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Spa Party - Be Savvy!

 

Throw a fabulous Spa Party (ideas from JaquaBeauty.com).  Here's their magic checklist from their website ... to create an indulgent, chic, relaxing and fun spa event.

 

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Inviting Invites

Whenever we want to get our friends really excited about an event, we send out adorable invitations. Our favorites are sassy invitations by Hello Lucky (www.hellolucky.com) and the beautiful "Dahlia" design found at Sugar Paper (www.sugarpaper.com). When we're in New York, we love to pick up invites at Kate's Paperie (www.katespaperie.com). We prefer to hand-write each invitation for a personal touch, and at the bottom of the invitation we always write: "p.s., bring a comfy robe, your slippers and your most fabulous colored nail polish to share!"

 

Light the Way

Before our guests arrive, we turn our house into an inviting spa by lighting our favorite candles (CZ Guest Slatkin found at Bigelow's or www.bigelowchemist.com). Luminarias light a glowing pathway to our front door, adding a touch of celebration and magic. We make them ourselves, with colored paper bags (at www.iparty.com) weighted down with sand and votive candles.

 

Beauty Basics

Our spa products go a long way towards making everyone feel beautiful and relaxed. Our absolute must-haves at every event include our famous Pumpkin Papaya Puree Enzyme Face Masque, our Peach Parfait Exfoliating Body Polish (for hand and foot scrubs and soaks), and our favorite body butter of the moment, our new Tuscan Orange (great for hand and foot massages!)

 

In order to create flow, we ask people to pair up. That way they can give and receive hand and foot massages! We have three separate "stations" for hand, foot and facial treatments, and we post these basic instructions near each:

 

Facials:

1. Cleanse - we prefer gel-based cleansers

2. Exfoliate - we love gentle scrubs

3. Herbal Steam (*Preferably with herbs. We use a combo of dried lavender, calendula and rose in a large bowl of steaming water and place a towel over our heads for several minutes of fragrant steam)

4. Apply face masque- we love our Pumpkin Papaya Puree Facial Masque

5. Tone

6. Moisturize

Hands and Feet:

1. Remove nail polish and trim/file nails before you soak.

2. Soak and exfoliate - we use our Peach Parfait or Maple Syrup Exfoliating Polish

3. Dry and massage with lotion - for intense hydration we prefer our rich body butters

Sweet Beat

To really get our guests in the spa mood, an uplifting CD is key.  Our current favorites include: Norah Jones, old Motown and Brazilian jazz.

Download Jazz on iTunes.


 

 

Warm and Fluffy

Towels pulled fresh from the drier are an absolute necessity for creating a cozy spa feeling. Our towels are "Rhapsody" 100% Egyptian cotton, which feel wonderfully soft and fluffy. Available at www.elegantlinenspc.com.  Add a little lavender or rose water spritz to them before you throw them into the drier, for a relaxing aromatherapy effect. 

                                                                                                                                                                           

Treats to Remember

No gathering with girlfriends is complete without chocolate. Our current favorite is the delectable handmade chocolate from Woodhouse (discovered on a dreamy trip to Napa and available at www.woodhousechocolate.com).  Our guests always appreciate our amazing selection of teas from Harney and Sons, which are easy to find at www.harney.com. Our favorites: Dragon Pearl Jasmine, Mutan White and Paris Blend, a fruity black tea with a hint of lemony Bergamot.

 

Hugs & Kisses

We never let our friends leave empty-handed after a night of pampering. A small parting gift when we say our goodbyes lets them know that their presence is the real reason our party was so divine. We like to give Jaqua gift bags with a Hydrating Shower Syrup, a Shea or Cocoa Sinfully Rich Body Butter, a Dry Oil Body Spray and our new Lip Whip gloss.  We mix and match so no bag is the same.
 

Here are the  fabuous tips from the Jaqua sisters:

JAQUA SPA PARTY

NOW AVAILABLE!!! BEAUTY IN A BOTTLE!!!

