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Choosing Just the Right Songs for Your Wedding

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The Soundtrack of Your Wedding Day

 

The music is important.  Very important.  You can have a perfect looking wedding...perfect flowers, perfect attire, perfect decorations, perfect cake...but if the wedding music is bad then the quality of the event will drop (considerably).  The music sets the tone for the enjoyment level of the event.  You want your guests to have a good time.  You want them to remember your wedding as a fun day.  Choose music you like AND music that the whole crowd would enjoy.  Choose music that means something to you.  It's not that hard, if you plan ahead.

Bridal Party Introduction Music 

FOR THE RECEPTION

The entrance music for the Bridal Party will set the tone for the wedding...a really fun starting song will tell people this is to be a really fun event.

#1

Theme From Rocky

5 points

#2

Pink - Get This Party Started

2 points

#3

Get Ready for This (Wrestling)

2 points

#4

Katrina & the Waves - Walking on Sunshine

2 points

#5

Chariots of Fire

1 point

#6

Cinderella's Royal Fanfare

1 point

#7

The Bob's - Fanfare

from Andy Kaufman1 point

#8

Theme from Monday Night Football

0 points

#9

Mission Impossible Theme

0 points

First Dance 

This is a song that should really mean something to the Bride and Groom - it their chance to play something for themselves. Don't get out of control...it should be romantic...but it should be in the genre of favorite music.

Another key to this song choice, is that it be a song that is dance-able. Don't go with something complicated if either of the couple don't really dance.

These are just few options:

#1

Etta James - At Last

4 points

#2

Atlantic Star - Always

1 point

#3

L. Ronstadt & A. Neville - Don't Know Much

1 point

#4

Frank Sinatra - The Way You Look Tonight

1 point

#5

E. Walter Smith - First Dance

from www.YourFirstDanceSong.com1 point

#6

Kelly Clarkson - A Moment Like This

0 points

#7

Cher & Peter Cetera - After All

0 points

#8

Elvis Presley - Can't Help Falling in Love

0 points

#9

Jeffrey Osborne - On The Wings of Love

0 points

Learn More about Choosing Your Wedding Music 

How to Set Your Wedding to Music: The Complete Wedding Music Guide and Planner (Book & CD)

Learn more about your music selection for your wedding with this guide.

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For the Cake Cutting 

So you cut the cake, feed each other, possible start a foodfight. It's all in good fun, and the song playing should be too! These are a few of the popular songs for the cutting of the cake:

#1

James Taylor - How Sweet It Is

2 points

#2

The Archies - Sugar, Sugar

1 point

#3

The Turtles - Happy Together

1 point

#4

Frank Sinatra - Love & Marriage

1 point

#5

Adam Sandler - I Want to Grow Old With You

0 points

#6

The Beatles - When I'm 64

0 points

#7

Harry Connick Jr. - Recipe For Love

0 points

#8

Def Leppard - Pour Some Sugar On Me

0 points

#9

Sarah MacLaughlan - Ice Cream

0 points

Wedding CDs 

These are a few good CDs that have what you will need for the ceremony. Most people don't stray too far from the basics for the ceremony, so most of what you want should be here. If you are using live musicians for the ceremony, a CD like this is helpful to be able to discuss with them which songs you want...there is more then one "Wedding March" so be specific or you may find yourself walking in to the wrong song.

25 Wedding Favorites

Amazon Price: $4.98 (as of 12/04/2008) Buy Now

Classical Wedding

Amazon Price: $11.99 (as of 12/04/2008) Buy Now

A Day to Remember - Instrumental Music for Your Wedding Day

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Money/Dollar/Honeymoon Dance 

This is another tradition that often gets the cut these days. Whatever you call it, this is the song where people pay for a dance with the bride and groom. Though many people think it is cheesy, and cheap, to do this dance, statistically most weddings still have one. It is most appropriate for first weddings for which the bride and groom are not already living well off independently.

