What is Living Large?
Living large is my way of saying "Be your passion, be your dreams."
I always dreamt of being an entrepreneur, a writer, and world traveler. That was when I was a kid. When I was an adult, I realized I could stop dreaming and start doing.
That's what this lens is all about: living large so you can make room for all your dreams and accomplishments, give them some space, and breathe life into them.
You don't have to have money or privilege to live large (read my article titled "Dress Like a Movie Star," posted below), just some creativity and the right attitude.
This lens is a way of sharing the experience of living large. It also contains some of my writings on travel, lifestyle, wine, humor, inspiration, and links to my other published articles and current projects.
Enjoy and Live Large,
Laura S. Scott
Living Large on a Budget
Dress Like a Movie Star
Remember Bjork's funky swan dress, Cate Blanchett in her stunning crystal mesh gown?
The big Oscar contenders are outfitted by the top designers--often for free. The rest of us would have to pay big bucks to look like that, right?
Wrong. One U.S. company has made its mark copying those dazzling red-carpet gowns for a fraction of the price you would have to pay for the designer version. Allen B. Schwartz (A.B.S) stylists work around the clock at Oscar time to duplicate these looks and ship the dresses to retailers within four weeks of the award ceremony. Priced at $220-$350, you really can have the celeb look on a prom-queen budget.
Knocking off designer duds is common-place. There is a saying in the fashion biz: "Nothing is new, just recycled."
Speaking of recycled, you may have noticed that more than a few starlets have been showing up on the red carpet in used gowns; wonderfully made, gently used clothing, worn proudly by the likes of Charlize Theron, who, when asked what she was wearing, smiled and said "Vintage Gucci."
So if Charlize can do it, why not us? Every season, millions of fashion mavens spend small fortunes on new clothes. Much of last season's duds end up in consignment, or resale, shops. Some are donated to thrift shops which benefit charities. Some still have the tags on them.
I wear used and vintage clothing, but, more often then not, the clothing was mine to begin with. Some of my best pieces never get donated. They are stored in a large garment bag and kept for years. Remember those cowl-necked tunic sweaters you wore in the late eighties, and the leggings with the slouchy suede boots? Well, they're back.
I even have a pair of kid leather pants from that decade. They fit me perfectly. They were my husband's.
You may have noticed, in the paparazzi photos of movie stars, a casual elegance. Gwyneth Paltrow, in her yoga gear. Nicole Kidman, in jeans and dusty boots. Some how they pull it off, they manage to look good. How? Their posture, their smile, their presence...their sunglasses. What would Elton John be without his signature specs? Sometimes it takes only one striking accessory, and the attitude to carry it.
Shortly after I met my husband, well before I met the leather pants, I noticed he wore a pair of Sperry Top-sider boat shoes, the right shoe red, the left shoe green. I thought this quite odd until he explained that when a sailor comes back into port he navigates by the red and green buoys that mark the channel. The red buoys should be kept to the right when returning.
The fact he wore these shoes even when off the boat impressed me. He's not timid, I thought. He has the strength of character to risk the perception he's just a dork who mistakenly walked out of the door with mismatched shoes. That's the kind of man I want to be with.
Style is more that just stuff. You can fork over a couple thousand for clothes and a makeover and still feel less than. Besides, it's much more fun to get the same look for a hundred or less. I spent ten years in the fashion business and came out of the experience with an appreciation for good styling at wholesale prices. When you've bought beautiful silk blouses direct from the factory in China for $5 it is hard to go back to paying $90 for the same thing. Take my advice: don't.
That new cropped wool hound's-tooth jacket you love is marked up to twice or three times its cost. Wait three or four weeks and it will likely be marked down at least 25% off retail. Better yet, bypass the racks of new arrivals and head straight for the clearance racks at the back of the store, were you can buy clothes closer to the retailer's cost.
Don't want to wait? Go to a discount retailer like T.J.Maxx. They don't advertise the designer lines they discount, but I will: Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren Polo, BCBG Max Azria, Guess, and Echo Unlimited, to name a few.
One caveat: don't buy something just because it's cheap. Buy something cheap because it makes you look and feel like a million dollars.
That's living large.
Links to Laura's Articles
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Review: Seadream Yacht Club
Published: Unscripted, January 2007
Copyright: Laura S. Scott
Croatia: The Best Place You've Never Been
Published: Unscripted, September 2007
Copyright: Laura S. Scott
Twenty Things To Do Before I Die
Published: Unscripted, October 2007
Copyright: Laura S. Scott
TOPIC: Childless by Choice
Single White Female, No Kids
Published: Unscripted, April 2007
Copyright: Laura S. Scott
The Delinking of Marriage and Parenthood
Published: Unscripted, August 2007
Copyright: Laura S. Scott
No Kids and No Pets
Title: No Kids and No Pets
Published: Unscripted, July 2007
Copyright: Laura S. Scott
Living Large Links
Some of my current favorite links.
Travel Cheap at Travel Zoo
This Week's Wine Picks from Wine Spectator
Editor's Picks
Be a mentor! Big Brothers Big Sisters
Find an Agency Near You
MORE: Websites, Lenses, and Blogs
Here are other places you can go to see what I'm up to...
- The Childless by Choice Project
- The website for Laura S. Scott's current "work-in-progress:" The Childless by Choice Project--a research, book, and documentary project on voluntary childlessness in North America.
- Living Childfree
- Laura's other squidoo lens on the Childless by Choice Project, including a summary of the Childless by Choice Project Survey, and other links to cool childfree sites and articles.
- Purple Women & Friends Blog
- This is one of my favorite blogs designed for people who are childfree by choice or by circumstance. A flame-free home for all: parents and non-parents alike. Caveat: Forgive me for my bias, I am one of the contributing editors of this blog.
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