Alpha Male Dating

While many single men get hung up on improving their physical appearance, and searching for perfect pickup lines to interest the ladies, in reality, alpha male dating behavior has little to do with looks or even what you say. It's more about HOW you say it.

The first rule of presenting oneself as an alpha male is displaying confidence. Confidence is usually a deal breaker when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Nearly anything else is optional, including physical appearance, wealth (or lack thereof), education and social skills. Confidence is be primary identifier of the alpha male to the female. Interestingly enough, this is true in all species, not just humans!

There are both physical and emotional "markers" that identify a man as being confident. And by adopting these confident characteristics, ANY man can be perceived as an alpha male, whether he feels that way deep down or not. And even if you're in not naturally inclined toward such behavior, the good news is, by beginning to use confident behaviors, you will be naturally "pulled" in the direction of becoming an alpha male; dating becomes much easier (and far more interesting) for men that master these techniques, so they are certainly worthy of your attention.



The following three alpha male characteristics can be used by any man to look and feel confident and successful when approaching the opposite sex:

1. Alpha Male Body Language. As we've already mentioned, confidence is the primary trait associated with alpha male dating patterns. The most obvious, and simple to implement, physical representation of confidence is to a hold your chin up higher than most other men. This one simple physical change since a strong signal to the opposite sex that you are confident and a leader among men. Practice "leading with your chin" as you go through your day-to-day life, and remember to hold your chin hire than is naturally comfortable to you at first. You will a just to your new confident posture in time, so don't be surprised if it feels awkward or even pretentious the first few weeks you try this. After a while, it will become a strong habit and you won't even notice it anymore.

2. Alpha Male Eye Contact. The second important marker for an alpha male is to make eye contact, and hold your gaze slightly longer than you feel is comfortable. Again, this is something that will likely feel awkward to you at first, but becomes second nature after a few weeks of practice. Unlike men, women tend to look at a man's eyes first, and a smoothed confident gaze will send a strong signal of confidence and superiority -- a signal most women find irresistible.

3. The Alpha Male Attitude. Unlike many of the "losers" out in the dating scene, alpha males are NOT desperate. Alpha males give off a strong vibe that they can "take or leave" any woman or situation. This attitude suggests that a man has easy access to sexual partners, and is therefore not particularly concerned about the outcome of flirting with one specific woman.

When a man combines alpha male body language, eye contact an attitude, it creates a very powerful aura of confidence and status. Mastering alpha male dating techniques are all about practice, and integrating both the physical and mental attributes of an alpha male into your personality.

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Q.How long does it take to learn to project an alpha male image?

A. They say that it takes approximately 21 days to form any new habit. That being said, it should take you no more than three or four weeks of consistent practice to adopt confident body language, eye contact and attitude.

Q. So if it only takes three or four weeks to develop an alpha male image, why don't all men do it?

A. There are two basic reasons. 1. Some guys are just lazy and are not willing to put in the daily effort to make these personal changes, and 2. Some men get very easily discouraged. If they began practicing these Alpha techniques (imperfectly at first) and do not see 100% improvement overnight, they simply give up. Anyone can learn these techniques and project an image that is appealing to women -- the only question is, do you have the persistence to follow through on what you start? Maybe that is the REAL test of an alpha male--persistance!

Q. Why are alpha males dating all the hot girls? Aren't women interested in "regular guys" any more?

A. This one is simple to answer. Women are attracted to alpha males because they are winners, and EVERYONE loves a winner. And by the way, it's not just women who are attracted to these men--other men naturally want to befriend them and hang out with them. Winners are attractive, and alpha males are winners. End of story.

Q. Can a woman tell the difference between a man who is naturally an alpha male, and someone who simply learns to use alpha male dating behaviors?

A. The short answer is no. It is extremely difficult (if not impossible) for the average person to understand how a man feels about himself deep down inside. All that they have to go on is his behavior, and that generally tells them everything they need to know. If you do happen upon a woman who can tell the difference -- just turn around and move on to the next girl. But there's a very good chance this will never even be an issue.

Q. If I master the art of alpha male dating, will it help me to actually become an alpha male?

A. Good news. The honest answer to this one is "yes." This is because of a psychological concept called behavioralism, and it says that our physical behaviors affect how we think and feel about ourselves. So by "acting like" an alpha male for an extended period of time, you will inevitably begin to feel like an alpha male, and over time this will become your new self image.

Q. If I use alpha male dating techniques and behaviors to attract a woman, isn't this just being a "phony?"

A. Nonsense. ALL men have alpha male qualities inside of them. By simply choosing to change your behavior, so that you bring out more of your natural alpha male, you are NOT being a phony -- just learning to emphasize a part of your natural personality that you have thus far neglected. Alpha male dating is all about bringing out more of the natural confident man that is already inside of you.

And by the way, "you" are much more than your behaviors. You can behave in a confident way one-day, in a more introverted or insecure way another day, or in a more intellectual way the next day, and so on, and so on -- but none of these behaviors change who "you" are. Behaviors come and go, but who you are is, well... just who you are.

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