You won't believe the results

Roaring Facial Oil

This 1oz bottle of facial oil helps skin feel smooth as satin and look youthful and radiant. Made from luxuriant, all natural botanicals with rejuvenating nutrients for skin, including Jojoba Oil, Rose Hip Seed Oil, Squalene and a (no) wrinkles blend of essential oils.

Customer comments:
"I found much better results with this compared to other products, including Hydroderm and even my favorite Kiehls - at a fraction of the cost!!"

"Thanks for this wonderful oil! I recently had a wonderful complement from a man I just met that I want to share with you .....
I would like to share my thoughts about you. I thought you were a true beauty. Your skin is so radiant and beautiful ... You exude a feeling of being content."

I FEEL PRETTY: BATH & BODY PRODUCTS

Celebrities Love Jaqua Bath & Body Products
Jaqua Beauty was born out of the Jaqua sisters' creative spirit and desire to offer high quality, reasonably-priced indulgences using only premium ingredients, nourishing oils, and proven extracts.
Bigelow Apothecaries
Our 167-year old apothecary tucked amid the bustling chic of New York City's West Village. This on-line catalog is rife with some of our favorite and best selling items: items that have stood the test of time, items that are designed to amuse, and some that are just plain good for you. With our belief in the highest quality products, we travel the world, scouring for items that make a difference in the way you look and feel. For decades our landmark store has been a destination spot for discerning New Yorkers.

WANTED: YOUR FACE ON U.S. POSTAGE STAMPS

Come on, sistas.... NOTHING can be MORE narcissista than putting YOUR face (or FiFi's) on your postage stamps. And now you can! "Imagine the possibilities." Turn your favorite photos into your very own postage stamp! Is this REALLY a 39 cent postage stamp? Yes! PhotoStamps is officially authorized by the US Postal Service.

With PhotoStamps you can turn your own digital photos into real US postage! Create yours today.

HOT LIPS

Ole Henriksen Stimulating Lip Treatment
Say farewell to dry and chapped lips with this deliciously flavored lip balm. Enhances circulation while promoting glossy and sexy looking lips. A true lip treatment: Beta Hydroxy Acids help to slough off excess cells while Anti-oxidants and rich Cocoa Butter help heal and nouish. SPF 15 provides essential daily protection from the sun in a most vulnerable area.

LOOK LIKE THE STARS

ABC TV Store
No, really, you CAN look like the stars. Now you can buy Gabrielle's Yoga Pants, Martha Stewart Signature Couch (as seen in Bree's living room) and Edie's Rouge Guitar. Also sell products for ABC's daytime shows, "All My Children," "One Life to Live," "The View," and "General Hospital."
Pucci - Designer Petwear
Pucci Petwear is an online pet boutique bringing fashion and style to the wonderful world of pets. Pets should be loved and pampered. Animal lover Karen Easter is the founder and owner of Pucci Petwear. She has two beautiful dogs Nellie and Poppy and a gorgeous cat Murphy.

GIRLS (AND BOYS!) JUST WANNA HAVE FUN!!!!

Food and Wine Events Calendar
Looking for fun, food and a way to meet new friends (or lovers)? Events are listed throughout your state - and even the world! They have a weekly free e-newsletter to notify you of the events coming up in your city over the next thirty-days.
Oh, for the times when you've had a little TOO much fun!
"Urban Aid came about one evening at a "girl's night" dinner. While discussing personal aspects of our lives, someone said "wouldn't it be great if there were some type of overnight kit" for those unexpected sleepovers or all niters! It was a conversation that turned into the shame on you kit. From that point, the possibilities of creating fun, useful and edgy gift products for women was born. Of course it wasn't that simple but that is the short of it!"
Get invited to EVENTS at EVENT ME
Event Me's free service informs more than 40,000 subscribers about unique professional, cultural, and fun events in New York City, Boston, Chicago, Los Angeles, Miami, Philadelphia, Portland, the San Francisco Bay Area, Seattle, and Washington, D.C. More cities coming soon.

