Does Your Child Have Oppositional Defiant Disorder?

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Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD help for parents

Does your child have Oppositional Defiant Disorder-ODD? Are you looking for information concerning Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD or ADHD treatment and medication?

If Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD child behavior is your concern and you want ODD treatment ideas, you have come to the right place.

How to Tell if Your Child has Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD

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Which of These Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD Behaviors did Your Child Display in the past 180 days?

To 'earn' the official diagnosis for Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD your child has to display Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD behavior "more often" than is normal for children his age.

So what is "more often"? This is a very vague definition. Basically, what you need to do is to compare your child to others of his age group.

Remember that as your child goes through different stages as he grows. So when you child is three four times a week might be normal for certain behavior, but at seven even twice a week can be "more often" than normal.

How Many of These Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD Behaviors Does Your Child Display?

1- Gets angry and loses temper at least 2x a week

2- Talks back or argues with adults at least 2x a week

3- Chooses to defy or obey the requests of parents, teaches, or those in authority or to obey their rules at least 2x a week

4- Intentionally tires to bother others at least 4x per week

5- Refuses to take responsibility for his mistakes or misbehavior and blames them on others at least 1x in the past 3 months

6- Is overly sensitive or easily bothered by others at least 2x a week

7- Becomes angry and resentful at least 4x a week

8- Behaves in a vengeful or unforgiving manner at least 1 x in the past three months

If your child displays 4 out of these eight behaviors, then he or she might have Oppositional Defiant Disorder- ODD.

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    Amy Feb 9, 2012 @ 6:33 pm | delete
    I honestly have no reason to trust this article if you can't properly spell some words. You said "tires" in point number 4 when it should be "tries?"
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    Von Feb 10, 2012 @ 3:47 pm | delete
    Really Amy? Petty.
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    april Feb 8, 2012 @ 11:55 pm | delete
    i have a 10 year old girl that has odd and she has been kicked out of school and the place i had her in they cant seem to help me with her i don't know what to do with her she was put in a hospital 2 times in 2 years i don't know what to do i have tried every thing to get help with her but i have got no where.
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    akane Feb 9, 2012 @ 1:10 am | delete
    Does she have a formal diagnosis?
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    Dorian Feb 8, 2012 @ 6:50 pm | delete
    My 6 year old girl just absolutely refuses to behave. I've tried calmly talking to her, punishments, whippings, taking away gymnastics and swimming and time outs. Nothing works! I keep getting calls from school. SHe's thrown a girls hat in the mud, gotten suspended for fighting, sneaking things out of the house, lying, intentionally starting arguments with her sister, jabbing a girl in her privates with a plastic toy (which her teacher wrote a letter), etc. I'm tired and I'm not trying to give up on her but I don't know what to do. My mother is living in denial and just says to pray one minute or says that I should take her off punishments. How will she learn if I take her off?
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    akane Feb 9, 2012 @ 1:04 am | delete
    How well are the punishments working so far? Is your daughter learning to behave?
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    Mandie B. Feb 8, 2012 @ 11:04 am | delete
    my son is 5yrs old. im having problems he gets mad allot when he doesn't get his way he throws a fit i put him in time out in his rm. but he throws toys out he hits the walls stops his feet slams the doors..makes a fist like he's going to hit me. hes always fighting with his sister and lil' brother. every day he also talks back allot. can he maybe have ODD and what can i do to help him?
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    akane Feb 9, 2012 @ 1:17 am | delete
    He sounds like a child who is easily frustrated and is having trouble communicating his needs. This is very common in young children who are old enough to know what they want but not old enough to express themselves.

    If this sounds like it may be your child's problem, the best way to handle it is to teach him the proper way to express himself. You do this when he is calm, not while he is being angry or aggressive.

    When something happens and he gets punished, wait until later that day when he is calm and happy and then talk to him. Ask him why he behaved that way and what he wanted? Then help him to find a more appropriate way of asking for that next time.

