Society of the Sacred Heart Founded By Saint Madeleine Sophie Barat
The Society of the Sacred Heart was originally founded in Paris, France in 1800 by Saint Madeleine Sophie Barat, "consecrated to the glory of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, and to the spread of His worship..."
The Society of the Sacred Heart is a Roman Catholic religious congregation with a presence in 45 countries. Membership to the Society is restricted to women only. Its members do many works, but focus on education, particularly girls' education.
Because of its origins, work, and character, the Society is sometimes considered a female equivalent to the Society of Jesus. Members use the suffix "RSCJ" which stands for Religieuses du Sacré Coeur de Jésus or Religiosa Sanctissimi Cordis Jesu or Religious of the Sacred Heart of Jesus.
Famous members of the Society of the Sacred Heart include Saint Madeleine Sophie Barat, the founder; Saint Rose Philippine Duchesne, who brought the order to the United States; and Janet Erskine Stuart, fifth Superior General of the Society of the Sacred Heart.
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The Society of the Sacred Heart
Janet Erskine Stuart was a Roman Catholic nun and educationalist of the Society of the Sacred Heart.Her father was the Rector of Cottesmore and she was the youngest of his twelve children. She converted to Roman Catholicism at the age of 22 and in 1882, she entered the Society of the Sacred Heart at Roehampton.
Stuart believed that each parent had the right to ask the teachers: "What have you done with my child, for my child? Show me the trace of your influence on her mind, heart, character, and conduct". She also believed, "it is not so much what we say or do that educates; what really educates is who we are". Erskine Stuart insisted that educators must "bring up children for the future, not for the present".
Her writings included The Education of Catholic Girls (1912), Highways and By-ways in the Spiritual Life and The Society of the Sacred Heart (1914).
In August 1911, Janet Stuart was elected the fifth Superior General of the Society of the Sacred Heart. She held this office for three years until her death, aged 56.
The extracts below are from her book, The Society of the Sacred Heart written during a trip to Austrailia in 1913 and first printed after her death in 1914.
Origin and History of the Society of the Sacred Heart
By Janet Erskine Stuart
"This little Society," as the Foundress [here the author is referring to Madeleine Sophie Barat] loved to call it -- youngest born as it was in time, and smallest in growth when she first began to write about it -- did not originate in her mind. It had been "in the air" of the spiritual world for some time before she knew of it. Two attempts had been made under conditions which, humanly speaking, might have commanded success there were names and antecedents that would have impressed the world, and were not without consideration in the Church. But God -- as He has often chosen to do -- set aside the eldest-born, disregarding "their stature and the beauty of their countenance," and chose for the great work one that was young and poor, without experience, without ambition, country-bred and quite unknown, that it might not be of man, but the work of His own hand.
A Legacy of Father Leonor de Tournely
Meeting the Need of the Time
Then it was realised more clearly than had been seen before how much of the future, for good or for evil, hung on the influence of women, and that a systematic education preparing them for their responsible charges in life, was one of the most powerful means of directing the course of the coming time.
This was God's hour; He had prepared His instrument by a long and rare fashioning. Little Madeleine Sophie had received an education which was found afterwards to have specially fitted her for a work so new; one that necessitated the making of a complete plan for the training of girls of the upper classes, to fit them to meet the altered state of the world. She had been trained by her brother, a young priest of high ideals, severely exacting as to her application to study, and still more as to the self-renunciation in which, as her godfather and spiritual guide, he felt it his duty to exercise her.
He kept his sister at classical studies until they won their fascinating power over her mind; then abruptly withdrew them, and set his unwilling but obedient pupil to the study of the Fathers of the Church, of Sacred Scripture and philosophy. He grounded her in mathematics, and allowed modern languages as a recreation. This was the foundation that he laid, without knowing what was to be raised upon it. The woman's side of training came to her from her mother; her own instinct, observation and experience did the rest.
Her Burgundian Influence
A Significant Gift
In many quarters a work of preparation had been going on for some years, and the line of several lives had been converging to a meeting-place after which the course of Madeleine Sophie's existence changed. Father Louis Barat's mission with regard to his sister came to an end; Father de Tournely's dream began to be realized; Father Joseph Varin fulfilled his promise to his dying friend; and, in the greatest obscurity and poverty, as yet without a name or a mission, except to consecrate its members to the service of God, the Society of the Sacred Heart was born.
