Share a Memory about Your Mother
From the lens How To Celebrate Mother's Day When Your Mom is Deceased.
Tell us about your mom and how special she was - Was she a gourmet cook? Did she love hiking? Here's a chance to share.
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kmyangel
May 21, 2012 @ 7:48 pm | delete
- I'm a very lucky woman because both of my parents are still alive ! I am very sad when i meet people that aren't so lucky :(
I hope that your lens will give some comfort !
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sandyswriter-review
May 21, 2012 @ 1:01 am | delete
- My mother passed away a couple of years ago. Nice lens.
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Joyce
May 17, 2012 @ 9:54 pm | delete
- My mother passed away 4/12/2012 a few weeks ago. This is my first mother's day without her and I miss her so much. She was my best friend. She was in the hospital for 38 days and I am so thankful that God allowed my siblings and I all these days to spend with her before she left us. I know she is no longer suffering and is at peace and I find some comfort in that but I can't help missing her.She was the most kindest and wonderful person I have ever know and the best Mom. I will Love her forever!
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OliviaDaughter
May 16, 2012 @ 7:26 am | delete
- My mother passed in 2010. I miss her so much ! Thanks for sharing.
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NMWF
May 15, 2012 @ 11:44 am | delete
- My mom passed away 8 months ago; she had cancer and heart problems, but I believe that incompetent medical professionals supervising her 'care' helped hurry her passing. I helped care for her for about three years, and even though we never had a particularly 'close' relationship, I miss her terribly. This being my first Mother's Day without her is extremely difficult. No one acknowledged the possibility of this, except one lady at church, not even my fiance, my sister, or my stepfather. I am angry and depressed and trying not to lash out at people who, for their own reasons do not have the capacity to respond in a caring manner. I found this site by accident, and think it wonderful, and I wish better days for all those experiencing the same feelings. Thank you for this lens!
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Brandy
May 14, 2012 @ 1:13 pm | delete
- This site has given me hope! I was wondering what I could do to remember my mother to make me smile, more than make me sad. I lost my mother very recently, on April 27, 2012. She took her last breath and passed away in my arms at the tender age of 64. This was really hard because her birthday was May 2, and mother's day was right after that. My mom was the type of mother that shared her love to everyone in her presence. I miss her terribly, but I know she is always here in spirit.
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Atreyusmommy May 14, 2012 @ 12:14 am | delete
- Excellent and very beautiful lens! I am very sorry for your loss.
Thank you very much for sharing
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Wisconsin
May 13, 2012 @ 6:47 pm | delete
- Thank you for this site! Mom passed away in July. She struggled to breathe because of interstitial lung disease. I try to take comfort that she is with the Lord and free of pain. This is a very difficult day and I miss her so much. Again, thank you for your words!
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abby
May 13, 2012 @ 6:01 pm | delete
- My mom passed away 10 years ago, when I was 5 years old. Although this is not my first mother's day without her, it is still painful. When i was younger did not understand the concept of death very well, and I am now starting to feel the grief I denied or hid for so long and I am realizing what it means for me to not have my mom. Thanks for this post, it was really helpful to me.
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lisakleinweber May 13, 2012 @ 1:07 pm | delete
- Wow. what a wonderful lens and tribute. My mother and I were never close. She had something broken inside her that kept me at a distance. She died three years ago, and honestly I don't miss her at all. :( But I like the angel-her and the heaven-her. Sometimes I can feel that :)
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Jeanne
May 13, 2012 @ 12:17 pm | delete
- My mom passed away four weeks ago tomorrow, just shy of her 79th birthday. The loss is overwhelming. She was the kindest, most gracious and most selfless person I have ever met. She was my best friend. I am so, so fortunate to have had her as my mom.
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efriedman
May 13, 2012 @ 8:03 am | delete
- Will link to this lens from my Missing Mom Mothers Day When Mom is Absent lens
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rallo-smith May 13, 2012 @ 1:55 am | delete
- My mom passed in 2007 she was my best friend. I have a CD of all the families best memory photo's with my mom's favorite song playing during a slide show of the photo's. Love the idea of the book with favorite memories.
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JenniferAkers May 13, 2012 @ 2:36 am | delete
- My condolences on your mom's passing. It's hard when we lose someone we love, especially when we have such a close relationship as you mentioned. What a wonderful tribute to have a CD of favorite photos with your mom's favorite song! Thank you for sharing that idea with us. My best to you and your family on Mother's Day.
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Robert
May 13, 2012 @ 1:52 am | delete
- My mom died a year ago (I'm 14 as of writing this) it's been hard without her. I will never miss her cooking. RIP Audie Heyward, always loved.
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- Dear Robert, my condolences on your mom's passing. You are so young, and I can only imagine how hard it has been /continues to be for you. I hope you have support to help you through this time and maybe some ideas on this page will help you cope through Mother's Day. I'm sure your mom is proud of you. Thank you for sharing your memories with us. My best to you.
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Tina P. from Ohio
May 13, 2012 @ 1:25 am | delete
- My Mom passed away seven years ago this June. Even though I have two boys, in my mind, Mother's Day is about her; not me. Her love for me was unconditional. I miss having that. I still love to honor my Mom whenever I get the opportunity. I fully enjoyed reading this...thank you to whoever wrote it. I especially love the poem 'Mother's Remembrance'. I also loved the unique ideas of celebrating Mom though she's only here in spirit. Thank you again to whomever wrote this. It has inspired me to look at Mother's Day differently. :0)
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- Dear Tina, my condolences on your mom's passing.It sounds like you had a close and loving relationship. I wrote this page five years ago because I wanted to share my feelings of missing my mom on Mother's Day. I hoped it would help others who felt the same and found the holiday to be difficult.
I appreciate your kind words, and I'm glad the page helped inspire you to see the holiday in a different light. I think it's comforting to share your memories with others who are in similar circumstances.
By the way, the poem "Mother's Remembrance" is from remembrance jewelry sold on Amazon. It touched my heart too.
My best to you and your boys on Mother's Day.
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Vanessa Wippenaar
May 12, 2012 @ 1:34 pm | delete
- my mother passed away 14 years ago,a week after mother's day.feeling kinda sad today.I couldn't have ask for a better mom,she was Godfearing & kind,the best friend i ever had,when she died i was at her bedside,i think she passed some of her innerbeauty & strength on to me in her last moments on earth, i love you mommy,i know one day we'll meet again
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- Dear Vanessa, thank you for sharing memories of your mom. It sounds like you had a close relationship, and I've no doubt she shared her beauty and strength to you. I'm sure she is watching you and is proud of you. My best to you and yours on Mother's Day.
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getfiredup
May 12, 2012 @ 12:50 pm | delete
- It's been one year since my Mom passed and one and a half since my mother-in-law passed, this will be a Mother's Day spent sharing memories
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- My condolences on the recent passing of your mom and mother-in-law. Sharing memories is a comforting way to spend Mother's Day and remember the special moms in your life. My best to you and yours.
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RuralFloridaLiving
May 12, 2012 @ 12:47 pm | delete
- She was a hard-working woman who did what needed to be done regardless of how tired she was.
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- Thank you for sharing your memories of your mom. She sounds like a determined woman and a great mom. My best to you and yours on Mother's Day.
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Coryna
May 12, 2012 @ 10:54 am | delete
- My mother was taken from me when i was 9 years old. This november it will make 13 years and some days are still hard. Mothers day being one of them! I have a 4 year old who never got to know her grandma, my sister as well in a sense never got to know our mom as she was only 5 when it happened. I miss her more and more each day as i'm getting older it seams. But i have an awesome family who helps each day get easier and easier!
