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Marriage Advice Christian - Save Your Marriage
Unfortunately, too many times, we are not up for the challenge and take the easy road out. The divorce rate is currently hovering at 50%- WOW! Half of all marriages ending in divorce? This is not God's plan for you. You have a choice to make, and I hope that choice will be to Save your Marriage. With prayer, hard work, and God's help, it can be done. You simply have to have a willing heart, a humble attitude and be ready to be challenged to change. .
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Is your marriage struggling, even to the point of a possible divorce? Do you feel like you have tried everything you can think of, and still nothing seems to work to help fix your marriage? Have you been praying and asking God to help you save your marriage? If so, then let's talk. Your marriage can be saved, but you are going to have to do your part to make the changes that will keep your marriage together.
Do you remember the story of the man at the well of Bethesda (John 5)? It is a great story because this poor man had been laying beside a healing pool, but is unable to be healed because he can't get in the water. Jesus asks: "do you want to be healed?" Part of what is behind this question is how desperate is the man for healing? Does he just say the words or does he take action?
It is time for you to ask the question: Do you want your marriage healed? Praying is the beginning point. Taking action is the next step. You have to be willing to do something to help your marriage. You have to get up and work at it, make changes, find new perspectives, and have a hopeful outlook that God WILL help you fix your marriage. Doing nothing, but hoping things will just get better is futile. Action is required.
If you don't know what to do, don't worry. You can learn. The key is finding the right help, from a trained Christian professional who has been doing this type of work for a long time. Finding someone who shares the same faith in Christ is going to make a difference. The program I have seen that will show you HOW TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE is by Lee Baucom. It is called Save Your Christian Marriage. I truly think it is worth your time to find out for yourself what you think about the program. You have nothing to lose by reading a bit more.
Getting started is the first step
Just because you and your spouse are Christians doesn't mean that you don't or won't have difficulties in your marriage. If you find yourself in this situation, you may have tried reading many of the popular marriage books for Christian couples, gone to Christian marriage retreats, sought the help of a Christian marriage counselor or your pastor and still, you and your spouse are drifting further and further apart. Some of the reasons for this are that you are focusing on the wrong things to fix your marriage.There are underlying factors that direct your thoughts, actions and attitudes in every part of your life. It is like a filter that everything goes through before it comes back out. Your spouse has their own filter, and it shapes the way you hear them, view their actions, make choices etc. Many times this is the source of the tension you are facing.
A good marriage counselor will help you to identify these filters that you send everything through, how that affects everything down to the way you interact with one another, and how to move forward in a positive way. Once you are your spouse have a clearer understanding of these factors, you can then become much more of a team, a "we", rather than two adversaries finding yourselves on opposing sides of issues.
This is awesome~ once you develop a strong sense of "we", things really start to click. You feel like a team; decisions come easier because you are on the same side. Mutual understanding and respect can change the entire scope of your marriage. Love can be rekindled. Your marriage can become all God intended it to be.
You can start right now.
Don't let the thought of having to GO to counseling stop you from getting help.
You can start today. It's that simple. In your way, on your time, from the comfort of your own home, at your own pace.Lee Baucom's program is exactly what he uses, in his office, when he does face-to-face marriage counseling with couples. To be able to help more marriages, he has put together this program for people to implement at home. He also knows that good marriage advice for Christian's can help stop the divorces that we are seeing, but not everyone is willing to go to a counselor for help. Having a program you can implement right at home alleviates that stumbling block for couples.
What Does the SAVE YOUR CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE Program cover?
This program takes all of the information the Lee Baucom uses in his one-on-one counseling sessions to couples and gives it to you in a program you can do with your spouse. He covers so many things.1. THE secret to saving your marriage, starting today.
2. God's Plan for your marriage.
3. The Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.
4. The true secrets of healthy, stable, loving marriages.
5. How your Christian beliefs and faith can transform your relationship.
6. How to assess the stage of your crisis (there are 8).
7. How to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.
8. What to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your
marriage!
9. Why Christians should and could have a "leg-up" in dealing with problems in your marriage.
10. Why "hard work" on the relationship isn't always the answer.
11. How marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage's future.
12. Why "low mood therapy" is destined for failure and how "high mood relating" makes the difference.
13. How to move beyond emotions and take action!
14. How to find the North Star of your relationship, and why it matters.
15. Why true intimacy is a lot closer than you think--and how to get there!
16. What the TIE Elements of Communication are, and how they can transform your communication.
17. How to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!
18. What the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.
19. Why arguing is a waste of time -- and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.
20. How to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
21. Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.
22. How to deal with problems involving sex or money -- and how to bring God into those areas.
23. How to make radical shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.
Much, much more about how to transform your relationship, with God's plan and help.
In short, how to have the marriage of your dreams and prayers.
Marriages don''t break; they erode over time.
"Each time a sarcastic or hurtful remark goes without repair or apology some of the bond that holds a couple together fades away. Each time a spouse fails to identify an emotional need of the other and attend to it, a little more glue disappears. Each time a conflict is avoided because the couple despairs of constructive discussion and resolution there is more erosion. And each time sex is refused or avoided because one of the partners feels emotionally disconnected the process accelerates."
Save Your Christian Marriage- Even if only You and God Want To
This Is A Method That Is HelpingTens Of Thousands Of Couples To
Turn Their Marriage Around. . .
And It Works With Only ONE person Trying!
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Olita
Sep 5, 2009 @ 6:58 am | delete
- what happens to a marriage where the husband is not as intectellect as the wife?is he excused from repeating the same mistakes continuously despite the fact that issues had been worked out.
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