The Birth of the Society of the Sacred Heart
It was born in a little upper room in Paris, and in the joy of its first consecration, nearly burned down the house in which the consecration had been made at Father Varin's Mass. Its birthday was the Feast of Our Lady's Presentation, the twenty-first of November, 1800.
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A Dream Redirected
The first goal of her desires was to be a Carmelite.
The Honeymoon of Her Religious Life
These were her happiest days, the honeymoon of her religious life; but they did not last long.
The End of the Honeymoon
First member, first Superior, and first Superior General--she who could not manage the children, she who always wanted to run away and hide and be alone with God! It is no wonder that He hid from her what was to come, and revealed it only stey-by-step, leadin gher blindfold, and at times forcing her on by the kind but imperious voice of Father Varin, until she knew without possibility of doubt what God willed of her.
She was not one that seemed born to rule; and it was perhaps a special gift that this was so, for the personal impress which she left behind after sixty years of government was that of her sanctity, not of her character. No member of her Order tries to model herself on the Foundress; no personal example is held up before the whole Institute except the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Most Pure Heart of Mary. In this she had her way; she disappeared, to leave all the light and interest of the picture to focus on the sacred Heart, which was the sun of here own life. So her words are treasured, and her thoughts are in great honour; but those who loved her best in life, and now venerate her most intensely, never try to imitate her.
Against her will Blessed Madeleine Sophie became Superior General
Her hand was firm, but also light.
Heirs to the Kingdom of Heaven
The first plans of school rule and studies,as far as they can be known, are very simple, and have a certain youthful ouch and a pretty classical turn that are quite characteristic of what we know of the Foundress's youth. There is a hint from Fenelon's Education des Filles here, and a suggestion of Madame de Maintenon's practical ways there, but there is no ancien regime about it. There is a free, unpretentious, simple way of looking at education, from its mainspring in religious teaching to a demure little paragraph on the necessity of dancing which has all the freshness and charm of a new beginning, and the impress of a mind transparently good, free from all pedantry and full of faith in the future.
Disappointments came later; but the more Mother Barat gained in experience, the more she learned to value this lovable, troublesome work of education, the more she loved the children; until, in the last years, she said that they were, with the Sacred Heart, the one interest of life for her; a two-fold interest, but one and the same, since the value of the children lay in that they were children of God, and heirs of the Kingdom of Heaven.
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With the Death of Madeleine Sophie, the Baton is Passed.
The Society of the Sacred Heart entered, with her, on a new period of expansion.
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Mother Lehon Begins A New Era of Expansion
There were houses of the Sacred Heart in Rome, in Piedmont, in Switzerland, in Belgium and Holland, in Austria and Germany, in England and Ireland, in Spain, Poland and the West Indies, before the Foundress died. There were vocations from all these countries; and the young Society was affirming more and more that its mission and message was Catholic and not national.
Mother Lehon's most active years had been passed in Rome and other cities of Italy, where she had seen the events of 1859, and of other troubled years. She brought to the government of the Institute a precious inheritance of devotion to Rome as the center of Catholic life, and also a courage with much experience of revolutionary troubles, that helped her through years of disturbance and menace which never altered her peace of mind, and allowed her to go on founding, building and extending, though she knew that many things which she founded might be swept away in the next storm; so they were, but most of them after her time.
There was again a pause after her death; for nine months Mother Augusta von Sartorius ruled the Society, and died, as she had foreseen, under the weight of a burden that was too heavy for here sensitive nature.
A Gust of Wind Sweeps Over France
The gust of wind that swept over France was not the first dispersion that had befallen the Society of the Sacred Heart since its beginning. It had been driven from Piedmont in 1848, from other places in Italy in later troubles; from Switzerland, very early in its history, with a decree of banishment, "the barring of the door," which has never since been unbarred; from Germany in the Kulturkampf; and there, also, after forty years, the door is still locked and barred.
But these losses have been compensated by gains; the last blast has carried, not dead leaves, but living seed far and wide, and often i t has fallen on good soil in places of promise. Vocations shaken out of the home soil have struck root again in distant lands.
Other members, jealous of the honour, have been allowed to volunteer with them, or have been sent with the strong support of obedience, more happy than if they had volunteered. They have planted houses of the Sacred Heart in Japan, on the highlands of Columbia, on the uncertain ground of Uruguay, where local troubles are constantly threatening to blow the seed away again. They are more firmly rooted in more stable soil in various parts of America and Europe; they have been carried out to many islands, and from all far centres they affirm that it is good to be there, and cry to Europe that the harvest is great and labourers few, and beg for more help to gather it in.
