How to Seduce a Girl

Tell her that she smells good and ask what she is wearing.

Lean in, brush her hair aside, and sniff her slowly, moving up from the shoulder to the ear.

"Mmmm, that smells good.
"People don't pay enough attention to smell.
"But you'll notice how animals, before they mate,
will always smell each other.
"Evolution has hard-wired us to respond to certain things.
"See how you are hot-wired to respond when someone smells you?"

"It's like when someone pulls the back of your hair."
Then I run my hand up the back of her neck and grab
a fist full of hair at the roots and pull it, downwards.
"You'll notice how lions, when they mate,
always bite and tug at the end of each other's mane, right here."
She says
"mmmm..."
and I say
"see...."

Then I talk about how
"no one knows this, but the most sensitive places
on the body are places that are usually
hidden from contact with the air,
like the back of the elbow (touching it)
and knee (touching it). Any place where
your body bends, twists, or folds, there are
millions of sensitive little nerve endings that
release endorphins."
Then I take her arm, bend it a little, and
erotically bite the area on the opposite side
of the elbow. She usually gets the chills,
and I ask her how good it feels.

If you don't know how to bite a girl erotically,
it might pay handsomely to practice on your own
arm before you take a bite out of hers. Take a
big chunk of skin and slowly and firmly slide your
teeth together until they meet and release the skin.

Then I say,
"But did you know ...the best thing in the world
is...a bite...right...here."
I point to the side of my neck.

I might add
"this has to do with the fact that
it is where the jugular vein is most exposed,
and since most sexual fantasies have to do with
submission and vulnerability, it sends all the
fantasy signals flying."

Then I'll expose my neck and say,
"Bite me right here" as if I expect her to do it.
Usually she will. If she doesn't, I just turn away
calmly, wait a few seconds, and then turn back and repeat,
"Bite me right here."

Half the time, her bite is lame so I say
"That's not how you bite. Come here."
Then I give her a good bite on the neck and
instruct her to
"try again."

This time, she does a great job.

Now you look her in the eye...
smile mischievously/approvingly, and
say...very slowly...
"not...too... bad."

Then glance down at her mouth...
look up at her eyes...
and...
yes...finally...
and if she's ready...
you...
may...
if you want...
kiss!

1. Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes.
2. Manage your reputation. While people around you begin to like you, you may start to appear phony or plastic. Occasionally hint to people that you enjoy the company of young girls on a purely platonic level. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, "Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed" or "my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that's okay because they put up with me at night."
3. Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is drop-dead gorgeous, ignore her. After hearing about your rakish reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.
4. Hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other's opinions very highly and they get jealous easily.
5. Wait for the sign that she is interested. The gorgeous girl was ignoring you at first and now she flirts heavily. The not-so-attractive girl was shy and hesitant at first, but now she drops (very subtle) hints that she wants you to make a move.
6. Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, MySpace, family,TV shows, or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about exotic vacation spots, mythology,sex (sometimes), history, astrology, dreams, fate, and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don't express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes.
7. Show strategic weakness This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl's idea of "the one." All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don't talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about.
8. Give her plenty of space There are bound to be things about you that she doesn't like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.
9. Ask her out You will eventually learn what the right time is-not too early and not too late. If you flirt with a girl over a long period of time, you will notice that the slow, steady increase in the attention that she gives you is followed by a sharp drop-off.
10. Obey the correct sequence of physical interactions Don't move too fast. Wait for her to touch you flirtatiously. Hand-holding is next. Then comes close contact and embraces. Then comes kissing.

How To Seduce A Woman - The Art Of Making Her Feel Unique

Author: Scott Salter

I find it interesting what phrases men use when they're asking me for advice on how to seduce women. They predominantly fall into the "how to seduce women" camp or the "how to seduce a woman" camp. Now you may feel that the difference between the two phrases comes down to nothing more than semantics BUT there is a subtle difference in the psychology behind each of the questions.

When a man asks how he can "seduce women" his thoughts are usually along the lines of how he can go about securing multiple partners whereas someone interested in securing "a woman" is usually interested in just one woman (or at least one woman to start with!) Once again, you may be thinking semantics, but the point is that women can differentiate between the vibe given off by a man who is interested in "women" as opposed to a man who is interested in her as "a woman".

There are two major principles that you need to adhere to when seducing a woman:

1. Make her feel good (and specifically feel good about herself) when she is with you and;
2. Make her feel unique.


Regardless of what tactics and techniques you employ when engaging with a woman the end result you're looking to achieve is that she feels good whenever she's around you. If you achieve that, then she will want to continue being around you and will start looking to ways in which she can intensify those good feelings i.e. she will want to have things taken into the physical realm.
But the point of this article is to focus more on the second point - which is about making her feel "unique". I've seen a lot of guys who consider themselves to be players whose high energy approach can certainly engage a woman (or a group of women) but they do it in such a way that women quickly cotton onto the fact that they're being "played". Does that mean that these guys go home empty handed? No, but their hit rate would pick up if they also made sure that the woman they were wooing also felt incredibly unique as well.

