Choosing Just the Right Songs for Your Wedding

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The Soundtrack of Your Wedding Day

The music is important. Very important. You can have a perfect looking wedding...perfect flowers, perfect attire, perfect decorations, perfect cake...but if the wedding music is bad then the quality of the event will drop (considerably). The music sets the tone for the enjoyment level of the event. You want your guests to have a good time. You want them to remember your wedding as a fun day. Choose music you like AND music that the whole crowd would enjoy. Choose music that means something to you. It's not that hard, if you plan ahead.

Bridal Party Introduction Music 

FOR THE RECEPTION

The entrance music for the Bridal Party will set the tone for the wedding...a really fun starting song will tell people this is to be a really fun event.

Theme From Rocky

5 points

Katrina & the Waves - Walking on Sunshine

3 points

Pink - Get This Party Started

2 points

Get Ready for This (Wrestling)

2 points

The Bob's - Fanfare

from Andy Kaufman2 points

Chariots of Fire

1 point

Cinderella's Royal Fanfare

1 point

Mission Impossible Theme

1 point

Theme from Monday Night Football

0 points

10

Unchained Melody

My love, I hunger for your touch0 points

First Dance 

This is a song that should really mean something to the Bride and Groom - it their chance to play something for themselves. Don't get out of control...it should be romantic...but it should be in the genre of favorite music.

Another key to this song choice, is that it be a song that is dance-able. Don't go with something complicated if either of the couple don't really dance.

These are just few options:

Etta James - At Last

4 points

Atlantic Star - Always

1 point

L. Ronstadt & A. Neville - Don't Know Much

1 point

Frank Sinatra - The Way You Look Tonight

1 point

E. Walter Smith - First Dance

from www.YourFirstDanceSong.com1 point

Kelly Clarkson - A Moment Like This

0 points

Cher & Peter Cetera - After All

0 points

Elvis Presley - Can't Help Falling in Love

0 points

Jeffrey Osborne - On The Wings of Love

0 points

10

Relient K - Must Have Done Something Right

0 points

Learn More about Choosing Your Wedding Music 

The Bride's Guide to Wedding Music: A Complete Resource (Piano/Vocal/Guitar Songbook)

Learn more about your music selection for your wedding with this guide.

Amazon Price: $13.57 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

For the Cake Cutting 

So you cut the cake, feed each other, possible start a foodfight. It's all in good fun, and the song playing should be too! These are a few of the popular songs for the cutting of the cake:

James Taylor - How Sweet It Is

2 points

The Archies - Sugar, Sugar

1 point

The Turtles - Happy Together

1 point

Frank Sinatra - Love & Marriage

1 point

Adam Sandler - I Want to Grow Old With You

0 points

The Beatles - When I'm 64

0 points

Harry Connick Jr. - Recipe For Love

0 points

Def Leppard - Pour Some Sugar On Me

0 points

Sarah MacLaughlan - Ice Cream

0 points

Wedding CDs 

These are a few good CDs that have what you will need for the ceremony. Most people don't stray too far from the basics for the ceremony, so most of what you want should be here. If you are using live musicians for the ceremony, a CD like this is helpful to be able to discuss with them which songs you want...there is more then one "Wedding March" so be specific or you may find yourself walking in to the wrong song.

25 Wedding Favorites

Amazon Price: $4.98 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

Classical Wedding

Amazon Price: (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

A Day to Remember - Instrumental Music for Your Wedding Day

Amazon Price: $13.99 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

Money/Dollar/Honeymoon Dance 

This is another tradition that often gets the cut these days. Whatever you call it, this is the song where people pay for a dance with the bride and groom. Though many people think it is cheesy, and cheap, to do this dance, statistically most weddings still have one. It is most appropriate for first weddings for which the bride and groom are not already living well off independently.