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- Dear Coryna, My condolences on the loss of your mom, especially at such a young age. I can imagine Mother's Day is difficult, and I understand how you can miss her more as you grow older (I've had a similar experience as I grow older). I'm glad that you have a wonderful family to support you. My best to you and your family.
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srsddn
May 11, 2012 @ 11:15 pm | delete
- It is long back now. I still cherish the memories. The type of patience shown by my dear Mom was exemplary. Though not educated herself, she would make sure that there was no hurdles in my schooling. Days were tough as it was all walking during those days, going to school or purchasing books from a nearby city. All walking and sweating. But the touch of my Mom made it all sweet and I am still inspired by those days struggling days.
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- What wonderful memories of your mom! She sounds like a proud mom and one that did everything in her power to make your life happy. I'm sure she is proud of you and all you've become. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your story of your mom.
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janeeyre1000
May 11, 2012 @ 11:04 pm | delete
- Very touching lens! My mom has been gone eight years. I am going to make a nice video collage of photos to honor her.
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- Thank you for your visit and kind comments. My condolences on your mom's passing. I think a video collage sounds like a wonderful idea! I've found those special types of remembrance projects bring us closer to our loved ones and bring much comfort. Thank you for sharing your idea with us.
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Anne
May 10, 2012 @ 9:20 pm | delete
- Eleven years ago tonight is when my Mom passed away. I can still recall every detail of that whole day. My mother raised 5 kids by herself after my father left when I was nine. She worked tirelessly to make sure we all knew how much she loved us and she could make a "normal" day into something special. She loved Christmas... she taught us the traditional Christmas story and we were all in the Christmas play at our church growing up. She played the piano and we all learned to love all kinds of music because of her. I could come up with all kinds of memories to share but I will stop there. There isn't a day that I don't think of her and wish I could talk to her "just one more time" but that will have to wait. Until then, I know her spirit is here with me and she is looking down on me from Heaven. Mom, I miss you terribly and I love you even more. I look forward to seeing you again.
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- Dear Ann, Thank you for visiting and sharing your wonderful memories of your mom. She sounds like a special woman, and I'm sure she is proud of you. My best to you and your family.
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RuthAnn
May 9, 2012 @ 9:37 pm | delete
- My Mom had a the voice of an Angel. She was more musically inclined than anyone else I know to this day. She loved to play the piano and later played the organ, both of which we had in our home. She also sang with Sweet Adelines and a local Civic Chorus. I can say we enjoyed both of those groups as we sang together in the Civic Chorus and later in my life I sang with Sweet Adelines. She could cook and can, sew, and garden. She worked a full time job most of her life, but still found time to spend with family and friends. She loved her grandchildren as no one could and spoiled them rotten! I miss her laugh, her smile, but most of all I miss her voice. You never get over the loss that's for sure. I was 26 when she passed away suddenly and unexpectedly, that was 1982, it never gets easier. I miss you so much Mom, and can't wait to be with you again one day.
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- Dear Ruth Ann, How wonderful that you have so many precious memories of your mom growing up and with your kids. Thank you for visiting and sharing your special mom with us. My best to you and your family.
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sherry
May 9, 2012 @ 12:07 am | delete
- we lost my mom in october of 2007. she was a writer and was my rock. i could always turn to her when i had a problem of any kind. as a single mom ( soon to be married again) i miss my mom daily. we talk about mom daily and remember her recipes her supportive words and miss her smile every day! my oldest son will be 18 this year and she wont get to see him graduate from high school or see me at the age of 40 graduate from college as a payroll accountant. but i always tell myself and my kids " mom (grandma) is always with us even if shes not here in body shes our angel" that is how i get through the missed birthdays, holidays, and mothers days. we remember her being 3 hours from her grave by putting peacock feathers out in our house on her special days. thank you for the suggestions a lot of these i have done but some look very much worth doing for me and my boys who have also lost their dad in 2005 and my grandma in 2010. thank you so much!!
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- Dear Sherry, My condolences on the loss of your mom. It sounds like she was a wonderful mom and that you two had a very special relationship. That's something to cherish and honor every day.
Thank you for sharing the creative ways you remember your mom on special holidays. I love that you tell your kids that their grandma is here as your family's angel. It's wonderful to keep those wonderful memories active in your life, as you experience all the good things that happen since she became an angel (Congrats on your upcoming marriage!) I share stories with my son, too, so he feels a relationship, even spiritually, with his grandma.
My best to you and your family. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your suggestions.
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kingdomofanimals
May 8, 2012 @ 10:57 pm | delete
- Nice lens. Both my mother and mother-in-law are deceased.
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- Thank you for your visit and sharing about your mom and mother-in-law.
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awami politics
May 6, 2012 @ 6:06 am | delete
- i celebrate all the days (364 days) as mothers day... why restrict one day for mother only??
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- I like your thinking ... honoring our moms could be done every day. :)
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Amanda
May 4, 2012 @ 6:16 pm | delete
- My mom passed away a year and a half ago. I am now just finishing my first year in college and not a day goes by where I don't think of her. I want to do something special, in remembrance, for her this coming mother's day. There are so many things I wish I had and hadn't said to her before she died. I am going to write them all down and incorporate them into a piece of art that I will create just for her. Cheesy yes but at the same time it's something I can do instead of doing nothing.
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- Dear Amanda, My condolences on your mom's passing. And I don't think your art piece sounds cheesy at all. I imagine that you'll work through a lot while you're creating the piece and it'll will bring you much comfort and peace. I'd love for you to stop back and share what you've created, so we can share with other readers. It's a wonderful idea!
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surfer1969
May 3, 2012 @ 5:17 am | delete
- A very nice lens,sad but very nice.I lost my mom In 2001 to a massive heart attack.
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- Thank you for your kind comments and sharing about your mom.
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Cindy Rubalcava
May 1, 2012 @ 10:51 pm | delete
- My mother passed away in late Jan this year from Pancreatic Cancer and I've gone through my birthday and now I'm not looking forward to mothers day. any suggestions on what to send to my friend so he can put on her gravestone?
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- Dear Cindy, My condolences on the recent passing of your mom. I remember that I didn't want to celebrate my birthday either. With your first Mother's Day coming, remember to be kind to yourself as you go through the emotions.
Gravestones differ on what types of things are allowed; I'd check with the cemetery on possible options (flowers, wreath, potted plant, memorial plaque / stepping stone / photo plaque come to my mind, but again, check with them so you're buying something that can be placed). My best to you, and my thoughts of you on Mother's Day.
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designsbyharriet
Apr 30, 2012 @ 4:37 pm | delete
- My mother has been gone ten years, but for me it could be yesterday. I still cry every mother's day. We had so much fun together. She was my best friend. I wish I could have said all those things to her before she died.
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- It seems like there is always something else we could have said, and looking back, these missed opportunities can sadden us. I imagine that your close relationship and time together spoke volumes to her. You can still talk to your mom, just in a different way than before her passing. Remember the good times, her love, and think of all the good things/ knowledge/traits she passed on to you. My best to you and your family.
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malzeke
Apr 22, 2012 @ 5:42 pm | delete
- Wonderful lens filled with passion and wonderful ideas.
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- Thank you for your visit and kind words.
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Karla Laskowski
Apr 20, 2012 @ 10:39 pm | delete
- My mom passed away 3 months ago by cancer ...I miss her this is so hard she was my rock !!!
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- Dear Karla, My condolences on the recent loss of your mom. It sounds like you were very close. I know how hard losing a mom can be. Remember to ask for help if you feel you need some support.
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goo2eyes
Apr 20, 2012 @ 8:55 pm | delete
- my mom was special because she loved us very much and took care of us all the time.
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- It sounds like your mom was very special and raised wonderful children.
