Meet People: 10 great ways to Meet People
Meeting people is a skill. Like any skill, it can take time and practice to meet people easily and effectively. Not everyone can meet people easily. For some, it can be extremely challenging and even embarrassing to meet people, especially meeting new people.
This lens gives TEN tips and hints about how to meet people easily and effectively.
Books About How to Meet People
How to Win Friends & Influence People
Amazon Price: $11.20 (as of 07/26/2008)
The Secret Language of Success: Using Body Language to Get What You Want
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How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
Amazon Price: $10.85 (as of 07/26/2008)
The Power of Meeting New People: Start Conversations, Keep Them Going, Build Rapport, Develop Friendships, and Expand Business
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Goodbye to Shy
Amazon Price: $10.85 (as of 07/26/2008)
Advantages of Meeting People by Online Dating
Books about Internet Dating
I Can't Believe I'm Buying This Book: A Commonsense Guide to Successful Internet Dating
Amazon Price: $10.17 (as of 07/26/2008)
Online Dating for Dummies
Amazon Price: $11.55 (as of 07/26/2008)
Internet Dating: Tips, Tricks and Tactics
Amazon Price: $11.95 (as of 07/26/2008)
Meet Me...Don't Delete Me. Internet Dating: I've Made All The Mistakes So You Don't Have To!
Amazon Price: $14.95 (as of 07/26/2008)
Disadvantages of Online Dating
The secret to internet dating is not to take the 'relationship' too seriously until after the first face-to-face meeting has taken place. Use the internet dating process to select a few interesting people and then meet them as soon as possible. If the person is not who you imagine them to be, forget it and move on.
Be A Rapid Dater
Meet People With Speed Dating
A Speed date is an organized event where people meet each other over a series of short dates, lasting anywhere from 3 to 10 minutes. At the end the "date", the organizer gives a signal and the participants to move on. In this way, each participant can meet anywhere from 10-30 people. At the end of the event each dater gives the names of people that they would like to see again. If there is a match the organizers provide both people with contact information.
Speed Dating Via the Internet
An innovation in Internet Dating
online dating reinvented: speed date on the web
SpeedDate is the first online speed dating site. We allow you to join speed dating sessions from the comfort of home using your webcam, microphone or IM. We believe that speed dating is the most fun and quickest way for you to meet great people on the web. Check out SpeedDate.com
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Books About Speed Dating
SpeedDating(SM): A Timesaving Guide to Finding Your Lifelong Love
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Speed Dating: The Smarter, Faster Way to Lasting Love
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Succeed at Speed Dating
Amazon Price: $5.91 (as of 07/26/2008)
Meet Up
From Wikipedia: Meetup.com is an online social networking portal that facilitates offline group meetings in various localities around the world. Meetup allows members to find and join groups unified by a common interest, such as politics, books, games, movies, health, pets, careers or hobbies. Users enter their ZIP code (or their city outside the United States) and the topic they want to meet about, and the website helps them arrange a place and time to meet.
For example, if you are in Zurich, Switzerland and are interested in Books, you will find The Zürich Book Club Meetup Group. Or if you are in NYC and like Ballroom Dancing, you will find your group there.
You just signup and you will receive an email informing you of the next time and location that the group will meet.
Meetup allows you to personally meet people with similar interests right in your local area.
Meet People By Helping People
Do Community Services
Habitat for Humanity
United Way
Volunteer Match
Volunteer Solutions
Red Cross
Take Salsa Dance Lessons
If you are going to take dance lessons, by all means take SALSA dance lessons. Salsa is a relatively new fashion and there are Salsa dance clubs everywhere. So, after you have taken a few salsa lessons you can start going to salsa clubs and meetine people there. Since Salsa is a couples dance, you are expected to ask people to dance with you and this is a great opportunity to meet someone who looks interesting. If you take any other kind of dance lessons (ballroom, tango, jazz, etc) after you have developed your skills you will find very few places to use them.
Learn To Salsa Videos
SalsaCrazy Presents: Learn to Salsa Dance, Beginners 3 Pack: The Complete Beginners Salsa Dancing Guide
Amazon Price: $86.99 (as of 07/26/2008)
The Quick & Dirty Guide to Salsa - Complete Collection
Amazon Price: $59.98 (as of 07/26/2008)
Sexy Salsa Clothes
Women will look HOT in these dresses at a Salsa Club
d188 Sexy Marilyn Monroe Halter Salsa Dress
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Ruched Ruffle Halter Dress
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b007 Handkerchief Hem Salsa Skirt
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Get A Job!!
Dealing With The Public
1. Because you have to constantly interact with people, getting a customer relations job will improve your people skills
2. You will have daily interaction with interesting people and one of them may be someone you like.
So, if you are a woman, apply to work as a salesperson in a men's clothing store. If you are a guy, try to get a job in a woman's shoe store. Or get a job as a bartender or waiter/waitress. These are perfect part-time jobs for students and will put you in contact with many, many people.
Pump Iron
Sexy Gym Clothes For Her
856 Miami Sport Women's Lycra Capri
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621 Otomix Parachute Capri
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644 Sport Cami Women's Cotton/Lycra Camisole
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Reflex "Harmony Wave" Cotton Zipper Hoody (445w)
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Great Looking Gym Clothes For Him
Athletic Sport 100% Cotton Printed Tanktop with Contrast Trim.
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Mens Cotton Workout Short with Elastic Waistband
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Mens Light Weight Poly Sport Gym Pants with Elastic Waistband
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Mens Dri-Fitt Sleeve-less T-Shirt
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Get Smart!
Many universities, recreation centers and businesses offer workshops on a variety of subjects from wine tasting to massage to yoga to oriental cooking. Opportunities vary from city to city. But they are relatively easy to find by doing a Google search. Try to find workshops that are are short-term, fun, interesting. Below are a few examples:
Find short-term workshops in subjects that interest you. Or better still, if you have the skills to do it, teach a workshop or a evening class to adults.
Learn the Art of the Non-Verbal Invitation
We all do it. We get on a bus or go to a theater and place our jackets or briefcase on the chair next to us. We may do it in order to put our jackets somewhere, or to reserve the seat for a friend who we are waiting for. Then when it gets crowded, we remove our items and offer the chair to someone who seems to want to sit.
Why not learn to use this socially accepted behavior to intentionally reserve a chair in a cafe for someone you would LIKE to sit next to you? The non-verbal invitation is a polite way of offering a space near you to someone you find interesting or attractive.
Join The Club
This is by no means a complete list, but simply representative of social activity clubs in the US and Europe. To find a social activity club near you, Google Social Activity Club and the name of your city.
Pickup Lines
- You may fall from the sky, you may fall from a tree, but the best way to fall... is to fall in love with me.
- If I received a nickel for everytime I saw someone as beautiful as you, I would have just earned my first five cents.
- I hope you know CPR because you take my breath away.
- Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no. A little reverse psychology just might work once in a while.
- Hi! I want your opinion on something. I have two different colognes on my wrists (or neck if you are brave) and I wonder if you will tell me which one you like better.
- I don't want you to think I'm ridiculous or anything, but you are the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. I just felt like I had to tell you.
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Posted March 31, 2008