BEJEWELED

Abalone Jewelry
Daisi Imports has an extensive collection of abalone jewelry ... some cute copper and brass braclets also ... all at really unbelievable prices!
Leanna Lin Jewelry
Leanna uses a lot of vintage glass beads that make her pieces limited or "one of a kind". She also uses Czech glass and semi-precious stones.
Steel Couture
Lisa Fortin is a New York City artisan whose creative impulses propel the design label Steel Couture. Lisa's roots are in costume design: working with chainmail, knitted wire and other textile techniques applied to metal. In contrast, her jewelry line often employs softer materials traditionally used in clothing: ribbon, lace, buttons, leather, and appliques. Steel Couture celebrates the juxtaposition of hard and soft, metal and fabric, ancient and modern.
Wendy Rachel Jewelry Collection
A little pricey, but I LOVE her stuff. $1.00 from each sale of Wendy Rachel jewelry is donated to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation.
Twinkle Jewelry by Wenlan
Wenlan Chia has established Twinkle as one of the bright new shining stars of American fashion. The sportswear collection is known for its whimsical take on feminine dressing -- with a dash of the exotic, dose of pop culture and sense of humor. She offers a few pieces of jewelry on her web site.
Jewelry You Design Online by Desori
Desori handcrafts the jewelry you design. Day, Evening and Bridal wear available. You can get what you want while controlling what you pay!
JacksonReyes Designs
As seen in DAILY CANDY!
With a slight twist of ingenuity, "we work with a simple formula: take fabulous stones, flawless workmanship, clean designs and the potential to wear multiple pieces in countless ways to create a jewelry wardrobe that's unique, dynamic, sexy and smart."
Jewelry by yet-to-be-discovered artists
This online store by Savannah College of Art & Design features a range of various styles and prices. Well worth looking at just to marvel at the creativity of these artists!!
Jester Swink Jewelry
"Life, situations and surroundings exist among us to acknowledge as inspiration." - Angie Rae Gedlaman, owner and designer

SHOPPING ...NEED WE SAY MORE?

FROM AUSTRALIA: We Dream in Colour
From About Dream in Colour:
"We Dream in Colour is a collection of delightful adornments handmade by a couple of divine young things."
Creatures Boutique
Funky clothes, shoes, gifts!
SHOP WIKI
ShopWiki is a shopping search engine that indexes retail products from thousands of online merchants. ShopWiki is not a store and does not sell anything. The purpose of the site is to help consumers find the products they are looking for online with ease.
Rotem Gear
Cool Retro, Jewish, Asian & Veggie Fashions
For an Urban Global Generation

Welcome to Rotem Gear, your virtual bazaar urban street market -- a little exotic, a little gritty, and all original. The creative force behind these enterprises is R. Jean Roth -- designer, writer, intercultural specialist and creative communications innovator. Jean and her work have appeared most recently in The Los Angeles Times, The New Paltz Observer, and the Digital Eve media resource group.
LeSportsac
"Switching gears slightly from LeSportsac's current cutesy, youth-oriented Japanese-inspired tokidoki brand, these next designs are edgier and more abstract, combining brightly colored, psychedelic graphics with black and white illustrations." - IG Picks
Tom's Shoes
A modern-day take on the alpargatas (a traditional utility shoe of Argentinian workers), the slip-ons have espadrille-esque canvas uppers, soft leather insoles, and flip-flop-like bottoms. Simple, comfy, light, affordable, and available in eighteen colors, they have everything it takes to be the perfect summer shoe.

For each pair of Toms Shoes you buy, the company will donate a pair to a child in need from Los Piletones, a small village not far from Buenos Aires, where the shoes are manufactured antisweatshop style. And for those of you who just can't wait to get your feet into them, there's overnight shipping.

Amazon Books: Loving Yourself and Others

Awesome TECHNIQUES FOR CALMING YOUR ANXIETY AND RESTLESSNES!!!

The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook

While I was doing my Internship as a Therapist, I was referred to this book by a Social Worker who practiced therapy with many anxious and unsettled clients. I love it. You can absolutely teach yourself different techniques to reduce stress and anxiety. I was able to extract some of these exercises and use them successfully in individual, couples and group therapy sessions. There are so many different techniques that you can choose from (i.e., visualization, nutrition, thought stopping). The best part about it is that the instructions are clear and you can do this by yourself. Nobody has to know!
- Tanya

NARCISSISTA THINK TANK

It's hard work being a Narcissista. We have to look good and always be on our toes! So, to learn more about being on your toes, visit the High Heel Shoe Museum.