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Loraly
Apr 19, 2012 @ 9:33 am | delete
- I'm hurting. I don't know how to go on without my mom. Everyone says I have to live for my children. But what about me? Don't I count? What am I suppose to say to ME to keep ME going? She was my strength, my support, my inspiration, my assurance that I was doing fine. How am I suppose to go on if I don't know how I'm doing?
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- Dear Loraly, I truly understand. While I hadn't yet had my son, I was still responsible for others in my life (namely, my grandma and uncle). YOU do count, and you're hurting. You need to find a support person / place to lean on and help you through this difficult time -- I'd suggest looking at grief counseling or support groups in your area. Some Hospice organizations offer grief counseling open to the public. I hope you find a local organization that can guide you through the grieving process. It sounds like your mom was wonderful - and remember, you are too! Find someone experienced in grief / loss to help you through this. My best to you.
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wrapitup4me
Apr 18, 2012 @ 2:17 am | delete
- This is a wonderful tribute to your mother. It has answered questions for me about how to respond to the death of a friend's mother.
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- Thank you for the kind words. I'm glad the lens helped you with ideas to comfort your friend.
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TeamSTM
Apr 17, 2012 @ 7:29 am | delete
- Around Mother's Day, Her Birthday and the Holiday's of Course is when I miss my Mother the Most! This November will be 9 Years since she Passed Away, I still Love my Mom Very Much!!
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- My condolences on your mom's passing. Thanks for sharing about your mom!
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SoundFinance Apr 15, 2012 @ 4:44 pm | delete
- It's been 10 years since my Mom passed away and I still miss her very much. Thanks for sharing
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- Thanks for stopping by and sharing about your mom.
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JoshK47
Apr 11, 2012 @ 11:07 pm | delete
- A very well done lens about a very difficult subject. Blessed by a SquidAngel. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
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- Thank you so much for the Angel Blessings! I appreciate your visit and kind comments. I hope the lens helps others who are missing their mom on Mother's Day.
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ContentbyCasey
Mar 28, 2012 @ 8:42 pm | delete
- Very interesting. My mother is still alive, but my grandmothers are both gone. I can use these ideas to remember them.
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- Yes, I do use some of these ideas to remember my grandma too. Thank you for your visit and comments. I appreciate you.
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curtainsize
Mar 27, 2012 @ 12:00 am | delete
- Very interesting squid. I love your creativity. Best wishes.
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- Thank you for your kind comments and visit.
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Jill Most
Mar 18, 2012 @ 3:54 pm | delete
- My mom committed suicide just a week ago exactly and I am only a kid this website helped a lot. Especially since mothers day is coming up. I am grieving badly but you helped me a lot thank you!
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- Dear Jill, my heart goes out to you. I can relate to your loss, especially the questions surrounding a loved one's suicide. I'm glad the lens helped you. I hope you are finding even more support to help you through this time, especially through the upcoming holiday. Bless you!
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Michey Mar 18, 2012 @ 2:45 pm | delete
- It is a great tribute to your mother, I am living with my 97 years old Mom, and I take of good care of her... I am too busy being a caregiver... I cannot even think what means to be without her... Send Angel dust in your way.
Thanks
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- Oh, thank YOU for the angel blessings to this lens. That means a lot to me. And how wonderful to be taking care of your mom, though I know caregiving is a hard task. Bless you!
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Ribolov
Mar 17, 2012 @ 4:58 am | delete
- Nice lens, great work. Thnx for info.
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- Thanks for your kind comments. I appreciate your visit.
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aquarian_insight
Mar 15, 2012 @ 9:33 pm | delete
- A beautiful and touching lens - thank you.
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- Thank you for your kind comments and visit.
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A_RovingReporter
Mar 15, 2012 @ 4:38 pm | delete
- Great lens. Thanks for sharing. My mom died in the year 2000 and I'm still missing her.
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- My condolences on the loss of your mom. It sounds like you were close to your mom. I hope you've found ways to honor her memory.
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flinnie
Mar 15, 2012 @ 3:32 pm | delete
- Hi this is a wonderful lens for us mother less children.I miss my Mom so much this will be my second year without my Mom.Thanks for such a nice lens to remember our Mom by.
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- I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. It can be hard, even if it's the second year. I'm glad the lens offered some comfort and ideas to honor your mom.
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getupandgrow
Mar 15, 2012 @ 3:32 pm | delete
- This is a wonderful and much-needed lens. I lost my mum suddenly when I was 25, and I think it took at least five years to walk past a card-shop in March without blubbing...Now 14 years on, I've realised it isn't just time that heals, but getting to know that all the inner stuff (love, encouragement, etc) that we gave to each other is what mattered, and can never be taken away.
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- I can relate to your experience, especially as I was around the same age when my mom died. You are right - remembering the inner stuff stays and comforts us forever.
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nigel7725
Mar 15, 2012 @ 3:22 pm | delete
- My mom is deceased, so it is heartening to read a lens which helps to explain how to celebrate mothers day for a deceased mother.
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- My condolences on the loss of your mom. I'm pleased to read your comments that the lens could help others in honoring a deceased mom on Mother's Day.
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tcorbs
Mar 15, 2012 @ 1:42 pm | delete
- Beautiful lens! I'm sure your mother is looking down on you and smiling.
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- Thank you for your visit and kind comments. I hope you're right, and that my mom is proud of this page and my accomplishments. I felt much love and joy in writing this page about her and for others.
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designsbyharriet
Mar 14, 2012 @ 12:06 pm | delete
- My mother has been gone for a while, but every mother's day is hard for me to face without her. She was my best friend. Thanks for a great lens.
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- I can relate to having a mom who is also your best friend. Mother's Day can certainly be difficult when you're missing that wonderful and important person. I hope you can find some ways to honor her memory and ease the pain of missing her.
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JohnSmith86
Mar 14, 2012 @ 4:21 am | delete
- I helps me alot, thanks for great lens
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- Thank you for your visit and comments, John. I'm pleased that you found help on the lens.
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GayleMcLaughlin Mar 12, 2012 @ 6:57 pm | delete
- I, too, lost my mom 15 years ago. I try to remember the fun things and the good memories--it helps.
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- My condolences, Gayle. You're right ~ remember those fun times and good memories, as it helps to ease the grief and embrace our moms.
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Tipi
Mar 12, 2012 @ 8:56 am | delete
- Nice to see the celebration lens on the front page of Squidoo.
Mother's Day is one of the biggest holidays of the year! :)
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- Thank for the visit and comments, Tipi! I was pleased to see it on Squidoo's front page for awhile; I hope others will receive some comfort in missing their moms and honoring them on Mother's Day.
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Steve_Kaye
Mar 10, 2012 @ 11:17 pm | delete
- Thank you for this beautiful lens. I'll share that I've written conversations with my Mother in my journal. I use two pens, one like the pen she used to use and one that fits me. These have been helpful in deepening and extending our relationship.
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- Steve ~ Thank you for sharing! What a wonderful way to deepen your relationship by journaling with your mother. I can imagine it's healing, comforting and insightful.
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Socialcard
Mar 9, 2012 @ 9:26 pm | delete
- Made me tear up. My Step-Mom's Mom just died...and it's been a depressing time. Thanks for this lens!
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- I'm sorry to hear about your stepmom's mom. I know it's a difficult time; I hope you found some help on this lens and can share with your family. Sending blessings to you and your family.
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Paperclip
Mar 9, 2012 @ 8:57 am | delete
- Beautiful, touching lens. I'm glad I came upon it.
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- Thank you so much for your kind words and visit.
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- Thank you for your visit and comments. I appreciate your kind words.
