A Vegetarian & Family Friendly Thanksgiving Dinner Party

A great dinner party is all about eating delicious food and spending quality time with family and friends! Don't fret if you find yourself hosting adults and children, as well as vegetarians and meat-eaters for Thanksgiving this year. Here's a plan for your celebration that won't disappoint anyone!

Your foundation for a successful party starts with a menu that vegetarians, carnivores and children will love! Non meat-eaters will know they're not an afterthought when they see a lovely, large pumpkin filled with savory stuffing coming out of the oven. Turkey lover's mouthes will water when they smell your beautiful moist turkey roasting in the oven, and everyone will enjoy the always-comforting mashed potatoes, green beans, and German red cabbage! Finish off the perfect meal with an apple tarte tatin, as party goers sit around the table laughing and playing games. When your Thanksgiving party is over, you can be confident that everyone will go home feeling blessed!

Spiced Hot Cider

Brandy and Whipped Cream Optional!

Roasted & Stuffed Pumpkin

Vegetarian Friendly

You will find the stuffed pumpkin recipe, as well as many other delicious vegetarian recipes in this book!

Passionate Vegetarian

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Brined & Roasted Upside Down Turkey

A Great Bag for Brining your Turkey

This bag is perfect for brining and will hold up to a 25-pound turkey. It is guaranteed not to leak! Line a 5-gallon bucket with it, or place the bag in a deep roasting pan, add the brine and the turkey, then place it in the in the refrigerator overnight.

Elizabeth Karmel's 24-inch Turkey Brining Bag

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Turkey Gravy

Vegetarian Mushroom Gravy

Vegetarian Friendly

Mashed Potatoes

Vegetarian Friendly

German Red Cabbage

Vegetarian Friendly

Lemony Green Beans

Vegetarian Friendly

Apple Tarte Tatin

Vegetarian Friendly

Dinner Music Playlist

Dinner is a time for classical guitar and piano music. The songs on your dinnertime playlist should provide the perfect background for great conversation. Here are some of the pieces on my Thanksgiving dinner time playlist this year.

Track Artist Album  
Leyenda (Albeniz) Andrés Segovia Andrés Segovia Recital (1944-1949)
Danza Espanola No. 10 in G Major, Op. 37 Andrés Segovia The Legendary Andres Segovia
Suite Nº 1 En G Major For Violoncello BWV 1007-Prelude Andrés Segovia Guitarra Española Vol.4
Summer Day Brad Mehldau & Pat Metheny Metheny Mehldau
Make Peace Brad Mehldau & Pat Metheny Metheny Mehldau
Mertz: Elegy Connie Sheu Waking or Sleeping

Seating Arrangement Rules

Determine the seating arrangement in advance, and have place cards arranged on your dining room table for your guests. People are much more comfortable with designated seats, and it gives you the opportunity to strategically arrange people around the table. You know everyone who is coming to the party, so arrange your guests to enhance the dinner conversations. Here are some simple seating arrangement rules:
  • 1Husbands and wives (as well as significant others) should not sit next to each other.
  • 2Try to arrange everyone in a guy-gal-guy-gal order.
  • 3Spread the livelier conversationalists out around the table.
  • 4Small children usually prefer to sit next to a parent

Place Cards for the Table

Make place cards at MarthaStewart.comYour placecards don't have to be fancy. Here is a free downloadable template from Martha Stewart's website for creating your own Martha Stewart Place Cards

Family Friendly Games

Eating Thanksgiving dinner is wonderful, but my favorite time is gathering around the dining room table after dinner and playing games. We like to play charades, and here are some more fun family-friendly games I recommend.

Psychiatrist Game
Choose one player in the group to be the psychiatrist, and everyone else in the group will have a shared problem."The psychiatrist's job is to diagnose what everyone's shared problem is. To start things off, the chosen psychiatrist leaves the room while the rest of the group decides on their problem. An example of a problem might be that everyone is addicted to video games. After the problem is chosen, the psychiatrist returns to the room and they must ask each patient personal questions in order to identify their affliction. They don't have to be yes or no questions.If a patient answers incorrectly, or if the question was one that the patient didn't know-- another player yells "Psychiatrist!" and that player and the player who made the incorrect statement get up and swap places. The game continues until the psychiatrist determines the group's affliction.

Memory Game
One guest is chosen to start the game. They start out saying, "I went to a party and brought a XXX" filling in the XXX with something, real or imaginary. Example: "I went to a party and brought a black dog." The next guest must add another item to the previous guest's item. This goes around the table, and each person must list off all the items, then add their own. Once a player forgets an item, they are out of the game. The individual who stays in the longest wins.

Secret Phrase Game
Write different phrases on each of several small pieces of paper and place the phrase under each of your dinner guests' plates. Make the phrases usable but strange. Example: "I am a space cowboy," or "Have you tried ostrich eggs?" Before dinner, ask everybody to read their phrase under their plate-- they're not to read it aloud or share its contents with anybody. Instruct your guests to use their phrase as naturally as they can in conversation. The goal is for each guest to figure out when another guest is using an assigned phrase. If your guests are able to slip the phrase into conversation naturally without anybody noticing, they win.

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Comments & Suggestions:

  • JoshK47 Nov 20, 2011 @ 10:49 am | delete
    Wonderful stuff - the turkey alone made my mouth water. Thanks for sharing, blessed by a SquidAngel! :)
  • goo2eyes Nov 19, 2011 @ 9:37 pm | delete
    have you played uno or othello? i love these.
  • juliavm Nov 18, 2011 @ 9:03 am | delete
    I love all the games you've got here, for guests to play. This is a great lens.
  • PamelaDW Nov 18, 2011 @ 6:26 am | delete
    What a fabulous menu that has something for everyone. Love it!

    The stuffed pumpkin sounds delicious.
  • aquarian_insight Nov 18, 2011 @ 4:27 am | delete
    My mum is a vegetarian so this lens will come in very handy - thank you!
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