No Remorse Divorce - A Second Chance at Life

Divorce is certainly not easy no matter what the circumstances are. Your attitude throughout the process is what is important. In the stages of divorce there comes a time when you are finally relieved and looking forward to your new life ahead of you, a second chance at finding the happiness that you deserve.

Love Hurts

Been there...done that

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Resources

Divorce Helpline: Tools to keep you out of court.
Divorce As Friends: As seen on Oprah...
DivorceMag: Divorce Magazine - One of those magazines you never knew existed until you were served.
Divorce Net: Family Law Information: Solutions, News & Community
Parent's Turn: A wonderful resource that will help parents raise their children in two separate homes as successfully and with as little conflict as possible.

Movies to help you deal...

Remember, laughter is the best medicine.

Some of these are dramas, mostly comedies to keep the laughter and serotonin levels up.

The War of the Roses [Region 2]

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Divorce American Style

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Le Divorce

Amazon Price: $9.98 (as of 10/12/2008)

Divorce His, Divorce Hers

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The Squid and the Whale (Special Edition)

Amazon Price: $8.49 (as of 10/12/2008)

Great Books on Divorce for Adults

Don't forget that there are others out there that have been through this...

Divorce is certainly not an easy thing to deal with, regardless of the circumstances. Reading up on the subject will certainly help you to become more confident, more prepared and more aware of the fact that you are not alone and that you will get through it.

The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study

by Judith S. Wallerstein, Julia M. Lewis, Sandra Blakeslee

Whether you're a child of divorced parents, married to one or are in the process of divorce, this is a valuable tool that provides insight on the effects of divorce on a child through adulthood.

Amazon Price: $10.17 (as of 10/12/2008)

What About the Kids?: Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce

by Judith S. Wallerstein

Parenting is the most challenging job one will ever have in their lifetime. Here is a resource that will help you keep your children's best interests in mind through this difficult transition.

Amazon Price: $10.17 (as of 10/12/2008)

Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on with Your Life

by Pauline H. Tesler, Peggy Thompson

If only more people were aware of this option.

Amazon Price: $19.72 (as of 10/12/2008)

Child-Friendly Divorce: A Divorce(d) Therapist's Guide to Helping Your Children Thrive

by Diane M. Berry

Amazon Price: $17.95 (as of 10/12/2008)

Life After Divorce: Create a New Beginning

by Sharon Wegscheider-Cruse

Amazon Price: $8.76 (as of 10/12/2008)

Books on Divorce for Children

Only you can determine whether or not these books are appropriate for your child, depending on their age. Make sure you read these books by yourself before sitting down with them. Be prepared to answer questions that might come up.

Dinosaurs Divorce

by Marc Brown, Laurie Krasny Brown

Amazon Price: $7.99 (as of 10/12/2008)

The Spider and the Bee

by Michele Shen

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Two Homes

by Claire Masurel

Amazon Price: $6.99 (as of 10/12/2008)

Mama and Daddy Bear's Divorce (Albert Whitman Prairie Paperback)

by Cornelia Maude Spelman

Amazon Price: $6.95 (as of 10/12/2008)

What in the World Do You Do When Your Parents Divorce? A Survival Guide for Kids

by Kent Winchester, Roberta Beyer, Elizabeth Verdick

Amazon Price: $9.95 (as of 10/12/2008)

When You're Ready to Move On

Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts

by Les and Leslie Parrott

Amazon Price: $12.23 (as of 10/12/2008)

Weddings: A Family Affair: The New Etiquette for Second Marriages and Couples with Divorced Parents

by Margorie Engel

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The Second Wives' Club: Secrets for Becoming Lovers for Life

Amazon Price: $14.35 (as of 10/12/2008)

Making Your Second Marriage a First-Class Success

by Doug Moseley, Naomi Moseley

Amazon Price: $10.85 (as of 10/12/2008)

Money and Marriage Two: A Narrative Guide to Financial, Estate, and Retirement Planning in a Second Marriage

by Jon Fitzpatrick

Amazon Price: $25.95 (as of 10/12/2008)

Online Dating

Looking for Love in all the Right Places

If you are like the many single again adults that I know, online dating is a great way to get back into the dating scene. Good luck.

American Singles: You'll need a spreadsheet to remember the different people you meet and from which website...
Chemistry: Either you have it, or you don't.
eHarmony.com: Dr. Phil is associated with this one.
Hi5: This one is not JUST a dating site, but you can search for people interested in dating once you sign up. It's FREE.
Match.com: Certainly the most popular dating site at the moment.
True: Let's face it, no one's completely honest when filling out their profile, right?

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Keep a Sense of Humor

Laughter is the Best Medicine

Whether you have left or have been left, moving on and taking care of yourself is essential. After all, over 50% of marriages end in divorce so no one is going to feel more sorry for you than yourself. Keep your sense of humor and keep your chin up.