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snazzify
Mar 9, 2012 @ 2:10 am | delete
- blessed by a squid angel :) <3
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- Snazzify ~ thank you so much for the Angel Blessings!! That means so much to me. I really appreciate it!
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DeniseDurham2011
Mar 7, 2012 @ 1:53 pm | delete
- I loved my mom so much, I thought I could not go on when she passed away. I had a bad physical pain for months. This is a really good lens. It is heartwarming, gives good ideas, is laid out nice...Really good. Thanks for sharing & thinking of others.
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- Denise - I can relate; I felt the same as you when my mom passed away. Thank you for the kind words and visit. I do hope the lens - and everyone's comments - will help others who are grieving.
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pawpaw911
Mar 7, 2012 @ 10:24 am | delete
- I am very lucky to still have my Mother. Nicely done. A lens that makes you think.
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- Thank you for the kind comments. Enjoy all the wonderful times with your mom
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fullofshoes
Mar 6, 2012 @ 1:38 pm | delete
- This is comforting. Mom left us on 10/31/02 at the age of 79. (Dad followed 3 years later on Thanksgiving.) The holidays have not been the same without my Mother's laughter.
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- My condolences on your mom and dad. I know the holidays aren't quite the same, though it's possible to find ways to "include" them - just like the commentor "favored1" who does things her mom loved. I'm glad you found comfort in this lens. My Best to you and your family.
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Ladymermaid
Mar 6, 2012 @ 8:22 am | delete
- What a very touching Mother's Day sentiment. I also like the idea of bringing a new angel into your home every Mother's Day. What a wonderful way to remember your mom.
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- Thank you! The angels are touching reminders of my mom, her words and her love.
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cffutah
Mar 6, 2012 @ 7:21 am | delete
- What a great and personal message for those whose mom has died. I think more readers should see this ... *blessed by a squid angel*
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- Wow - thank you for the kind words and for the Angel Blessings! I appreciate it!!
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favored1
Mar 5, 2012 @ 8:04 pm | delete
- Time doesn't separate us from the love of God or our mother's. My sisters and I do special things each holiday by including the things my mom loved.
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- Absolutely! What a wonderful way to include your mom on each holiday. You'll always have her in your hearts, minds, and life.
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Mar 5, 2012 @ 6:13 pm | delete
- It's been almost a year since I lost my mother - just two months before Mother's Day. Thank you for sharing your story and advice. Angel Blessed.
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- My condolences about your mom. It must have been very difficult to lose her and then so close to Mother's Day. Thank you for sharing - and for the Angel Blessings!! I'm so appreciative!
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AlexTedford
Mar 5, 2012 @ 4:37 pm | delete
- My mother is still living...
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- Enjoy all the wonderful times with your mom.
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gottaloveit
Mar 5, 2012 @ 6:32 am | delete
- My beautiful mother just died 2 weeks ago so my wound is very raw. Your lens gave me some great ideas about how to celebrate Mother's Day this year in her honor - I shall wear her butterfly hair clip for the day. She wore it every day after I gave it to her 6 years ago and I have it clipped on a memory lamp right now. Thanks for the wonderful lens. Your mom raised a great daughter.
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- My condolences on your mom's recent death. I'm glad this lens offered ideas to honor your mom this Mother's Day. From reading your lenses, I know you'll have many wonderful memories to reflect on and be able to honor your close relationship.
Thank you for the time it to leave such personal comments; it's so nice to read your kind words.
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blackspanielgallery
Mar 4, 2012 @ 7:09 pm | delete
- Nice lens
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Tipi
Jan 4, 2012 @ 2:12 pm | delete
- I still have my Mom and she is about to turn 85. We are experiencing some memory and independence issues but she is still getting along in her own home with only minor support. Beautifully done and you had me looking back at the many sweet years of memories....blessed.
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Rose
Jan 13, 2012 @ 1:20 pm | delete
- Well, Tipi you are a lucky girl. Lucky because you jave your mom here with you. Please take care of her and do everything you can for her. She is your only mom and when moms are gone is so but so hard to go ahead with your life. I lost my mom march 2011 and it seems like it was yesterday. Now, we just found out my husband has Diabetes and that just brakes my hard even more. Anyway, life keeps on going right? Take care and Happy New Year!!
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- Rose, I'm sorry to hear about your mom's death. It can seem like forever ago and just yesterday, at the same time. I hope your husband's condition improves; you're dealing with a lot at once. Thank you for your time and comments.
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Jan 24, 2012 @ 11:19 am | delete
- God Bless You and Your Mom I wish my mom could had last a little bit longer but God knows why.I love ready things like yours with your Mom I think how would it be with my mother next to me.Lots of Blessing for you and your Mom.
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- Thank you for the Angel Blessings, Tipi! I really appreciate it; this lens means a lot to me. It's good to hear that your mom is doing well with some minor support. Enjoy all the times you have together.
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waldenthree.net
Dec 23, 2011 @ 7:23 pm | delete
- A thoughtful topic. Valuable. Congrads on reaching Squidoo level 54. Just got there myself. Thanks.
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- Thank you for stopping by and leaving your kind comments. Enjoy moving up in the Squidoo ranks. :)
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The_Idea_Gal
May 11, 2011 @ 10:19 pm | delete
- Absolutely beaufiful and precious ideas to honor a deceased mother. My mom has has an ongoing illness, but I know without a doubt I will celebrate her the rest of my life for the wonderful person she's been and all the love she gives others. God bless you!
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- Remember to enjoy the times you have together. It sounds like your mom is a wonderful person who raised a wonderful daughter. Those are the things to cherish. You'll know that she'll live on forever in your heart.
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May 9, 2011 @ 6:34 pm | delete
- what a great lens....
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- Thank you for your kind comments.
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May 4, 2011 @ 4:06 am | delete
- I lost my mum 3 months ago today but as we celebrate Mother's Day earlier in the year here in the UK I've already experienced the first one without her - I wish I'd seen your lens then. Well done!
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- I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mum. I hope you revisit and share your ideas on honoring mom on subsequent Mother's Day, as healing takes its own time and path.
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May 4, 2011 @ 4:06 am | delete
- I lost my mum 3 months ago today but as we celebrate Mother's Day earlier in the year here in the UK I've already experienced the first one without her - I wish I'd seen your lens then. Well done!
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- I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's recent death. Three months is not a long time, and the first Mother's Day can be hard (though the feelings of grief may come and go throughout the years).
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Apr 29, 2011 @ 11:43 am | delete
- Hello, This coming up May will be my 1st mother's day without my lovely mom. She passed away march 2011. I miss her sooo much and i know i will feel horrible mother's day specially because she will not be here with me and I will not be able to give her a kiss and a hug. This days have been horrible i cry for her every day. She was 78 and had Alzheimer. I just hope she is ok where she is. I LOVE YOU MOM. :(
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monarch13
Apr 29, 2011 @ 5:26 am | delete
- blessed!
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- Thank you so much for the Angel Blessings! I really appreciate it!!
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monarch13
Apr 29, 2011 @ 5:26 am | delete
- blessed!
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jseven
Apr 28, 2011 @ 1:07 am | delete
- What a nice lens and tribute to your mother! I lost mine 7 years ago and know how you feel. God bless you.
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Emily Wever Daughter/ Dianne Mother
Apr 24, 2011 @ 6:19 pm | delete
- My Mom was my best friend and an amazing woman I had so much fun with her and miss her crazy Mom ways! She made every holiday special. She would decorate the house, plan special meals, wear special holiday pins and give thoughtful gifts. She never said it out loud, but I know it was important to her to make all holiday's memorable. She did a great job. I love and appreciate how special she made my childhood. I was really looking forward to taking care of her when she became old. I didn't get the chance, but I will carry on her traditions of making holiday's beautiful and special just like she was!