From Heaven the Blessed Foundress must rejoice to see so many of her dearest wishes accomplished, glad to see her children counted worthy to suffer some hard blows in the cause of God's kingdon, glad to see them thrive on persecution, and think themselves happy to be sent to the ends of the earth, glad to see vocations come up year after year, if somewhat diminished in number, from the countries from which her children have been driven, at least more true and tried by the additional sacrifice for country without any assurance of return, or even of seeing the Society return in their lifetime. She must be glad above all for the wonderful protection of God, confirming the confidence which she always felt, which we must always feel, that He specially loves and protects what must ever be to her and to us, "this little Society."
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Growth and Development
"Great things are done by devotion to one idea." -- Cardinal Newman.
"The work of the morrow will largely consist of the impossible of today." -- H. Plunkett.
It belongs to living things to be in motion and to undergo modifications. Immutability belongs to inanimate matter; to "still life," or to death. A high degree of vitality is generally accompanied by more marked changes, and at the same time by a stronger hold upon the unchanging identity that underlies all modification. So, among human beings, strong personalities are most entirely and permanently themselves; and, without fear of losing themselves, can challenge the currents of circumstances to play upon them, adapt themselves to new conditions, and come back to their own to face the more searching scrutiny of father and mother and kindred, and prove that they are still "of the blood." Change has not passed upon what was deepest down in their souls, but the discipline of change has called out its deepest response. They have changed; but that change was growth. They are unchanged; and that unchangeableness is their truth. Weaker characters, similarly exposed to influences from without, are in more danger of losing themselves, and, as it is said, "drop out of their family." and are absorbed into another class of life and manner of thinking. They come home changed in themselves, and scarcely recognizable.
Life is the school in which personalities are tried. As the individual so the religious Order is tried in the school of life; but its school is in the contemporary events through which the whole Church passes, and in which her saints are formed, her champions tried, and her religious Orders tested and proved and drawn on in the way of perfection.
These religious Orders, in their rise and growth, must go through vicissitudes similar to those through which individuals are tried and trained up to their full power. Without such experience and conflict they would remain incomplete, and incapable of carrying on their members to the perfection of their calling. Their life is not allowed to remain primitive and uncomplex, as it was for most of them in the earliest years. Then they lived as children do: almost forgetful of yesterday, and hardly conscious of tomorrow beyond a hopeful determination to live and do something with it when it comes. But there comes a moment in the life of a child when this way of living must change. It becomes more conscious of itself, less simple, less careless, at first sight, less beautiful. It is between two stages, like a fruit tree in May; the blossom is away, the fruit not yet come. The stage is critical, unbeautiful to those who look on without a stake in the results; they call it the "awkward age," the "difficult years," and other disapproving names. But to those who really care, the gardener for the fruit tree, father or mother or educator for the child, and for the young creature itself, who is being carried on by the current of years, this stage has all the thrill, the terror and the rush of a crisis. The child outgrowing childhood is divided between a longing to be true to what is best, and an imperious command from within to be itself. To see that these two are the same thing is a solution that comes later on, and harmonizes the perplexing dissonance.
This is not the only critical stage of life, though it is the one most watched and studied. In a sense it is through this period that the Society of the Sacred Heart must make its way at present. Owing to the great age of the Blessed Foundress it has been postponed longer than for other religious Orders. But now the very last members who have known her are passing away; and it is said to be a critical moment in the live of any religious Order when those members, the last link with the Foundress, have disappeared. There is a certain wistful uncertainty about it, as when parents die, and the children, just coming of age, are seeking a new center of gravity, eldest boy or eldest girl must have great self-questioning within, a solitary self-examination on personal disinterestedness and a heightened sense of responsibility in looking to the future. Then there are stages of further growth and periods of quiescence to be gone through, each with their own alarms; is the growth true to its kind? Is the quiescence normal rest or inertness? Never, at the moment of going through an experience, can we fully understand it; part of its discipline is that very uncertainty. Yet, neither in the individual life, nor in the growth of a religious Order, need the fundamental peace be disturbed if its trust in in God; it is on Him alone that both must count "through the changes and chances of this mortal life," to bring them to the end of their being.
