Finding Air Force Buddies for a Reunion

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Tracking Down Old Friends from the Military

My husband served in the Air Force back during the Vietnam War era. That was a long time ago, but he made some deep friendships in the four years he was in the service.

He stayed in touch with one friend over the years. The two of them visited each other annually, even with Tim living in Missouri and us living in Maryland, Texas, Florida, or wherever we were over the years. He had lost touch with the others over the passing of forty years.

Four years ago, he decided to track down another friend that he hadn't heard from since their time in the Air Force. We went to Tom's hometown in New Hampshire, but he wasn't living there anymore. We picked up a few clues there and finally found him using those bits of information and the Internet. That summer, we had the first Air Force reunion in Maine with Tim, Tom, my husband, and the wives.

It has now become an annual tradition, with more and more old Air Force buddies being found and coming to the reunion.

If you want to hold your own military buddies reunion, I've included some links for good sites to search.

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Finding Old Friends

The second year, my husband tracked down another Air Force buddy that he hadn't seen in forty years. Wes was living in Houston, Texas. His career was unique enough that it made it easier to track him down on the Internet even though his name was pretty common.

The second Air Force reunion included four of the old gang (Tim, Tom, Wes, and my husband). The reunion was held in New Hampshire.

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The third year, Tim and my husband were able to find a fifth old buddy, Stas, in Michigan. He was able to attend that summer's reunion, and a sixth buddy from Georgia made it that year as well. He and Tim had stayed in touch over the years. This time the reunion was held near St. Louis, Missouri.

Track Down Your Military Buddies

with these Internet Resources

How to Reconnect with Old Friends | eHow.com
People are so mobile these days, that we often lose track of friends from our childhood, from college, from time in the military, or other connections. Now and then they cross your mind and you wonder how they are doing.
Take action to track them down and reconnect. Think how fun it will be to talk to them after all these years.
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Way Back When 

Still Buddies after All These Years

and even the wives bonded

The men chatted about old times and "do you remember..." while the wives listened. Old photos and slides were brought out and shared. During the two- or three-day get-togethers, there were walks in the woods, kayaking, motor-boat rides, and retelling of old stories around a campfire and the dinner table. The wives got acquainted while chopping the salad vegetables and clearing away after meals. They discovered many common interests.

Now in between each reunion, the wives keep in touch with e-mail, and the Air Force buddies plot out a time and place for the next reunion.

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Where the Air Force Buddies Now Live

Planning the Reunion

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More Help for Planning a Reunion

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Winter 2011 Reunion in Central Florida

Tim, Tom, Denny, and Phil made it for this reunion and two of the wives were there. The weather was perfect for the ones coming from Maine and Missouri as they were quite weary of snow and ice. There was lots of visiting while relaxing on the lanai, at the pool, and there was even time for tennis.

As more Air Force buddies are tracked down and more retire and are able to travel, it may get to be too large a group for anyone to host in their home. One idea was to book a cruise together or a train trip across Canada. Great idea! We can all visit and see the scenery at the same time.

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Have You Reconnected with Long Ago Friends?

  • LivingInTheUSA Oct 12, 2011 @ 4:33 pm | delete
    I've never really been able to track down people that I served with during my time in the Air Force (even though I was in for several years), but then I never really thought I'd ever really have a notion to want to get together with them again in the future. Isn't it something how we think about things sometimes? I did want to mention that I know every Veterans Day on a large number of veterans reunite in Branson, Missouri. I would recommend anyone who has visited Branson to consider doing that some Veterans Day, even if you're like me and don't have anyone to reunion with.
  • DavidDove Aug 21, 2011 @ 4:40 am | delete
    Doing just the same thing with good results, Every one a real pleasure
  • ---Chazz Jul 5, 2011 @ 1:28 pm | delete
    Not recently but have in the past. This lens was a great idea for me as I was in the USAF about the same time as your husband. Sorry to say, though, never had the pleasure of meeting him.
  • rms Feb 17, 2010 @ 5:49 am | delete
    Terrific!
  • WendyKrick Feb 16, 2010 @ 8:50 pm | delete
    What a neat reunion!

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