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- Emily ~ Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories of your mom. In fact, they remind me about my mom, especially holiday pins! I have quite a few of hers and wear them at various holidays. Your mom sounds like an amazing woman and devoted mom. And she left her traditions as a gift for you to pass along, too.
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slotowngal Apr 18, 2011 @ 5:06 am | delete
- I lost my mother to Alzheimer's 3 years ago. The first Mother's Day afterwards was very difficult. My mother had always been a very caring person who helped her neighbors, so we chose to remember her that day by sending flowers to another lady in honor of my mom, to brighten that person's day.
Thanks for a beautiful lens... angel blessed!
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- I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Mother's Day can be difficult after you lose your mom. What a wonderful tribute to your mom - sending flowers to another woman in her honor! Thank you for sharing - and thank YOU for the Angel Blessings! I really appreciate it!!
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Mar 29, 2011 @ 3:34 am | delete
- I pray to Jesus... no one gets into the situation like this
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- Unfortunately, death is part of life's journey. It helps to find comfort in friends, family and prayers.
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boutiqueshops Mar 17, 2011 @ 11:37 pm | delete
- It's been since November 1, 2007 that I lost my mom, with whom I had a deep bond. It hurts as much today as it did when she left, her hands in mine. Thank you for a beautifully made page. I can only take it in small bites, but I keep coming back...especially now, that I can bless it. Blessed by a still-grieving angel...
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- Thank you for your angel blessings. This page is a tribute to my mom, and my way to help others who are grieving for their mothers. This lens is very dear to me.
My heart goes out to you, big hugs. As ComfortDoc says, it's not a club anyone wants to join, but it's comforting to help those who join.
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marketmasterpro
Jan 26, 2011 @ 12:17 am | delete
- Great lens. My mom left August 18th 2008. I miss her so much! My son made eggs benedict for us the Mothers day before she went to heaven. I didn't know that would be the last one on earth. God Bless you!
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- I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I can imagine how much you miss her. Though you didn't realize it at the time, the Mother's Day breakfast made by your son was truly a special moment and one that helped build a lasting memory of your mom.
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d-artist Dec 13, 2010 @ 4:19 pm | delete
- What a well written lens and on a subject dear to my heart. My mom passed in 1975 and I still feel the pain...I have few relatives, I only have two daughter's, one lives 1 1/2 hr from me, so get to see her on Mother's Day, the other lives in another state and I have not seen her on MD for many years...it hurts. I made a lens and a website to honor my mom on MD and her BD. She was a special person and very unusual and interesting...I'm lensrolling this lens to my Mothers lens.
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- I can relate. I still miss my mom, though I get a lot of love and comfort from people who post on this lens. Creating the tribute lens helped me, too. I think my mom would be proud. I hope your tribute lens offers the same love and support.
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- I can relate. I still miss my mom, though I get a lot of love and comfort from people who post on this lens. Creating the tribute lens helped me, too. I think my mom would be proud. I hope your tribute lens offers the same love and support.
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wordstock Dec 8, 2010 @ 8:55 am | delete
- Blessing this lens in honor of my mother who died two days before Mother's Day, 10 years ago. I know that she spent Mother's Day with her mother who had passed on 60 years prior. There is some helpful information here. Thanks
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- Thank YOU, Wordstock. Your blessing means a lot to me. I miss my mom, and this lens was my tribute to her. I hoped to share with others who have been through the same thing and know the pain of losing a mom. I can't imagine how hard it would've been to lose her two days before Mother's Day ... blessings to you.
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daria369
Dec 6, 2010 @ 5:07 pm | delete
- Nice lens, thumbs up and lensrolled to my carnation lens.
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- Oh, cool - thank you Daria!
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Oct 25, 2010 @ 11:14 am | delete
- Very informative and helpful lens. Well done.
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- Thank you for your visit and comment J-ellen! I'm glad you found it helpful.
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EasyW
Oct 5, 2010 @ 12:40 pm | delete
- Really enjoyed reading this lens, good work!
Please visit my lens Funeral Planning.
Thanks!
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- Thank you, EasyW - it's not easy to lose a mom, especially when you're close. Thanks for writing about funeral planning, something we often put off because of the thought behind losing someone.
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WeirdStuff
Sep 24, 2010 @ 5:24 pm | delete
- Touched my heart with this lens...
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- Thank you so much. I'm glad to hear that my tribute touched your heart - that means a lot to me.
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JaguarJulie Sep 9, 2010 @ 12:16 pm | delete
- OMG, this is definitely a guide that we will all need some day -- I am hugely thankful that Mom is still with us -- but I do so miss my grandma. Have you done a comparable guide page for us on Dad? Lovely my dear! TYVM
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OhMe Jul 31, 2010 @ 4:08 am | delete
- This is such a beautiful tribute to your mother and will help others decide how to spend Mothers Days without their mother. Treasure the Memories.
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susannaduffy
Jul 8, 2010 @ 1:53 am | delete
- Beautiful tribute to your mother. I still talk to mine, but I think, many times, how she would have loved my children, in particular my youngest son who is so like her. Mum never saw my children, much less my grandchildren, and this is what breaks my heart. The pain never goes away, does it? There's no one like your mother. Blessed by an angel today
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- Thank YOU so much for the Angel blessing, Susanna. I'm sorry to hear that your mother never got to enjoy her grandchildren or great-grandchildren. It does break your heart. I still think of things to share with my mom, particularly about my son. I know she would've been an amazing grandma.
I try to remember that I was blessed by having her as a wonderful mom for the years we had together; I know not everyone has the special relationship with their mums, like we did.
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May 22, 2010 @ 4:40 pm | delete
- Thank you for such a creative and loving page on Mothers Day memories. It could not have been easy to so thoroughly explore this important topic. SquidAngel Blessed.
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- Oooh, thank YOU for the Squid Angel Blessings!! I really appreciate your kind words and blessing! It means a lot to me - this lens holds a special place in my heart.
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GiftPlants
May 15, 2010 @ 7:39 am | delete
- This is by far the most interesting lens I read for mother's day.. I really appreciate your suggestions and I want to extend my condolence to everyone who have lost someone very important.
Before I go, I have this lens about sympathy plants which is also best for expressing deep sentiments and condolence during difficult times. Hope it can also be a good gift idea for the deceased.
Love your lens.. 5 Stars for you.
Thanks!
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- Thanks for your comments and sharing your lens on sympathy plants - a nice idea for sending condolences.
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KathyMcGraw
May 10, 2010 @ 1:24 pm | delete
- I haven't lost my mother in the physical sense but often there are more ways to loose someone. The grief is the same. I found your suggestions here to be excellent, and especially liked the way you told your own story. Often just knowing you aren't alone helps.
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- That's true - sometimes, we lose people before they're physically gone, and we experience loss and grief of that person's absence. I'm glad to know the suggestions were helpful. You're right about feeling alone -- it can seem like you're the ONLY person who feels "this" way, and it's comforting to hear others' stories. Thanks for visiting and sharing yours.
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May 10, 2010 @ 1:08 am | delete
- Thank you for this. My mother died on September 28, 2009 and today was my first Mother's Day without my mom physically by my side. A very tough day, but ending it by reading this is helpful.
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I'm sorry to hear about your mom's death. I understand how hard those first Mother's Days can be. I'm glad this lens was helpful. Thank you for your visit and comments - those mean a lot to me.
Hugs,
Jennifer
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- Rozkid,
I'm sorry to hear about your mom's death. I understand how hard those first Mother's Days can be. I'm glad this lens was helpful. Thank you for your visit and comments - those mean a lot to me.