Everyone - regardless of whether they're a man or a woman - suspects that they're unique at the core of their being. Taken to its extremes, this "uniqueness" will manifest itself as either loneliness or high self regard. Common sense would suggest that whenever you're interacting with someone else you can either pick up on a point of difference about them and make them feel bad about it (by judging them) or make them feel good about it - by commenting favorably on that point of difference.

Now let's tie this all back in to the subject at hand: seducing a woman.

What you have to be doing is make a woman feel both good AND unique. You can achieve both aims by commenting on some aspect of her appearance or her being that you simply haven't found in any other woman. It doesn't matter if this is true or not. What matters is that she feels that here is a guy who is savvy enough to pick up some unique aspect about her that all the other guys are missing. And what's more, if you've noticed that particular aspect about her, she'll be wanting to know what other favorable things you've noticed about her ... and if she's thinking that way, then she's definitely going to want you to stick around.

You could call it the "princess" phenomenon: that part of every woman's psyche that believes she has so much to give if only the right man would "discover" her. Regardless of whether your seductive intentions are short or long term: play on this phenomenon and make her feel as she's "a woman" - the likes of which you haven't come across before - and the rewards will come thick and fast.

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So you've met the girl of your dreams, the one that makes your heart
go apitter-patter, the one you intend to marry and churn out midgets
with, the one you've been waiting for your entire life.

The only problem is, you're not the man of her dreams. Oh she likes
you okay, doesn't mind spending a little time with you now and then,
but doesn't want to have a romantic relationship with you. She wants
to be "just friends." Arrggghh!

I feel your pain, brother.

One of the most common questions I get from Don Juaners is how to go
about turning a friendship into a love relationship. How to charm
this girl that you know, this girl that you fantasize about, the one
who wants to be "just friends." How to make her fall head over heels
for you and, perhaps even, start her thinking a few deliciously
lustful thoughts about your derriere (the tramp!).

Well, I'll tell you right up front, there is no ONE technique. No ONE
method or secret that will get her awantin' you bad. It's a
combination of hundreds of little things. Everything you do,
everything you say, everything you think, and everything you believe
make up your PERSONALITY. And it's your personality which will be the
impetus for her liking you, loving you, or even hating you.

Remember, your dream girl's no idiot. She wants the total package.
She's not going to fall for some dopey little trick you picked up some
place on the internet. However, she may fall for hundreds of dopey
little tricks that you've mastered and incorporated into your own
unique personality.

Now given that you understand the "total package" concept, there are
definitely a few things that you can do - focus on - which can help
you out in this area. Things which will greatly increase the
probability of her experiencing the desired emotional response toward
you (that being increased liking, increased attraction, and maybe even
love).

Today we're going to discuss a psychological phenomenon known as
Response Facilitation (RF). RF refers to the process of strengthening
the dominant response in a particular situation. For our purposes
here, we're going to use it to refer to the strengthening of emotional
responses. In other words, making that girl who sorta likes you,
REALLY like you. And making that girl who sees you as a "friend," see
you as, maybe, a little more than that.

However, keep in mind that RF can work in other, unwanted directions
as well. That is, you could take a girl who dislikes you, and make
her REALLY dislike you. Take a girl who is angry at you, and make her
REALLY angry at you. Or a girl who is afraid of you, and make her
REALLY afraid of you. In other words, an intensification of her
dominant emotional response toward you. So beware.

So how can we intensify emotional responses via RF?

Well, before we get into that, let's briefly delve into the nature of
emotions themselves.

Emotions basically consist of two parts: a cognitive component (what
you're thinking) and a physiological component (what you're feeling).
The cognitive, thinking component determines WHAT emotion you're
feeling... while the physiological, feeling component determines the
INTENSITY of that emotion.

For example, if you're angry with someone, you're thinking all kinds
of "angry" thoughts about that person (He's an idiot! This is not
fair! I'm going to kill him!). You're also experiencing certain
physiological sensations throughout your body that indicate to you
that you're a little more than just displeased (increased heart rate,
increased blood pressure, mild sweating, adrenaline surging throughout
your veins, etc.). And the more intense the physiological aspects
become, the angrier you FEEL.

.....to be continued

Okay, so how about love? You meet the girl of your dreams, and you
begin thinking: "My God, she's beautiful. She's adorable, charming,
and witty. I think I'm in love!" Your body also begins a somewhat
automatic reaction to her presence... or maybe even just the thought
of her (increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, mild sweating,
adrenaline surging throughout your veins, etc.). And the more
intensely your body reacts, the more "in love" you feel. And what a
wonderful feeling it is.

So... notice anything interesting about the two emotions above? Yes,
the physiological components are pretty much the same. The difference
between being extremely angry, and being in a state of infatuation or
love, has more to do with the cognitive, thinking component, than with
the physiological, "feeling" component. You're thinking "angry"
thoughts in the first example, and "love" thoughts in the second.
Your body is reacting pretty much the same in both instances. And the
more intensely your body reacts, the more "angry" or "in love" you
feel. (Ever heard that saying that there's a fine line between love
and hate?)

