Saving Families from Adoption Agency Scams

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Families separated, healthy newborn babies sold. Will you be the next person scammed by adoption agencies?

Adoption agencies and adoption attorneys are looking for vulnerable pregnant women, luring them in with slick advertisements and "dear birthmother" letters.  They advise young women not to listen to their friends or their parents.   Some of the "professionals" stand by a mother's side while she gives birth, pretending to be her friend.  Or they show up in the hospital right after a baby is born, before the new mother has a chance to recover from giving birth.  They make all kinds of promises of "open" adoption - pictures, letters or even continued contact - knowing they will not have to follow through on any of it.  Will your naive daughter and beloved grandchild be next?  Will your son commit suicide after losing his baby to adoption?  What can be done to stop these adoption scams?

Books About Social Policy and Infant Adoption 

Remember, the low status of women affects children as well.

Quote about the degredation of women:

The world has never yet seen a truly great and virtuous nation because in the degradation of woman the very fountains of life are poisoned at their source.

--Lucretia Mott (1793-1880) American feminist

Adoption Healing... A Path to Recovery for Mothers Who Lost Children to Adoption

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Baby Brokers: The Marketing of White Babies in America

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Adoption Agencies and Adoption Attorneys 

What authors reveal about the baby trade

Does it make sense for a society to torment single women who are pregnant? Is the child who is separated from family and sold really "better off" as the brokers claim? Does the mother "just forget" and "go on with her life"?

Adoption and Recovery: Solving the Mystery of Reunion by Evelyn Burns Robinson

Adoption and Recovery: Solving the Mystery of Reunion by Evelyn Burns Robinson

People who were adopted, mothers who lost sons and daughters to adoption, siblings, fathers...all can learn from this book.1 point

Baby Brokers: The Marketing of White Babies in America by Lynn McTaggart

Baby Brokers: The Marketing of White Babies in America by Lynn McTaggart

With a diminishing supply of healthy white infants, the baby brokers (adoption agencies and adoption attorneys) are doing a lucrative business. L...0 points

A Death in White Bear Lake: The True Chronicle of an All-American Town by Barry Siegel

A Death in White Bear Lake: The True Chronicle of an All-American Town by Barry Siegel

Forced to "give up" her baby, a mother later finds her son was murdered by the adoptive "mother" before his fourth birthday.0 points

Ten Thousand Sorrows : The Extraordinary Journey of a Korean War Orphan by Elizabeth Kim

Ten Thousand Sorrows : The Extraordinary Journey of a Korean War Orphan by Elizabeth Kim

Her Korean mother was terrorized by her community for having an unapproved baby...until one day her mother is murdered for it. She (the daughter) ...0 points

A Man and His Mother: An Adopted Son's Search by Tim Green

A Man and His Mother: An Adopted Son's Search by Tim Green

Adoption - how might it affect a person to be separated from mother at birth?0 points

Of Sluts and Bastards: A Feminist Decodes the Child Welfare Debate by Louise Armstrong

Of Sluts and Bastards: A Feminist Decodes the Child Welfare Debate by Louise Armstrong

Heartbreaking stories that ring all too true for those of us who have worked or volunteered in the child welfare field.0 points

The "Cons" of Open Adoption Agencies 

How "professional" con artists separate family members to get babies for adopters

  • They claim that people wanting to get a baby are "families" and "parents" even though they may be a single person or a couple who is childless or gay.
  • They claim that a baby's true family is "just birth" or "just biological", disrespecting the child's relatives.
  • They say it's "selfish" for people to take responsibility for and raise their own children.
  • They claim what they are arranging are "adoptions" even though the newborn baby they are selling is not an orphan.
  • They claim the mother/father/siblings will get pictures or continued contact with their relative.
Adoption "counselors" and adoption attorneys: They're "cons" promoting adoption and "open" adoption lies in order to get babies for paying customers.

"Dear Birthmother" Letters and Adoption Advertising 

They want your baby, but they don't want you

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