Hugs,
Jennifer
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kimmanleyort
May 9, 2010 @ 11:12 am | delete
- Happy Mother's Day, Jennifer! Just wanted you to know that this lens was featured on Squidoo Lens Reviews on Friday. This lens is very meaningful to me. Stop by to pick up your badge if you would like. - http://blog.growwear.com/memories-of-a-mother/
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- Thank you so much, Kim! I'm honored! Thank you for sharing your mom's story. What a strong woman your mom was - I know she's very proud of you!
We'll both keeping sharing stories of our moms and keeping the connection with our kids and the grandmas who would've loved them to pieces. :-)
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- I'm fortunate to still have my mom, she's 85. Someday, I know I'll face these feelings you describe and I can turn to this lens for help. Thanks.
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- Thanks for reading this lens. Happy Mother's Day to you and your mom! Enjoy all the special moments. :-)
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bethd821
May 8, 2010 @ 11:45 am | delete
- Beautiful tribute to your Mother. I lost my Mother on Christmas Eve when I was 13. I still miss her, but especially on Mother's Day, her birthday, and Christmas.
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- That must've been hard for you to lose your mom at such a young age. I imagine the holidays can be difficult, too. Thank you for the kind comments on my lens - I hope you have something special to remember your mom.
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Lisa
May 7, 2010 @ 6:27 pm | delete
- This is year 17 for me without my mom who died on Mother's Day. Some years are okay and some are not. Today for some reason it all of a sudden hit me. And you don't know what a big day (Mother's Day) is until you "have to face it". I get emails from friends (who send them to groups and I happen to be included) saying Happy Mother's Day, or be sure to call your mom on Mother's Day, and it goes on, and on. The people who send the emails don't mean to hurt me. They just simply forget. I have some great friends who simply listen when everything is bothering me today and I have some friends who call to check on me. I tend to hide myself in my house for the entire weekend which I know is probably not the best thing to do but its how I cope this one weekend of the year. Today I've cried a bit and I'll probably be fine the rest of the weekend. I have my dogs and I have some yard work to do. I came across this web site and decided to share my feelings and while the tears are rolling down my cheeks this may be exactly what I needed. The one thing my mom loved to do (which I inherited) is to dance. I "tried" to plan an evening out with some friends tonight but had to cancel cause I just wasn't up to it. I think it's okay that I "stay to my self - with my dogs" for this one weekend out of the year. I think its okay to still cry and hopefully it will end by this evening so I can do things this weekend and I'm sure I'll see some neighbors and I'll get out and enjoy what should be nice weather. I thank you for this website and its nice to know that we "sisters" can relate.
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- Hi Lisa,
I can relate to some years being fine and others being not as good. You're right about not realizing the importance of Mother's Day. That's how I felt, too. Some years, I couldn't stand to see another gift, flower, or card that would've been 'perfect' for my mom. I think that as time goes on, friends don't realize that the sadness can reoccur. YOU know what's good for you to do; this year may be one that you cry it out and remember your mom by yourself. As long as you stay aware of your feelings, do what feels 'right'. Just remember to reach out when you need to. Yes, we can relate to each other. I really appreciate you reaching out and sharing your feelings so freely here. Your comments will help you as well as other visitors.
I'll stop with this last thought. In the Squidoo group "Grief & Loss Headquarters", one of our prolific and generous lensmasters ComfortDoc says, "The Grief & Loss Club is one that people do not choose to join, rather it is a club that their experience of grief has given them entrance."
Be kind to yourself this weekend. Big hugs from another "sister".
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May 7, 2010 @ 8:50 pm | delete
- Thanks Jennifer. I appreciate the warm comments. We'll get through it - it's just two more days................... I think I'm going to buy a balloon this year and send it off to mom and wish her a happy day. You be good to yourself as well and big hugs back. Lisa P.S. Thanks again for the great website.
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- Lisa,
We will get through it. I LOVE your idea about the balloon. What a wonderful idea to send it off to your mom! I will do something to remember my mom - like sharing stories about her with family and new friends. :-)
Thanks so much for visiting and commenting - I'm happy to hear that you like the site. :-) It means a lot to me.
Jennifer
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BevsPaper
May 7, 2010 @ 6:25 pm | delete
- Jennifer, thank you! I've struggled the last two years with Mother's Day since we lost Mom to pancreatic cancer and this really helps.
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Big hugs to you. It's difficult to lose your mom, especially when you were close. I'm glad to hear that this lens helped you.
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May 7, 2010 @ 3:38 pm | delete
- A truly beautiful tribute to your mother. And such a sensitive help to those whose mothers have passed away. ...The poem is one of my favorites.
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- Thank you, Mimi! I really appreciate the kind words and hope this page continues to help others in similar situations.
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- This will be my first Mother's Day without her. She died suddenly of a heart attack with no prior history. She had just retired from a nursing home where she served as their RN, because she loved nursing and helping others. She had long retired from the hospital, but wanted to keep on giving so she helped out at the nursing home. She was so special and had a strong Faith. I am so angry about not having her here with me and my children on "her" day. However, this site has given me some different ways to cope. Thanks.
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- Oh, the first Mother's Day holidays are really hard. I remember the anger at my mom for missing important things and just being there for me. Your mom sounds like a wonderful and compassionate woman. Undoubtedly, she is proud of you. I would recommend going through some of the grief resources. Go slow, and remember to be gentle with yourself. I really appreciate that you shared your feelings about your mom. Big hugs.
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May 6, 2010 @ 9:40 am | delete
- So moving. This is a beautiful tribute to your mom and I'm sure it will help many more people decide to celebrate their mother's lives on Mother's Day. Angel blessed :-)
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- Thank YOU for the Angel Blessing!!! It means so much to me. I do hope the resources help more people cope with Mother's Day and get ideas for honoring their moms.
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May 4, 2010 @ 1:51 pm | delete
- Another ~*~* Angel Blessing *~*~ for this thoughtful lens that will be of so much help to others, and a hug for its author.
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- Oh, THANK YOU, ** Word Custard ** for the Angel Blessing!! You have no idea how much your blessing and kind words means to me. This is one of my favorite lenses ~ written from the heart and in tribute to my mom. I hope it continues to help other people.
And I love the hug - thank you again!!
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Amanda Tidwell
Apr 23, 2010 @ 11:11 pm | delete
- My mother died from ALS four months ago, this will be my first Mother's day without her. I miss her every minute of every day. She found the good in everyone and always pointed out how fortunate you were to have something when others went without. One thing my mother did that was so respectable was she sent birthday cards anonymously to death row prisoners. She did not know any of them or want to know what they did. She said God would judge them and just didn't want their day to go by without being recognized. I wish I could be that non-judgmental. She had such compassion for every living being and I hope that I can be half the woman she was.
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My heart goes out to you and the difficulty in the first Mother's Day without your mom. She sounds like a wonderful and generous person with a rare gift to be able to show compassion and acknowledgment of others, who society would tend to forget, judge, or discard. Keep her close to your heart by sharing her memories. I'm sure she was proud of the woman you became.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story about your mom.
Best,
Jennifer
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Mickie_G
Apr 22, 2010 @ 11:24 am | delete
- My mother died 8 years ago and I still find myself wanting to pick up the phone and call her. I used to share titles of books that I had read. She could read three books at the same time--ie: one book on her nightstand, one book by her chair in the living room, one in the kitchen. She was amazingly well read.
Thanks for this lens. It is being blessed by me, a SquidAngel, on this lovely day in April 2010!
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- Yes, I occasionally think of things I'd like to tell my mom. Reading and books were a huge connection with us, as well. I bet your mom read to you when you were a child and fostered your love of reading, which you undoubtedly pass on to your children. It's a wonderful legacy and tribute to your mom.
