How To Get A Girl

Wondering how to get a girl? Why don't you ask one? I've spent a lot of my 22 years having guys jumping through hoops to get my attention, so I'd say I'm qualified on the subject.

I'm going to explain how to get a girl based on what works on me and girls like me. Follow my advice, you'll be leagues ahead of the competition.

How to Get A Girl - Ten Tips

1) Get an interesting hobby

You need a hobby that isn't nerdy or lame. The best scenario is you'd love to dance. If that's not possible, learn to play guitar and don't be shy when you do it. You want something that you can do in front of her that will interest her and she can brag about to her girlfriends later. "He played guitar for me, and it was sooo cute."

2. Be sporadic, unpredictable, different

Do not always necessarily do what you believe a women expects. Don't buy her flowers until further in the relationship. If you get all formal you will look like you don't know how to get a girl. You want to look like a pro. Don't take her to a movie, take her some place fun. Think of something new to do together that will be fun and unique. This does not need to be expensive, maybe take her to miniature golf or to race miniature cars if you have such a place available. You want to be new, different, and exciting. If you learned to dance you have an excellent opportunity to win points if she likes to dance, because guys never seem to know how.

3. Practice your social skills

Practice your skills involving interaction with other people. Don't brag or belittle others in the company of your date. Try and bring out the best in others and make them warm up to your personality.

4. Be funny

You wanna know how to get a girl? Make her laugh. All girls like funny guys. Don't be a clown, but say something fun when the situation is awkward or you have nothing else to say. Laughter reduces tension and makes us feel more relaxed. It takes some of the stress out of getting to know each other. Have a few funny stories ready to tell at any given time that you can call upon when you wish you have something to say. If you're waiting in line with her, tell her a short story that will keep her mind off the wait and on how fun you are.

5. Ask good questions

Don't ask a bunch of empty questions to fill the conversation, rather ask things you want to know about, and show that you are paying attention in the response. Learn how to get a girl comfortable talking with you and involved in the conversation. If she tells you a good story, reward her by showing you enjoyed it with laughter, smiling, and good eye contact.

Keep the conversation going smooth by feeling her out and knowing what sort of things she likes to discuss.

6. Take risks

When men express their feelings it shows them as strong. Hold her hand, touch her arm. Put your arm around her when the time is right. Give her a kiss if you think she wants to kiss you. This is VERY important! The more you do it, the easier it gets.

7. Ask for help from friends

If you aren't comfortable about something before the date and need help, utilize your friends. Ask the most experienced friend that you have, and get a second opinion. Ask for general tips as well, see what you can learn. Ask a female friend to go on a practice date with you if you haven't been before. She'll be able to give you some information that is useful and show you mistakes you made.

8. Cook for her

Establish yourself as a knowledgeable partner that can provide for her by making a nurturing meal without any of her help. It does not have to be fancy. Go for something easy like a steak and potato with salad and side. Women think this is very sexy, and are very likely to be enthralled with your ability because noone else has cooked for them before on previous dates. Even if it does not turn out perfect, she'll appreciate the effort.

9 Pay attention to body language

Body language is really complex, but some things are easy. Watch your friends, and watch couples wherever you go. You should be able to recognize the kind of general mood a person is in the way that they move and hold themselves. Notice how relaxed people are when they laugh, they look as though they don't have a care in the world. When people are uncomfortable, they are tense and taking up little space with their bodies. Learn to read body language, and you will be armed to take risks that pay off.

10. Be energetic

Girls don't want bummers. We don't like guys that are moody and bored or indifferent. Don't make us pick where we go all the time. Don't be quiet. Pay attention to the mood, and if it is getting boring, have plans ready. If you're at dinner and the food is awful, get the check and go do something fun. Say to her "let's blow this joint, I know where ..." and get moving. Wear her out on the date and make her feel like it was this big, enjoyable event. Be contagious in your happiness and energy.

Bonus tip: You want more success at something? Double your failure rate. Just ask more girls out and spend more time with them.