    It is possible your chid has ODD, but the approach to helping him is still the same.
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    clueless Feb 8, 2012 @ 5:01 am | delete
    my son is 6 and he has several things going on 1 he takes forever to do his sight words and then the next day he claims to forget them hes had the same words for 3 weeks we've worked on them every night for 3 hours he is supposed to be able to look at the word and know what it is so i have him sound it out hell make a a sound for a g and then ill ask him what sound does a g make and hell tell me the right one he does that will all of the letters i see it as hes playing his games as i like to call it my husband calls it playing dumb , he also does things intentional to push my buttons when you ask him why he has done something he clearly knows he shouldn't he said cause i wanted to or i don't know real snotty weve tried everything from rewards taking toys away no tv and he dont care he hasnt watched tv or played with a toy in 2 weeks and he just dont care what do i do
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    Sutha Feb 6, 2012 @ 2:26 am | delete
    My daugter who is 4 years old.
    I found that I have to call her names several times to get her attension. At school also she behave same and her teacher complaind that she is thinking something else and she is not listening attendively. And everytime I call her name more than 5 times then she looking me.
    Is there any problem with her? How can I change her behaviour/attidude?
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    akane Feb 6, 2012 @ 3:07 am | delete
    Have you had her hearing checked?
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    Sutha Feb 6, 2012 @ 3:25 am | delete
    She can hear well, but look like her mind is somewhere, she is thinking something or ignoring me
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    akane Feb 9, 2012 @ 1:08 am | delete
    There could be any one of a number of things going on.
    You need to make sure that she is hearing well with a formal hearing test. Many children look like they can hear, but there is some degree of hearing loss that you can't tell by just observing.
    Then the next step would be to have her evaluated for ADHD, since your main observation is that she is inattentive.
    Contact me with the results of these tests and we can then move further.
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    meli Feb 9, 2012 @ 3:56 am | delete
    Hi!. Well I got the same problem my daughter is very. Bad she yells at me and her dad hits her sisters and brothers she only five and I'm drained and her brother has Anger issues he is 13 but he started since 11. Failing in classes missing his school. Bus purposely and I don't know what to do I've yelled time out cried please tell me do the have odd
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    karen Feb 2, 2012 @ 1:20 am | delete
    I have a 6 year old daughter , she gets upset often and she tells me shes going to hurt herself when i ignore her. She gets in trouble at school but she cant remember why? tries to get out of it or lies. She also has told me she is going to run away and that she has the worst parents ever.She plays the victim very well, she is also the only child at home and i have noticed we dont get any birthday invitations much lately. I feel sad for her , i want her to have a healthy and normal life, but i do notice a problem . HELP
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    Bugeye Feb 5, 2012 @ 3:23 am | delete
    Yep.. Sounds exactly likdgivee my kid. Go to the doctor tell them. They should should give you a refferal to another specialist. My daughter has defiant disorder. Also keep the child in public school because they usually pick up on learning disabilities than private and have the funds to test. My daughter didnt get tested until it was late, we sent her to private school for three years.
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    Loving dad to 2 Jan 29, 2012 @ 6:07 pm | delete
    In my day it was called misbehaving and defying authority. It was swiftly met with disciplinary action! . Today; new age, feel good doctors want to coddle your bratty kids and push expensive designer drugs on them. Bull++++!
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    Chris Tarter Jan 29, 2012 @ 2:40 pm | delete
    Great resources, thank you. It's hard to remember that there are two sides to our child's condition: the medical, scientific side, and then how to go about dealing with the parenting challenges that arise (without making the wrong decision)! Here are 2 other resources we find helpful, 1 for each of those 2 perspectives: http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/oppositional-defiant-disorder and the parenting articles on http://www.kidpointz.com/oppositional-defiant-disorder-odd
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    Linda Jan 25, 2012 @ 4:17 pm | delete
    Well I have a 13 year old daughter who does whatever she wants she came in a couple nights ago stinking of fags and drink I reallly was worried she was doing something she shouldn't be this isn't the only thing I have noticed she has been lacking off in school she's only in second year which worrys me she's already had 4 letters home,3 after school detentions and she is on the edge of beening suspended I am so worried that she will throw her life away:(
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    ashley nicole trillin Feb 3, 2012 @ 1:22 pm | delete