Pretty much any easily dancable song

Since many will do this dance and few others, many dollar dance dancers can't dance. If you expect this to be the case, choose a very easy to move to song.1 point

James Taylor - You've Got A Friend

1 point

Barenaked Ladies - If I Had A Million Dollars

0 points

Dionne & Friends - Thats What Friends Are For

0 points

Calloway - I Wanna Be Rich

0 points

If I Were A Rich Man - From Fiddler on the Roof

0 points

Jennifer Lopez - Love Don't Cost A Thing

0 points

Elton John - Kiss the Bride

0 points

Dionne Warwick - That's What Friends Are For

0 points

10

Whitney Houston - Count on Me

0 points

The Dollar Dance 

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Father/Daughter Dance 

This dance is a classic and a must-have if the father is physically able. Even Dads who never ever dance, dance this one, and even look forward to it.

Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses

2 points

Nat King Cole / Natalie Cole - Unforgettable

2 points

Louis Armstrong - What a Wonderful World

2 points

Rod Stewart - Have I Told You Lately That I Love You

0 points

Amy Grant - Father's Eyes

0 points

Red Sovine - Daddy's Girl

0 points

Holly Dunn - Daddy's Hands

0 points

E. Walter Smith - Little Girl

Here is the perfect song (duet) for the father dau more...0 points

Mother/Son Songs 

The Man You've Become

1 point

Through The Years

Kenny Rogers1 point

Chris Taylor - I Will Remain Your Little Boy

0 points

B.J. Thomas - Mama

0 points

Barbra Streisand - If I Could

0 points

Wedding CDs 

These are a few other good wedding CDs:

Wedding Songs

Amazon Price: $16.99 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

For Your Wedding Ceremony

Amazon Price: $17.99 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

Modern Bride Presents the Wedding Album

Amazon Price: $9.98 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

Parent's Dance 

If you'd like to merge the father/daughter and mother/son to be done at the same time...try the Parent's Dance.

Andrea Bocelli with Celine Dion - The Prayer

3 points

Stephen Curtis Chapman - Parents' Prayer

0 points

Roberta Flack - The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face

0 points

Kenny Rogers - Through the Years

0 points

Barry Manilow - I Am Your Child

0 points

Toss the Bouquet 

Though it doesn't take much time to do, getting the single gals together can take a minute. So have a song going for the Bouquet Toss.

Cyndi Lauper - Girls Just Want To Have Fun

2 points

The Weather Girls - Its Raining Men

2 points

Beyoncé - All the Single Ladies

1 point

Shania Twain - I feel like a woman

0 points

Marilyn Monroe - Diamonds are a girls best friend

0 points

Wedding CDs 

I Will Be Here: 25 of Today's Best Wedding & Love Songs

Amazon Price: $17.99 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

Heart Beats: Now & Forever - Timeless Wedding Songs

Amazon Price: $11.98 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

Bagpipe Wedding Music

Amazon Price: $9.99 (as of 12/20/2009) Buy Now

Songs for the Garter 

Though recently many brides are dropping this part of the reception out, the garter toss and the putting of the garter on the girl who caught the flowers is a part of the wedding that many look forward to.

These songs are fun for this:

Tone Loc - Wild Thing

2 points

Hot Chocolate - You Sexy Thing

1 point

David Rose - The Stripper

1 point

Marvin Gaye - Let's Get It On

1 point

The Theme to Jaws

0 points

Prince - Kiss

0 points

ZZ Top - Legs

0 points

Unity Candle 

I know I did not hit much on the actual ceremony (because any wedding CD you pick up will cover that pretty well), but the unity candle song is one that has many great choices.

Allison Kraus - When You Say Nothing At All

2 points

Ave Maria

2 points

Shania Twain with Bryan Adams - From this Moment

0 points

John Tesh - Give me Forever (I Do)

0 points

Bryan Adams - Everything I Do

0 points

The Lord's Prayer

0 points

Atlantic Starr - Always

0 points

Avant - My First Love

0 points

Brian McKnight - Love of My Life

0 points

10

Yours, Mine & Ours

Especially for the blending of families when the c more...0 points

11

Mary Chapin Carpenter - Grow Old With Me

0 points

12

Rosie Thomas - You and Me

0 points

13

E. Walter Smith - I Do

from http://www.YourWeddingDayMusic.com0 points

Wedding CDs on eBay 

eBay is a great place for wedding items, since people do not expect to use them more then once.

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