Now we're not saying that the physiological response is EXACTLY the
same. It's not. But for our purposes here, they're similar enough
that we can treat them as if they're the same.

So the "secret" is that we can use states of physiological arousal to
intensify emotional responses. Remember, the arousal part of emotions
is pretty similar from one emotion to the next, and the amount of
arousal present determines the INTENSITY of the experienced emotion.
Thus, it would be to our benefit to set up situations where our "dream
girl" is highly likely to experience increased levels of arousal, and
to pair ourselves with that arousal.

So, in a nutshell, we should be able to take a girl who likes us (mild
physiological arousal when we're around) and make her REALLY like us,
by adding "extra" arousal to the situation. The extra arousal will
summate with that arousal which is already present so as to increase
the intensity of her emotional response toward us.

How bout a real world example. A few years ago two of my friends,
we'll call them Bob and Julie, decided that they wanted to get in
shape. So they started going to the gym together and working out
almost every day. Now these two were complete opposites... two
people that you couldn't possibly imagine ever getting together...
two people that had no business even considering the idea.

Now I'm watching this situation with great interest to see what, if
anything, develops. Two complete opposites working out together every
day. The physiological arousal from their workouts creating the
perfect environment for RF occur... and a "love" relationship to
bloom.

Yes, I pretty much "knew" what was going to happen. But I didn't say
anything to either of them. This, in my warped little mind, would be
an excellent little experiment. And would be a great test of the
"power" of RF. Could it actually pull two people together who were
complete opposites? I wanted to know.

Well, by now you can probably guess what happened. Within a few weeks
they were boinkin' like crazy... hanging all over each other like a
couple of love-sick teenagers (yuk!).

Yes, the physiological arousal from their workouts was so powerful in
intensifying emotional responses that it paired off even complete
opposites. Fascinating!

(Incidentally, guys, the girl was drop-dead gorgeous and the guy was
average-looking at best.)

Similar things happen all the time, although most people don't really
understand what's going on.

Take the couple who "gets off" on having sex in public places. What
they're essentially doing is taking the excitement generated from
doing it in public, and the fear of possibly getting caught, and using
that extra bit of arousal to energize their sex lives, and their
feelings for one another.

Or how about the couple that regularly gets into heated arguments with
one another, maybe even escalating into acts of physical violence...
but usually winds up ending the night with extremely hot and
passionate sex. They're basically using their anger arousal to fuel
their passion for one another.

Or ever notice that movies are funnier when you watch them with others
than when you watch them by yourself. The presence of others is
arousing, and this extra arousal helps to intensify our reactions to
the movie. (Remember that tip I gave you a while back, that if a
woman laughs at your lame jokes, then she probably likes you. Same
thing.)

Okay, so how do WE use physiological arousal to make her "love" us...
or at least like us a little more? (Arguments, fighting, fear, and
other sources of negative arousal are NOT recommended by the way.
It's best if the arousal you're using is of a pleasurable, or at least
neutral, nature.)

Answer: By simply doing enjoyable yet arousing things together.

There is an endless variety of physiologically arousing things you can
do with your "dream girl" which can help to intensify her emotional
reactions toward you (and, by the way, intensifying YOUR emotional
reactions toward her... you were warned). Most of these things
involve something which I've come to label FUN. Now most people don't
have a clue what FUN is or how to go about achieving it. And it's
usually the last thing on their minds when trying to decide what to do
on a date. After all, dates are supposed to be tense, stressful,
serious, getting-to-know-one-another things. Right?

Wrong!

You know, now, that FUN and arousal leads to love and passion. You
just have to use your imagination and come up with some innovative
ways to generate the "extra" arousal you're going to need.

Ever had a "date" at an amusement park? What FUN! Thrilling
rollercoasters, drenching waterslides, breath-taking ferris wheels.
What a perfect date. What an arousing date.

Instead of dinner and a movie, how about dinner and dancing. Movies
do nothing but take your minds OFF one another for a couple hours.
But dancing involves FUN and arousal. Excellent.

I've already mentioned working out together. Not only will the
physiological arousal make you look more appealing to her, but you
just might wind up getting in shape too.

How bout those new indoor rock climbing places popping up all over?
Or bowling? Or riding your bicycles together? Or rollerblading? Or
a friendly match of tennis? Or a concert or sporting event where you
get to stand up and yell a lot? These all involve FUN and arousing
experiences and will help to intensify her emotional reactions toward
you.

Do you have a motorcycle? This is a goldmine. Stick her on the back
of it (unless she's deathly afraid of it). Not only will she be
physiologically aroused from the ride, but, as a side benefit, she's
got her arms wrapped around you the whole time. mmm.

I've mentioned just a few of the hundreds of ways available to boost
the arousal level. Use your imagination. And always listen for any
suggestions she has that involve increased arousal and say, "That
sounds like FUN."

Allen Thompson
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