Thank you for the Angel Blessing!! Your blessing means so much, especially on this lens which is close to my heart!
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Rewards4life Apr 22, 2010 @ 4:24 am | delete
- What a beautiful page, Jennifer. My mom is still with us, so I'm trying to appreciate it as much as I can. Lensrolling your lens to my Mother's day lens. =)
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- Thank you so much for lensrolling this page to your Mother's Day lens - that means a lot to me! Enjoy each Mother's Day with your mom!
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- Thank you so much for lensrolling this page to your Mother's Day lens - that means a lot to me! Enjoy each Mother's Day with your mom!
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SoyCandleLover-Maker
Mar 20, 2010 @ 6:16 pm | delete
- My mom was the eternal student. She stayed at home with us when we were small until we were teenagers. After that she got her 2nd master degree and was working on her doctorate when she passed, I plant at least one perennial plant in her honor each year. Fabulous lens and lens rolled to my Mother's Day Rose lens.
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- My mom used to tell us to 'be a sponge' and she did the same: soaking up information and learning new things all the time. She earned her bachelors while working full time when we were in our teens. Sounds like our moms had a lot in common. :) How nice to plant something in your mom's memory each year. Thank you for your comments and the lensroll - I appreciate it!
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AppalachianCountry
Mar 12, 2010 @ 4:32 pm | delete
- Absolutely wonderful lens! This will be our third Mother's Day since mom has been gone. We have done some of your suggestions and will probably take on a couple more. Thank you so much for this beautiful lens!!! 5* and Favorite
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- The first Mother's Day can be hard. Thank you for your kind words, and I glad to hear that you found some new suggestions to honor your mom.
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BarbRad Feb 22, 2010 @ 4:12 am | delete
- Beautiful lens in memory of your Mom. Mother's Day has been tough for me since I first lost my 14-year-old son in 1991. For years I couldn't bear Mother's Day. My Mom lived five hours away then, and we couldn't always be together. I lost her in 2005, also on a Tuesday, but I had moved her closer to me by then. I'm going to lensroll this to the lens I wrote about caring for my mom in her last years, after she had lived closer to me. It was my tribute to her.
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- Thank you for your thoughtful comments, Barb. I can only imagine how hard Mother's Day would be without your child. I really appreciate your lensrolling to your Mother's tribute lens. That means a lot to me.
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WordCustard
Jan 9, 2010 @ 1:46 pm | delete
- This is a very thoughtful and caring lens, that I am sure will be both a comfort and an inspiration to many. Thank you for having the courage to write on this topic, Jennifer. You did so beautifully.
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- Thank you for your kind words, WordCustard. I hope this lens can help other people - it's a hard holiday to celebrate when your mom has passed away. Creating this lens has brought a lot of good memories, more healing, and some 'closeness' with my mom. I think she'd be proud of me. :-)
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Jewelsofawe Nov 21, 2009 @ 7:40 pm | delete
- Blessed by an angel!
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- Wow! Thank you, Jewelsofawe! Your blessing means a lot to me. This is one of my special lenses. :-)
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jgelien Nov 20, 2009 @ 11:06 pm | delete
- Thank you so much for this lens. My first Mother's Day without my mom was three months after her death followed immediately by my first Father's Day without my dad. I really wanted to just forget about it but I am a mom too so I had to get through it for my children.Your lens is full of beautiful and comforting ideas.
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- Thank you, Jgelien. Your words mean a lot to me. I imagine that was a very difficult year for you, and losing both your parents. I'm glad that you celebrated the day with your kids. I know how it feels to want to forget the holiday entirely. I hoped this lens would give some comfort, in finding something to honor your mother on Mother's Day.
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prosperity66 Nov 13, 2009 @ 2:56 am | delete
- Wonderful lens. I was touched by your story and like the way you still celebrate your mother.
I would just say that like any child always remains a child to the eyes of their parents, a mother never dies - at least to the heart of their child.
Dom.
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- Thank you for the nice words, Prosperity. You're right. No matter how old we get, we are still our parents' children. My mom's not far - she stays in my heart and mind.
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- Thank you for your kind words. I'm sorry about your loss as well. It's hard around those special holidays, like Mother's Day or Father's Day. [in reply to Jewelsofawe]
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- I have a hard time with Father's Day because my dad and stepdad are gone. I just do not celebrate anymore. Sorry for your loss!
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- I'm so touched that you blessed my lens. I poured a lot of myself in creating this lens to help others and also in tribute to my mom. Thank you for the blessing - it means a lot to me! [in reply to Heather426]
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Heather426
Oct 14, 2009 @ 9:23 pm | delete
- This beautiful lens is blessed by a new squid angel today.
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- Yes, it can be difficult, especially when you're blessed to enjoy a close and loving relationship with your mom. Share the love with your mom, and enjoy all the wonderful times. [in reply to stargazer00]
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stargazer00
Sep 21, 2009 @ 8:16 pm | delete
- I still have my mom thank goodness. The loss of your mom must be one of the hardest things we have to go through.
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- Thank you for your kind words. I do the same thing with little things around my house - it's nice to have something to remind us about a special time or something unique about our moms. [in reply to blue22d]
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blue22d
Jun 1, 2009 @ 11:50 pm | delete
- Such a nice lens and wonderful tribute to moms. It does help to remember and you have given such great ideas to make it special. I have things in my home that, when I move from room to room, little things that I got from my mom causes me to stop and remember her at that moment. Thanks again. Five stars to ya.
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- Thank you so much! Your words mean a great deal to me. And I really appreciate your angel blessing. Happy Belated Mother's Day to you, too.[in reply to Comfortdoc]
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Comfortdoc
May 24, 2009 @ 10:41 am | delete
- Beautifully done. Belated Mother's Day Blessings from an Angel.
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- Yes, I know just what you mean. Grieving doesn't follow a linear path, so remember to do what's comfortable in your healing. Thank you so much for sharing, and I hope you enjoy gathering recipes for your Mom Cookbook. [in reply to AppalachianCountry]
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AppalachianCountry
May 12, 2009 @ 9:18 am | delete
- Wonderful lens. We were not able to go to church Sunday because we lost our mom just over a year ago and still get the ugly cry. We like the idea of a cookbook. Thank-you for your help.
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- Wow, AJ! Thank you for your blessing! You couldn't have given me a more special gift, especially on Mother's Day. This lens means a lot to me. I poured my thoughts and feelings into creating it. Now, it's a connection to my mom. [in reply to aj2008]
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aj2008
May 10, 2009 @ 2:32 am | delete
- What a beautiful, if poignant, lens. Today is Mother's Day in a lot of countries around the world, but in the UK it is in March. I am blessed that my Mum is still with us but this lens has also been Blessed by an Angel.
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- Oh, your words brought tears to my eyes - thank you so much for your kindness. Happy Mother's Day to you and all of our friends! [in reply to mukunda22]
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mukunda22
May 7, 2009 @ 7:57 am | delete
- Wonderful lens--I just realized before I read this lens that Mother's Day is Sunday and when I discovered your lens, it felt like a gift from All Of The Mothers!!--Everywhere!!
High fived, faved and lensrolled to: My Mother's Stoke
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- Thank you, Lisa! I appreciate your kind words. I'm going to enjoy mine with my hubby, son, and friends. :-) Enjoy Mother's Day with your mom! [in reply to lisadh]
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lisadh
May 5, 2009 @ 10:55 am | delete
- This is a wonderful idea for a lens and well done!! I am fortunate that my mom is still alive, but I'm sure this lens has helped those who have also lost their mothers.