HERE'S THE SCOOP

eNEWSLETTER: DAILY CANDY
DailyCandy, a free daily e-mail newsletter and website, is the ultimate insider's guide to what's hot, new, and undiscovered - from fashion and style to gadgets and travel. As useful as it is entertaining, it's like getting an e-mail from your clever, unpredictable, and totally in-the-know best friend. The one who knows about secret beauty treatments, must-have jeans, hot new restaurants - and always shares the scoop.
RETHINK PINK ONLINE NEWSLETTER: From the Brits ... TRENDS...What's HOT?...What's NEW?...What's COOL?
What's still hot from 2005? Read on....

WANT TO TRY PAT'S SECRET: Ole Henriksen Stimulating Lip Treatment? SEE BELOW TO BUY!!
17 Feb 06
When lips weren't adorned with bold pinks and reds, they were patted lightly with neutral lip balm, or even blanked-out subtly with concealer. "It's the alternative to statement lips," says Pat Grath, who muted the colour of models' lips at Anna Sui, Dolce & Gabbana, Dior, and Calvin Klein. She used Max Factor Concealer, then moisturised them with a simple slick of lip balm 'to enhance their sensual fullness'. Pat's secret lip balm weapon? Ole Henriksen Stimulating Lip Treatment. It gives lips a healthy sheen and helps prep them for this season's bold colours. I used it on all the models- and myself.
SPLENDORA WEB, BLOG, NEWSLETTER: Authority on Fabulous
I love their Style Forecast!!
"Visit your new best friend in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and New York who is the Authority on Fabulous- from the best salons, spas, and chic boutiques to the most splendid restaurants, vacations spots, and just about every product and service women love. By sharing our meticulously researched findings on our website and in our hot weekly newsletter, Friday ForPlay, Splendora is word-of-mouth on a grand scale."
LUXIST BLOG:
About all things luxury.
BORN RICH BLOG: Enter the world of luxury
"Welcome to BornRich, where we will show you how your money should be spent. At BornRich, even a trip to the moon is so passe."

I SMELL PRETTY: Personal Hygeine for a bright smile and fresh breath

Fuzzy Brush, The Chewable Toothbrush
As seen in GLAMOUR MAGAZINE!
A Fuzzy Brush is a small, soft, chewable toothbrush. No water or toothpaste is required.... the Fuzzy Brush is easy, neat and effective. Fuzzy Brushes have been medically tested. They are totally safe and hygienic. Their handy size means you can keep them in your pocket, handbag or car. With a Fuzzy Brush you can brush your teeth and freshen your breath discreetly, and effectively, anywhere and at any time.
* At the office
* After a meal
* When socializing
* Before business meetings
* During a date
* When traveling
Just to be sure ... a MIRROR for your mobile phone!
Embarrassing boogies, mascara goop, chips in your chops ... Terrible things can happen to the most beautiful people. Spare yourself the complete devastation with mobile beauty mirrors.
BONUS: a $1 from every purchase is donated!!

DIAMONDS ARE A GIRLS BEST FRIEND or making sure your man gets you the diamond you want

Diamond Buying Guide for Men
Here's a lens to share with your man when you thinks it's getting close to making that BIG decision ...

MANLY SHOPPING

No, girls, we're not talking about shopping for a new man. We're talking about shopping for your man.
Blank
"More than ever, men today strive to look their best. Blank! is the first online retail store to offer an exclusive focus on men's needs by offering products like men's watches, rings, necklaces and bracelets. Whether it's for you or someone else, you can find the latest fashion accessories, jewelry and gifts in titanium, gold, silver, steel, white gold and more."

Public Service Message for WOMEN

IBC - The Silent Killer
Women traditionally look for lumps to detect breast cancer, but IBC looks like a bug bite. Learn about IBC.

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