The Rythum of Expansion and Contraction, of Activity and Rest
Again, in each religious Order there are, besides the regular rhythmical movements of outgoing and in taken breath, other and less measurable currents of though and feeling that traceable in retrospect, but hard to discern at the time, affecting widely the whole Institute. Sometimes they coincide with the growth and decline of certain influential personalities, especially if their influence is exercised in centres where the younger members of the Order are congregated. At other times comes the echo of a more general movement which is felt in other religious Orders, or in certain countries, or in the whole Church. Sometimes it is a trace of conflict, or controversy; not harmful, for it keeps the outlook vigilant on the side of danger; sometimes it is the first breath of a new spring in the spiritual world, and brings the joy and thrill of higher hope and aspiration into a whole region or throughout a whole Institute. So the Decrees that came from Rome in 1905, concerning frequent and daily Communion, were indeed a new spring, and carried a resistless impulse of fresh vigour to the very soul and centre of religious life for communities of women; and, from the first months, their influence could be almost measured "in quietness and in confidence;" in the disappearing of unrest and questionings; in a more perfect unity of spirit. So again, in England, within the last few years, who has not felt that a new current has been infused in to the very springs of spiritual life; that the old shadows are passing away, and things undreamt of coming true; that God has again more visibly pitched His tabernacle among us; that His word is more clearly heard, His spirit is more intimately in our midst, and this especially in what concerns the inner life of souls? Who can say whence it comes? It is not an external movement, but a whispered word; heard by ears that are ready to catch it, and inspiring the spiritual writings and teachings of these years in a way that gives them eager welcome, not only at home, but far beyond. In religious life souls are sensitive and quick to be reached by such life-giving winds, as they are by instinct on the alert to catch any news of the unseen world in which their interests are at home.
These influences of tides and currents of thought and action, and these spiritual vibrations, are very strongly felt in the Society of the Sacred Heart. It is by its very nature quickly responsive to spiritual influences, and a certain intenseness about its responsiveness is an indication of its distinctive feminine mentality, which will be considered later on.
External movements of thought, and the requirements of legislation as to the works in which it has a share, also affect it on the side of its professional development; but they do not, as the spiritual influences, reach down to the quick. They are accepted, but considered with a cooler survey. They evoke a response, but no deep vibration; they will have their time, and be succeeded by others, perhaps moving in a contrary direction; but they do not affect the high springs of life. This question, too, must be reserved for consideration in a later chapter. It remains, in this, to give some account of that under-structure of the Institute which does not change.
The Spirit of the Constitutions of the Society of the Sacred Heart
"Your Society Is Strongly Timbered"
And yet the Constitutions are to us only as Scripture is to Doctrine; we have beside them the living tradition which makes the rule of life.
In the life of the Blessed Foundress it happened more than once that the Constitutions of the Society of the Sacred Heart were asked for to furnish a basis for some other religious rule. And yet nothing came of it. She gave them; but they could not be taken. She foresaw it by some secret knowledge of her own which perhaps God had given. Some vital spirit, quickening the Rule, had been infused from the beginning, and had been in its first flower even before the Rule was written. There is a letter and a spirit, and the spirit takes precedence. The letter cannot serve without the spirit; but the spirit can flourish, at least for a time, without the letter.
It has been proved by experience, and it even commends itself in principle that this must be so. Give to a little group of fervent souls a ready-made book of Constitutions, say the Rule of the Society of the Sacred Heart, and let them, from the book alone, work out the way and spirit of their community life. It may be safely said that, however perfect the manner of life that they work out from the written Rule, it will not be the way of life of the Society of the Sacred Heart, either as to spirit or ideals, or means to its end. It will have some other countenance and wear a different expression. Only from living soul to living soul can the original spirit be handed down. From the text of the Rule alone, different interpretations would inevitably arise, adjusting the principles of training, where they are only indicated, marking otherwise the attitude towards the world and the frontier of its claims, balancing the contemplative and active elements in the whole, and allotting the proportion of the part that is common and that which is solitary and private.
By the living tradition and the written law the Institute has come to its full growth, with a marked personality of its own which belongs chiefly to the tradition, and some essential principles of construction which are found in the written Rule.
Governance and Formation in The Society of the Sacred Heart
Distinctions Within the Society of the Sacred Heart
Enclosure in the Society of the Sacred Heart
Speaking from the point of view of education alone, His Majesty's Inspectors, often hypercritical by profession, but often also singularly open-minded in their appreciations, at first are inclined to find great fault with this remoteness from the world which we call enclosure; but, on more detailed consideration they have, not seldom, withdrawn their criticism, and recognized that by the side of some apparent difficulties, there are, even from the point of view of education, some very real benefits.