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- Thank you for your comments, Heather! I really miss my mom too. :-) I'll check out the lens you're making about your mom. Thinking of you on Mother's Day, Jennifer
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- Thank you for sharing about your mother. I'm glad there is comfort in knowing she has no more pain. Take care of yourself on Mother's Day - the first can be hard but the pain eases with time. Thinking of you, Jennifer
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Heather426
May 3, 2009 @ 4:44 pm | delete
- What a touching lens! I am an orphan now, as both of my parents are gone, and I especially miss my mom...excellent lens. 5* and lensrolling to my new lens I'm making for my mother.
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Terri Panchaud
Apr 26, 2009 @ 8:12 pm | delete
- Hi!
My mum passed away after a very long and slow agonizing death due to cancer.
For the first time in myh life I did noit cry but had a sense of "relief" no more pain and suffering.
The qualityh of life had greatly suffered the last year of her life.
This will be my FIRST Mother's Day without her.
I miss her so much!
I LOVE YOU MUM!!! XOX OXO
P.S. This website has really helped..THANK-YOU to all that have contributed!
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spirituality Apr 19, 2009 @ 12:19 pm | delete
- Great lens - you've been blessed by a squidoo angel :)
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Squidoo-Pat
Nov 5, 2008 @ 11:44 pm | delete
- Thanks for the nice tribute to mothers who have passed on. On Saturday Nov. 8th my mother will have been gone for 14 years. She and I were best friends and our relationship was very strong. You never get over the pain of losing a loved one but memories at least are comforting.
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GoodAdvice
Jun 7, 2008 @ 6:00 am | delete
- Thank you for this "great" lens.
My mother passed away on Oct 25 1998.
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KimGiancaterino May 11, 2008 @ 10:35 pm | delete
- What a beautiful story. I'm giving you a Squid Angel Blessing in honor of Mother's Day. I've just spent the last hour and a half catching up with my mom on the phone. I feel very fortunate today. I'm sorry for your loss at such a young age.
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telepak@cox.net
May 9, 2008 @ 3:36 pm | delete
- Jennifer, I read all your pages. Thank you for taking the time to write your thoughts to us all. My mom died of breast cancer last year on May 14, 2007. It is very painful for me to have to go through this Mother's Day without her. I am not to crafty but I am going to try my best to get some pictures together for an album and have my kids paint a rock with a special "NaNa" saying. I had the great joy to spend last years Mother's Day by her side as she gave her blessing to each and every child, and grandchild. She keeps reminding me in my heart "Genine, the best is yet to come" I hang on to these lines when I feel pretty lonely without her here with me. Happy Mother's Day 2008 Let's all celebrate the Mothers who gave us so much love and life.
Daughter of Mary Bridget Martinez,
Genine Telepak
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beeobrien
May 7, 2008 @ 3:01 pm | delete
- This is a beautiful page. I've added it to my featured list at my Mother's Day lens.
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mulberry
May 2, 2008 @ 6:48 pm | delete
- A touching story. I recall feeling "alone" after I lost a parent. Strange, I had sisters, a husband, etc. but the loss of the people who first loved you and took care of you feels like having your "safety net" removed. You offer words of comfort and wisdom for those who are grieving, well done.
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LeslieBrenner Apr 26, 2008 @ 1:14 am | delete
- I'm very sorry for your loss, and I understand your grief all too well. It never quite goes away and tends to come in waves. You learn to manage it, knowing your loved one would want you to be happy.
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clouda9
Apr 20, 2008 @ 12:29 am | delete
- Jennifer...thank you for sharing your story and your heart!
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PlushMemoriesPlus
Apr 16, 2008 @ 1:19 am | delete
- Thank you so much for this wonderful lens! My Mom was Cajun and made the best Gumbo ever! Mom died on Mother's Day at the young age of 59. For a long time I questioned "why" and was withdrawn. I'm 63 and still miss her, especially on Mother's Day.
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chloecavanaugh
Apr 15, 2008 @ 4:48 pm | delete
- Thank you for sharing this very touching story. She has raised a beautiful, and kind daughter. God bless you sweetie!
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michaelgibbons Jan 31, 2008 @ 10:04 pm | delete
- Jennifer a beautiful poignant lens -- I hope everyone will visit my www.squidoo.com/ButtonsofMom lens and help me make 11,000 photo buttons to honor Moms and raise $11,000 for Mom friendly charities --take care and happy Mothers Day
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LaraineRose
Jan 28, 2008 @ 3:19 am | delete
- I like your lens. Obvious you loved your mum very much. My mum is dead also. She died at age 55. I am past that age now but I still miss her. I liked your advice about "Keep it simple." I look forward to seeing her again under perfect conditions. I have read some wonderful literature lately about. Where are the dead? Why does God allow people to suffer? Very comforting! 5*s, fan and lensroll
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BabyFirstYear
Sep 30, 2007 @ 5:12 am | delete
- I really love my mom, She is my idol for our life. Thanks for the great info here, you always remind me to my mom.
Goonie
Baby First Year
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Griefdoc
Aug 1, 2007 @ 3:33 am | delete
- Thanks for finding the Grief and Loss Club. Your site is one that meets the criteria.
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- Cathy,I'm sorry to hear about your mum. It sounds like you were close. I know how hard it can be to deal with life and the pain of missing your mum too. Be gentle with yourself - it's wonderful that you are finding comfort in your horses and dogs. My best to you - and visit anytime.
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Horseangel
Jun 13, 2007 @ 2:22 pm | delete
- My mum passed away 9 weeks and 2 days ago. I miss her so much. She died of cancer, and it's all going around and around in my head at the moment. It's a bad time, and I'm doing all I can to smile despite it all. My horses and dogs help a lot. Thank you for this lens. It's a comfort.
Blessings
Cathy
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- Angelina, I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. I can't imagine how hard that must be. Despite the tragedy, how proud you must be to have raised your grandson into such a wonderful man. Remember to treat yourself on Mom's Day just as loving as you treated to your mom, daughter and grandson. My best
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Angelina
May 12, 2007 @ 7:51 pm | delete
- My mom was my best friend but Mother's Day is even worse for us as my daughter was murdered leaving behind a 3 year old son who I have raised. We sometimes go out to eat but it s a pretty quiet day at our house. Hes in the Army now so some even more lonely ones ahead
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- Mikeyc, Anger is a stage of grief. Grief has no timeline, but if your lady is 'stuck' in one stage, find a counselor or support group. I have resources for grief below. On Mom's Day, stay by her side, love her
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mikeyc
May 11, 2007 @ 6:22 am | delete
- My lady's mom passed 2 years ago. As a man and it being mothers day, Idont know what to do. Shes blameing her mom for choosing ciggarettes over her. She died of cancer. Any suggestions?
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- Danya, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. It sounds like you two were close. The first Mother's Days are hard, and as unreal as it seems now, that pain will ease with time. Thank you for sharing your Mother's Day plans. Stay strong. Remember, your mom is proud of you. My best, Jen
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- Cory, My heart goes out to you. I remember how painful and lonely I felt after my Mom's death. The pain eases. Really. Please find a friend -or a counselor- to support you, especially through Mother's Day. Guilt is part of grieving too. You don't have to endure this alone. My best, Jen
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Danya
May 10, 2007 @ 3:24 pm | delete
- My mother died October of last year a week after her 50 birthday. Every Mother's Day I would buy her roses and take her a gift. This Mother's Day I know will be so hard without her. I'm going to put flowers on her grave. I will trust in the Lord and ask him to strengthen me I know he will comfort me
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Cory
May 10, 2007 @ 8:29 am | delete
- Momdied in July. Not even a year yetandI feel so lost andreally alone. I am so dreadingthisday. I feel guilty somehow and feel the need topunish myself on Mother's Day...I am notsureifI can endure another one when I feelthis way.
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