How To Save A Marriage

If you are interested in knowing how to save a marriage, which is either:

• not going so well right now, or
• just ended, and you want to reconcile and get back together with your ex, then
  

...this just might be the most important information will will ever read.

Why?

I am more than happy to explain 3 proven ways to how to save a marriage. These have been used and tested repeatedly to not only bring couples back together, but make the relationship even stronger than it was before.

First, I must confess - All of my advice is here is not what you are used to reading. I am going to come clean with you right now and tell you that I am not a professional relationship counselor.

In any case, this really works. It works because it is based on human nature, and the one thing you can be sure will never change is human nature.

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First, never "promise to change", never beg, and never plead. This one might worry you, but it is critical. Understand that if you do any of these things, you will come across as needy, weak and even worse - pathetic.

Does any of those sound attractive to you? They shouldn't - It is not human nature to be attracted to those qualities.

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Second, Speak to their inner voice - the one they hear inside their head. Seems a little strange... I know - but let me explain.

Understand that your mind plays back thoughts, pictures and sound bytes over and over again. When you have a fight with your partner, especially if they "snap" back at you, your mind will play that "track" over and over.

This can last for hours, and often days after the incident, and your "inner voice" will continue that conversation... This WILL plant the seeds which could lead to breaking up.

Guess what? This is also happening in the mind of your partner or Ex.

Here is the point: When you tell your partner, out of anger, that you never loved them... that you wish they would leave... you are glad they are in pain... Then that is the ammo you give them to shoot down any chance of making up.

As hard as it might be at the time, it is critical that you leave with the best "picture" of you in their mind. Plant these positive "seeds" - something that you can return to and nurture.

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The third step for how to save a marriage is actually two parts:

1. If your relationship is about to fall apart:

I'm going to warn you -- This won't be easy. Find only ONE major thing that you did wrong and apologize for it, right now. An apology will begin to close the distance that was cause by your wrongdoing. This is extremely effective; and remember, at this point it is NOT important who is actually in the wrong. This is very important because you NEVER want distance. The more distance there is, the more of a chance there to break up.

2. If you have already broken up, and you want them back:

Don't be their friend. Spread yourself thin and keep some distance between you. By making yourself unavailable you instantly make yourself more desirable. Don't feel sorry for yourself or mope around. Go out and have fun. Do positive things, like go to the gym... All while leaving the door open for your ex... And wait.

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