Help a Child with ADHD Do Homework

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How to Help a Child with ADHD Do Homework

Homework can be difficult for any child to complete, but there are often additional challenges for a child with ADHD. Inattentiveness, hyperactivity, and difficulty concentrating make homework challenging for both the child and other family members. My 8 year old son has ADHD and homework time at our house has been the most negative time of day in our home. I have spent countless hours pleading with my son to do his homework. Homework sessions have left both me and my son frustrated, angry, and resentful, that's no way to begin and afternoon with your child.

I have found some helpful ways to ease the pain of homework time. There are still difficult days, but for the most part homework is completed without incident. I have had to let go of the traditional views on homework and embrace new ways of doing things, just as you will have to. After all,the most important thing is that your child learns from the homework.

Prepare To Do Homework Before Begining

* Take care of all needs before beginning- Have your child use the restroom, get a drink, and have a snack before doing homework.

* Explain assignments-Explain exactly what is to be done and decide on an order for it to be done in. Why not give your child a choice when deciding what will be done.

* Let your child choose where to do homework-Sometimes my son sits at the desk, sometimes he sits or even lays in the floor, sometimes he lays on the bed. I don't care if he sits on the washer or dryer as long as he's doing his homework. It gives us one less thing to argue about.

* Limit distractions-Turn off the T.V, but allow music to be on in the background if your child likes it to be on. Make sure siblings are busy in a different room, and that the noise level is low.

Help Your Child Focus On The Work

* Allow your child to stand up and move around while doing homework as long as they are doing their work- Sometimes children with ADHD have to concentrate to be still. We don't want that, we want them concentrating on the work. If we allow them to fidget, tap their foot, rock, or what ever else, then we allow them to concentrate on the assignment. As long as work is being done, my son is free to move, but he must be doing his work.

* If there is a lengthy assignment or if there are multiple assignments, break it up some with small breaks in between- I'd rather my son focus for a short time then have a break, than to argue with him about staying focused. Set a timer and give your child a 5 minute break every 10 to 15 minutes Each child is different, and the time they can focus might be less time. Try to gradually increase the time before breaks if your child can only focus for less than 10 minutes. Use a timer so that they know how much time they have.

Inject Fun Into Homework

* Let your child use a dry erase marker to practice spelling words on either a dry erase board or the front of the stove or refrigerator. (wipes right off)

* Have your child teach you as he does his homework- he will be learning and you will get to find out how well he understands the concepts. After he teaches you, flip roles and teach him what he may not understand very well.

* If it is a long reading assignment take turns reading- He or She reads a sentence, then you read a sentence.

* Use a funny voice when reading to your child-Why not make a funny voice for each character?

* Have your child read aloud to a younger sibling. (My son loves to do this.) -It makes them feel all grown up.

Be Understanding

* If your child gets frustrated, let him or her walk away for a while and come back later

* If your child doesn't understand the assignment, explain it in a different way or show him or her how to do it.

* Give positive feedback throughout the assignment Children with ADHD need positive feedback often.

* Follow the Positive/Negative/Positive way of giving feedback if there is something negative to point out- For example: "You did a great job putting that sentence together. I think cat is spelled wrong, it's spelled C-A-T. Your handwriting is wonderful."

If there is too much homework to handle in one evening, communicate with the teacher about it.

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Absolutely!

Keeah says:

Of course, alternate ways both to get the work done and to capture and hold their interest in as many subjects as possible.

adhd-bipolar-depression says:

Having grown up with ADHD - Definitely!!!

teacher2 says:

As a teacher, having taught to several students with ADHD, throughout my career, I definitely agree with you! I loved the creative ways that you came up with through experience with your child. Thank you for sharing these tips with your readers! Great and useful lens!

Momtothezoo says:

By all means...it is more diffifcult for them to function as we do and need to know they can handle tasks in the way best for them.

OhMe says:

Yes and it looks like you are really on the right track.

RinchenChodron says:

Absolutely - often their learning modality is tactile not auditory or visual.

MikeMoore says:

Yes. They sure do. You have some great tips in this lens.

luvmyludwig says:

I think regardless if a person has ADHD or not it is always helpfull to have more than one way to accomplish the same goal. Children with ADHD have different gifts, different ways of doing things, and different learning styles.We must teach to all learning styles.As parents we must adapt our ways to better showcase our children's talents.

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    Keeah Oct 15, 2011 @ 12:00 pm | delete
    I'm a big fan of letting the child be the teacher for a change. I mention this on my Math lens and I'm going to add your link to my lens roll.
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    Wednesday_Elf Feb 18, 2011 @ 12:45 pm | delete
    Better late than never.... finally compiled my SquidAngel Lens from my 'angel flight' last Fall. :-) So.... returning to tell you that this lens has now been 'featured on' and 'lensrolled to' "SquidAngel Blessings by an Elf".
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    adhd-bipolar-depression Jan 21, 2011 @ 1:59 am | delete
    Thank you for this lens.
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    Muxlow78 Nov 12, 2010 @ 9:01 am | delete
    My daughter has adhd and homework time is not the easiest of times but I have to agree that your tips here do make things easier
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    Wednesday_Elf Sep 29, 2010 @ 5:47 am | delete
    My grandson has ADHD and homework time is frustrating for him. My son has had to find alternate ways of dealing with homework time then he does with the older brother, as concentration can be hard. Very good suggestions you have given here. I will share them with my son. ~~Blessed by a SquidAngel~~
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    thesuccess Sep 21, 2010 @ 3:23 am | delete
    A worthy lens, useful for any parent
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    teacher2 Mar 14, 2010 @ 3:25 pm | delete
    I loved this lens! It introduces a variety of creative ways to make homework an easier task to perform. It makes it easier for both parents and child. Keep up the good work! I intend to promote this lens on one of mine, on a similar topic.
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    Momtothezoo Aug 5, 2009 @ 10:32 pm | delete
    Hey, haven't heard from you in weeks...where ya been? I really needed this lens. My five year old granddaughter, Devin, has just been diagnosed with ADHD and began meds which have really helped. She begins Kindergarten next week and we are so hoping her ability to stay on task will be improved from preschool last year...she had a rough year. She is so very intelligent but the classroom is difficult for her. Thank you for this helpful information. I am glad my daughter is a teacher...this will help a great deal in her ability to cope with Devin's needs.
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    FunGifts4All Jul 30, 2009 @ 8:36 pm | delete
    Another great lens. Again, I can relate. My son has ADHD and I went through a lot of that. Positive feedback is important. But, hang in there. My son is now 19 years old, going to college and plans on joining the police academy. Homework was always tough with him. Your tips are right on the money.
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    OhMe Apr 27, 2009 @ 6:38 am | delete
    I used to tutor students with learning disabilities. I had elementary age and college age students. I found that the most of the ones with ADHD were visual learners. We would work together making colorful descriptive posters of the subject matter and practice remembering what it looked like.
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