The Governance of each House within the Society of the Sacred Heart
The idea of governing a house of the Sacred Heart is not that of a formal administration, but more like that of ruling a family. And as in the family, practically, all depends on the mother, so in a religious community the whole house takes its tone from the Superior. St. Francis of Sales knew this, and found in it the chief reason which must delay the the extension of the whole Order of the Visitation; it was too rare to find mothers in whom all the necessary qualities were combined. The same consideration holds good elsewhere than at the Visitation; and those who have studied the obligations of Superiors as laid down in their particular rules, may well ask themselves where such complete qualities and virtues can be found. But, as God gives to mothers of families day bu day the knowledge and the growing experience to accomplish their duties, as He fills them with devotedness and gives light to their eyes to see beyond the surface of things, as, above all, He seems to give an almost irresistible power to their prayers, so does He give these needful gifts to those whom He sets over religious families.
Superiors Represent the Authority to Whom the Vow of Obedience is Made.
Superiors in the Society of the Sacred Heart
Superiors are set, with the sanction of the Church, at the head of a religious family; and thus all the regulation that belongs to religious discipline comes under their authority and supervision. In these two spheres they are the guardians of the Rule, responsible to see that it is kept, and that the vows are observed in their integrity "according to the spirit and Rules of the Society." They must take the necessary means to enforce these obligations, and above all, they themselves are bound to give the example of perfect observance, the most persuasive and powerful of exhortations. So far, it might not be so difficult to be a perfect Superior. Good religious of sufficient capacity and firmness of character might be able to exercise these functions, and keep the discipline of a religious house in good working order. That might be good administration.
But there is a whole realm beyond, in which they must rule by an unwritten law; they must be the mothers of the family, and this is more than administration. They must be sensitively alive to the needs, and joys, and sorrows of each member of the community. These are not their "children," but their grown-up daughters; sensitive themselves, suffering the rise and fall of effort and reaction in the spiritual life; ardent, and needing a restraining hand—or easy, and wanting a stimulus to bring out their best. Often disappointed with themselves, they need to be upheld by hope and the strong support of someone who believes in them. Often, tired by spiritual effort, as by hard work they need to be rested; not by inaction, but by a change in the point of view or a readjustment of details in their life. More than all, they want understanding and sympathy in order to call out their best powers; and this needs the eye of a mother to study them, and to study all that will help her to understand them better. It calls also for that confident and insistent prayer which must rise with great power to God wherever a mother sets herself to pray.
Training in the Society of the Sacred Heart
The first important question is therefore the choice and admission of new members. It is distinctly forbidden to invite or suggest to anyone that they should join the Society of the Sacred Heart. It is held that the first advance should come from those who wish to offer themselves, or from their spiritual advisers. The first reception is sometimes even chilling. Thus the late Superior General as a girl was refused admission in terms which would have daunted a less magnanimous humility, and prohibited any further advances. Thus again, it is told of another, who was afterwards admitted, that being uncertain as to the Order to which she was called, she wrote a letter asking admission, and sent a copy to twelve different religious Institutes. Eleven acceptances came back and one letter that was almost a refusal, from the convent of the Sacred Heart. Perhaps the spirit of contradiction added a little human piquancy to the hope of overcoming the opposition; at all events she said: "That is the place for me;" and won her entrance.
Unconditional Surrender of Self
A Whole-hearted Determination to Give Themselves to God, Without Reservation or Condition
It is not asked that the candidate should bring a dowry. Many of the best vocations come penniless, and are just as welcome with their generous oblation and their good gifts as those who come from time to time, bringing means enough for two or three as well as for themselves. Good health is a matter of importance; but even those without much physical strength can, if they have some spirit and courage, adapt themselves to the obligations of the common life. Melancholy temperaments are very closely scrutinized before they are admitted, and also those disposed to take the troubles of life too much to heart. A great deal of unpreparedness is overlooked if there is enough strength of mind to bear the necessary chiseling in training, and a blending quality in the character which will make it adaptable to community life, and capable of bearing transplantation.
Brilliancy of talent is not looked for; if it comes with a well-balanced mind it is a good gift for which to be thankful; but good intelligence and willing application, or plain good sense ready to give of its best, are considered sufficient promise of serviceableness later on. All who offer themselves must realize that they are not accepted as ready-made, but that they come, as it were, raw material, of more or less known quality, from which religious are to be progressively formed through various means of training, which will work upon them day bu day, gradually correcting faults and setting free the higher gifts and qualities from imperfections that might hinder their full development.
