custody Forms and Resources
Child Removed From State
Custody: A Child's Choice
Family Court Watch: Keeping Judges Honest
Military: Family care plan change addresses custody questions
Our Family Wizard
Visitation Rights
Chapter 8: Table Of Contents
Access rights to children can be a complicated issue, often with orders that leave open too much interpretation by the primary residential parent. Having a clearly defined order is very important. However, even with this, in 40% of the cases, the non-residential parent will be denied access, so learning how to also address this problem is also essential, especially how to do it without hiring an attorney.
Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
Child Support
Chapter 9: Table of Contents
What Child Support Payers Need To Know
Most divorced/single fathers must pay child support at some point. However, they have little understanding of the issue, nor do they fully understand how it affects their lives, and the lives of their children. They lack the knowledge of all their options, AND RIGHTS. Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
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- Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook
(Complete copy in PDF Format) - Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook
For Non-Custodial Parents (html format)
- Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook
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The Basics of Child Support
Child Support Jurisdiction
New Child Support Claim
Retroactive Child Support
Child Support Modifications
Departing From Child Support Guidelines
IRS Child Tax Credit
When Does Child Support End
Contempt Of Court For Non-Payment
Child Support & The 2nd Spouse's Income
How Does Having Another Child Affect Child Support?
Child Support Fraud-You're Not The Dad!
Child Support Is Not Being Spent On The Kids
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If a father is unemployed AND ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR WORK, and if that father is imprisoned on contempt of court for non-payment of child support, then the sentencing Judge has done NOTHING to alleviate the father's inability to pay. Instead, the Judge has aggravated the situation by denying the father the ability to seek employment. If the judge is not a part of the solution, he is a part of the problem.
Abuse Allegations
Chapter 10: Table Of Contents
Falsely accusing a former spouse of abuse, whether domestic or child abuse, is a common tactic in the Family Court System. Don't be surprised if your ex throws this one at you. Given the current political and social attitude towards child abusers. It has become a witch hunt to eradicate these animals from our society.
Click here for a video preview of the chapter.
Domestic Violence
In The News
On Fathers Rights
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Reading Corner
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Want To Help?
As most members of the Dads House Educational Center groups know, I'm disable and living in a nursing home in the Kansas City Metro Area. Except for when my health prevents it, I work 7-days-a-week online for the benefit of fathers, along with creating materials useful to the state chapters of Dads House.
I am limited in what I can do with the equipment and software I use. My oldest daughter did obtain Microsoft Office Suite for me last year, and TechSmith Inc donated a copy of Camtasia Studio for the creation of videos for the Dads House YouTube Channel. However, there is always a great deal of work to be done for fathers, and other types of software, as well as some equipment, would help in the process. Below are a few items that Dads House could make use of.
My oldest daughter was laid off her job, so she can not longer help financially, and the nursing home gets to keep my Social Security Disability, otherwise I would blowing that money on Dads House. Consider the purchase of one of the items for the group. They can be sent to me at the address below.
Anyway you can help would be appreciated.
George R. McCasland, Dads House Moderator
Home Address
Indian Meadow Nursing Center
6505 W, 193rd Street, Room 219B
Overland Park, KS 66212
If you wish to simply contribute toward Dads House Educational Center & Groups, you can do so at this LINK.
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dems571
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- I to wish I found you 4 yrs ago. Still fighting false abuse CSC charges even so I have been cleared of all crininal charges including 6 other false statements some even ptoven to be inpossible. The besy statement I have heard is this " the destuction of America is the family court". I fear for my country and 12 yr old son. We have lost our civil rights. I must say I regreat serving in the US Army. I am in Michgan. God bless all and pray.
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- Fantastic site George. I wish you were around for my husband and I years ago. He lost years with his children because of the court system. What matters is you are making a big name now. I'm spreading the word my friend.
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Phil Holman
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- George: I seem to recall we used to have a questionnaire for judicial candidates....Do you by any chance still have a copy, or another one you can send me to use as a template?
Thanks,
Phil
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George_McCasland
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- I have four children, all within my wedding vows but your reading here was very well written and I'm glad I read it tonight. For that, I'd like to give what I can and that is why I gave your lens a 'thumbs up' in the way that you told this, thank you.
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- We try to serve the needs of the many. Note, there are also videos available for these lens at:
http://www.youtube.com/user/DadsHouseEdCtr
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George_McCasland
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- Actually, the material for it was first developed in 1991 with the help of my wife and a family law student. The student helped refine the first manual we developed. We sent it out on 3-hole punch paper, and later made it available through a PDF download as the Internet came into being.
It has been a 20 year project. I'm now working on creating videos of the manual for YouTube for those with difficulty reading it, they can listen. Nothing real fancy as all I have to work with is this laptop.
http://www.youtube.com/DadsHouseEdCtr
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