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Steps to getting custody
Determine that you want custody.
This seems obvious, and should be. The first step to getting anything in life is to determine, that you want it.
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Determine why you want custody.
Is it for your own selfish reasons? Is it for emotional well being of the child? Is if for the physical safety of the child? Is it to use the child as a bargaining tool to get something from the other parent? Is it to complete something you lack within yourself? Is it for child support? Are your reasons based on your needs, the needs of the child, or something else? I hope that is for the needs of the child. Please be honest with yourself. This is a very important step in the process.
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Determine what it is that you are willing to give up, to get what you want.
There is never something for nothing. Insuring that you get custody of your child (or children) is no different. What is it that you have, that you can give? Is it time? Custody battles can be very time consuming. One thing you can do that takes time is to create a journal of every thing that you think might help you in court. You will need to keep this journal in real time. Another thing that takes time is to call attorneys and private investigators. The more you call, the more likely you are to hire the right one for you. You may also want to spend time researching them on the Internet, or seeking out referrals to insure ou find the best for your situation. The other thing you may have to give up is money. You should hire an attorney. If you there is anything going on that will need to be proven in court, then you most likely also need an investigator. Not hiring an investigator when you should could mean paying up to 20 times as much in attorney fees. It is much cheaper to go to court with video proof one time, then go to court 8 times with out.
Things that might be relevant in a custody hearing
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Person drinks alcohol before being around child
In other words, drunk in presence of child or whil more...2 points
Person smokes excessively around child
Espescially if child has astmas or other health is more...2 points
Overnight visitors of opposite sex
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Best Child Custody Attorneys
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Tulsa, OK - Robert W. Giles
1912 West "C" Street, Jenks, Oklahoma1 point
Tulsa, OK - Robert "Hap" Fry
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Tulsa, OK - James R. Gotwals
TULSA, OK, Oklahoma law firm focusing on, Family, more...0 points
San Jose, CA - Daniel Jensen
http://www.danieljensenfamilylaw.com0 points
Family Lawyer Brisbane
Choosing the right family lawyer Brisbane can seem more...0 points
Lawyer in Adelaide
South Australia ★ Best Lawyers in Adelaide & more...0 points
Family Lawyers Sydney
Looking for the best family lawyer in Sydney who c more...0 points
Private Investigators that specialize in child custody cases
Tulsa, Oklahoma - Sting Investigations, Inc.
Tulsa's leading investigative agency. Oklahoma pri more...0 points
www.chesapeakegroupinc.com
Do you need a Private Investigator or Bail Bondsma more...0 points
Full Service Private Investigative Agency and Consulting Firm
David G. Duchesneau, CFC, CII<br />
General more...0 points
Child Custody related blogs
Books that may help you in your quest for custody of your child.
Child Custody A to Z: Winning with Evidence by Guy J. White
Help! is the first word a parent yells when dealin more...0 points
Winning Custody: A Woman's Guide to Retaining Custody of Her Children by Deedra Hunter, Tom Monte
You never wanted to be in this position, but you a more...0 points
The Child Custody Book: How to Protect Your Children and Win Your Case (Rebuilding Books) by Judge James W. Stewart
This book fully, clearly, and concisely explains t more...0 points
A Comprehensive Guide to Child Custody Evaluations: Mental Health and Legal Perspectives by Joanna Bunker Rohrbaugh
Whether assessing general family functioning or sp more...0 points
What Every Woman Should Know About Divorce and Custody (Rev): Judges, Lawyers, and Therapists Share Winning Strategies on How toKeep the Kids, the Cash, and Your Sanity by J.D., Gayle Rosenwald Smith, Sally Abrahms
Women are still discovering-the hard way-just how more...0 points
Joint Custody with a Jerk: Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex, A Hands on, practical guide to coping with custody issues that arise with an uncooperative ex-spouse by Julie A. Ross, Judy Corcoran
Parenting is difficult enough in a family where th more...0 points
Your Right to Child Custody, Visitation and Support, 4E (Your Right to Child Custody, Visitation and Support) by Mary Boland
With the divorce rate above 50 percent and climbin more...0 points
Sting Investigations - Investigative Issues
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