#1

Pretty much any easily dancable song

Since many will do this dance and few others, many dollar dance dancers can't dance. If you expect this to be the case, choose a very easy to move to song.1 point

#2

James Taylor - You've Got A Friend

1 point

#3

Barenaked Ladies - If I Had A Million Dollars

0 points

#4

Dionne & Friends - Thats What Friends Are For

0 points

#5

Calloway - I Wanna Be Rich

0 points

#6

If I Were A Rich Man - From Fiddler on the Roof

0 points

#7

Jennifer Lopez - Love Don't Cost A Thing

0 points

#8

Elton John - Kiss the Bride

0 points

#9

Dionne Warwick - That's What Friends Are For

0 points

#10

Whitney Houston - Count on Me

0 points

The Dollar Dance 

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Father/Daughter Dance 

This dance is a classic and a must-have if the father is physically able. Even Dads who never ever dance, dance this one, and even look forward to it.

#1

Nat King Cole / Natalie Cole - Unforgettable

2 points

#2

Louis Armstrong - What a Wonderful World

2 points

#3

Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses

1 point

#4

Rod Stewart - Have I Told You Lately That I Love You

0 points

#5

Amy Grant - Father's Eyes

0 points

#6

Red Sovine - Daddy's Girl

0 points

#7

Holly Dunn - Daddy's Hands

0 points

#8

E. Walter Smith - Little Girl

Here is the perfect song (duet) for the father dau more...0 points

Mother/Son Songs 

#1

The Man You've Become

1 point

#2

Through The Years

Kenny Rogers1 point

#3

Chris Taylor - I Will Remain Your Little Boy

0 points

#4

B.J. Thomas - Mama

0 points

#5

Barbra Streisand - If I Could

0 points

Wedding CDs 

These are a few other good wedding CDs:

Wedding Songs

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For Your Wedding Ceremony

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Modern Bride Presents the Wedding Album

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Parent's Dance 

If you'd like to merge the father/daughter and mother/son to be done at the same time...try the Parent's Dance.

#1

Andrea Bocelli with Celine Dion - The Prayer

3 points

#2

Stephen Curtis Chapman - Parents' Prayer

0 points

#3

Roberta Flack - The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face

0 points

#4

Kenny Rogers - Through the Years

0 points

#5

Barry Manilow - I Am Your Child

0 points

Toss the Bouquet 

Though it doesn't take much time to do, getting the single gals together can take a minute. So have a song going for the Bouquet Toss.

#1

The Weather Girls - Its Raining Men

2 points

#2

Cyndi Lauper - Girls Just Want To Have Fun

1 point

#3

Shania Twain - I feel like a woman

0 points

#4

Marilyn Monroe - Diamonds are a girls best friend

0 points

Wedding CDs 

I Will Be Here: 25 of Today's Best Wedding & Love Songs

Amazon Price: $19.98 (as of 12/04/2008) Buy Now

Heart Beats: Now & Forever - Timeless Wedding Songs

Amazon Price: $9.99 (as of 12/04/2008) Buy Now

Bagpipe Wedding Music CD by Michael Hamilton

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Songs for the Garter 

Though recently many brides are dropping this part of the reception out, the garter toss and the putting of the garter on the girl who caught the flowers is a part of the wedding that many look forward to.

These songs are fun for this:

#1

Hot Chocolate - You Sexy Thing

1 point

#2

David Rose - The Stripper

1 point

#3

Marvin Gaye - Let's Get It On

1 point

#4

Tone Loc - Wild Thing

1 point

#5

The Theme to Jaws

0 points

#6

Prince - Kiss

0 points

#7

ZZ Top - Legs

0 points

Unity Candle 

I know I did not hit much on the actual ceremony (because any wedding CD you pick up will cover that pretty well), but the unity candle song is one that has many great choices.

#1

Allison Kraus - When You Say Nothing At All

2 points

#2

Ave Maria

1 point

#3

Shania Twain with Bryan Adams - From th