    hi i am a 13 year old girl going thru the same thing i really dont know what is wrong with me i had a fight with my mother 2 days ago and youre daughter probaly dont know why she is acting that way .i dont want to act this way mabeye you should calmy talk to her instaed of punishment taking things away and whippings when my mother and step dad does this it makes me wanna be even more bad because they always put me on punishment.but when i do right i mess up .do not yell at her .dont tell other family members just calmly talk to her and ask her whats going on inside her head .take my advice my parents didnt do this.
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    meli Feb 9, 2012 @ 4:05 am | delete
    Thank you for your advice I'm 29 I have a 14 daughter and I would never dreamed of spanking but your right its best to to talk about it but you see we are parents and worry what bad people can give our kids that's we yell and scream and punish
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    A Worried Parent or Parents Jan 25, 2012 @ 4:10 pm | delete
    Well I have a 12 year old daughter who is a very dramatic girl should I say.She has been in serious bother with her school I have had 4 letters if concern home about her attitude towards her teachers and her effort in classes.She is very cheeky and sometimes her father and me just cant deal with it we really need help not serious help but just some advice for us.We have tried everything you can possibly think of her mobile iPad and tv has been took off her that did no help we then grounded her for being cheeky to her father she was excellent when she was grounded she helped wash dishes and all sorts that's my daughter who is kind,caring and respectful towards her family the people who care about her most after she was ungrounded she went back to her normal ways of swearing and getting upset and angry over things so silly EG last week she asked for her best friends to stay over but I said no because her room was messy I also says if she cleaned it she would get her friends to stay over but she went in a strop and says I'm the worse mother alive I would be really thankful if someone could tell me what to do but not to harsh stuff thanks
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    Arls Jan 17, 2012 @ 3:38 pm | delete
    This could be 90% of all kids - all these labels that are put on kids now is so overwhelming and frustrating to me as a mother. I have 2 boys (5 months and 5 yrs) and he is a spirited boy and half the boys I see are the same way but if they act hyper well god he has a dysfunction. Can't boys just be boys?
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    Zak Jan 16, 2012 @ 7:41 am | delete
    My brother is 25 years old. He is disable, cannot walk long distance and cannot speak proper tongue. He has a great personality thou, a friend of everyone. We all love him. Only one problem he has and is that when he gets angry then he breaks anything he sees. (Break windows, bang doors, smashes car windows, hit children, bang his head on the wall etc until it start bleeding, and this continue for like two hours and sometimes even longer) How he gets angry (someone told him to eat something and he didnt like it then he gets angry, or if he is trying to do something and could not do it then he gets angry, or if he gets hungry before the time he gets angry even if i tell him that i will bring him some food, he gets angry with anything he does not like i think) Now, this happens more when my mum is at home with him. He gets mad like this twice a week or sometimes three times a week. but if mum is not at home then he(my brother) is all quite and does not do anything, and even if he (brother) gets angry, he gets back to normal soon (within like half an hour plus does not harm any one or break stuff during he is angry) I dont know why he does this. i know one thing for sure that he has some problems, this is why he gets angry soon but i don't know why he is very bad when mum is at home with him and not that bad when mum is away. i have taken him to many specialists but he(brother) is same as he is since childhood. He has this medicine forever and ever. Having medicine every night one tablet.
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    Worried mom Jan 3, 2012 @ 2:07 am | delete
    My son is 8 years old and I will say that he is not a bad child and I think that is if often a good child. He started suffering from night terrors at the age of 18 months and they just subsided a month ago. But his behavior is not ideal. He does what I tell him not to and he will not do what I tell him to do and it always turns into a fight. He hurts his two baby sisters intentionally and just seems like he cannot control himself. He does not seem to have many problems at school although he has had episodes but I am not really sure what it is. What I can say is that I believe that problems that I am seeing are in relation to the fact that his father had at least an eight ball of crystal meth in his body at the time of conception. He was also until about 3 months ago watching his father be abusive (his father is a drug addict with no hope at all). I believe that environment has played a role and while the experts are not yet so sure, I am confident that his father using drugs has affected my son (and now possibly the two daughters I have since had). We are now out of the environment and have no plans of ever turning back but clearly my son needs help and I do not know how to get it. My 3 year old daughter is now starting to display some of the same behaviors and violent outbursts. I am worried as I do not want drug addicted or screwed up kids and I hope that it is not too late now that I have finally been able to get out of the abusive relationship and environment which has impacted us for so long. What can I do?
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