Candidates arriving in the novitiate are generally much surprised to find how simple the life is on the surface; how few extraordinary things are asked, or even allowed; how gentle and considerate are the orders given; how easily everything seems to move, without friction, in an atmosphere of mutual confidence. They have braced themselves to bear what seemed to be the obvious and necessary manner of training souls in self-denial: to receive sharp imperatives for orders, constant rebukes and reprehensions; to accept the studied contradiction of all their views and inclinations, with austerities and penitential exercises filling up the back ground of the picture.
The Process of Training by Severity
The Second Stage of Astonishment
What is it that makes the training so hard? It has been said by directors of souls: "If you can go through the training of the Sacred Heart, you can go through anything." Perhaps it is the constancy of the effort required in the process - not only of overcoming the faults which are recognized and evident, bu t of going up to the source and origin of these faults; learning to know and cut off their hidden springs, the defects, whether belonging only to temperament or to some fundamental flaw of mind or character, which must be known and frankly faced if they are to be overcome. The beginning of the search has a keen interest for the novice; Saints and dragons furnish inspiriting comparisons; but to come upon the redoubtable creature in its lair, often the very defect which seems most undesirable and least like the ideal self, to draw it forth and challenge it to single combat, and to carry that challenge through without ever faltering; to accept many failures and face many fresh manifestations of its vitality; this requires endurance and courage more than to bear up against a trial of sharp words or exercise of penance.
Thoughts on "Community Life"
All these things belong to common life; they make demands at all hours, with an insistence of their own which is a great test of attention, self-denial and self-repression; they are not all written in the Rule, but they impose themselves by an inward law that leaves the written prescriptions far behind; and if anyone can be blameless and perfect in these, it may be taken that they have reached already a fairly high standard of inward mortification. At the same time, it is so little! No one could find mater for vanity in the accomplishment of these mere nothings, although the sum of them mounts up to a service that neither God nor man could hold cheap.
The Need For Training In Moderation
The Moderation of Eagerness Which Rushes to Extremes
Self-Renuciation/Self-Denial
The Role of Friendeships Within The Society of The Sacred Heart
Secondly, exclusiveness in friendship may very easily do wrong to sacred common rights in an assembly where all are mothers and sisters, where each has a right to the cordiality of all, and must give as well as receive from all a real affection. It happens too easily that what is lavished on one is taken from others. Limited as is our power of attention and self-devotion and service, the more it is poured out on one side the less can be given on another, and the balance of the whole is lost.
Thirdly, exclusiveness in friendship easily induces familiarity: "giving oneself away." This has drawbacks which are almost evident. There must be, especially in religious life, a reserve of strength out of sight. Familiarity breaks it down. There must be one inner chamber of the soul, its Holy of Holies, in to which God alone enters. It is one of the requirements of high friendships that the line of this inner sanctuary should not be crossed. There are points of understanding where affection would willingly pause and make tabernacles; finding there solace, support, comprehension, to make up for some of the aridities of duty and the weariness of our life's probation.. It is just that pausing and seeking rest that is forbidden. This is one of the good things of life which has been given up; for it must never be forgotten that it is the good things and not the bad things of the world, which religious bring as their offering to God when they enter the religious life. Again, all that weakens the soul and leaves it unguarded, is a danger to perfect religious spirit. There must be a loyal reticence about personal troubles, about the trying experiences of life, about the demands made, about the place where the harness galls a little, about all those things in fact which a little courage is enough to bear in silence and treat as nothing. But if these are poured out along with them, the best of life goes to waste, and it becomes anemic for want of tonic restraint.
Some rare and perfect friendships are sanctioned; but they require the approval of Superiors, that the rights of the community may be safeguarded; that all may be according to obedience, and that there may be nothing to conceal. They are allowed between two equals and friendly rivals in fervour; or between two, of whom one is advanced in perfection and the other aspiring. In these noblest friendships, used as a spur to sanctity, held in check by habitual renunciation, guarded by rule, by silence, by loyalty, the growth in sanctity will be rapid enough to keep the religious friends from sitting down to rest in the shade, and to prevent satiety.
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by Lingua
In June, 2006 I had the privilege of spending 4 days at the convent of the Religiose del Sacro Cuore di Firenze where my daughter was discerning a voc...
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