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Art Of Approaching Women

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Art Of Approaching Women 

It's Friday, Do You Know Where The Women Are?

To quote the actor Chris Tucker - "It's Friday, you
ain't got no job, and you ain't got sh*t to do!"

Well, maybe you do have a job and things to do, but
are you doing the things you WANT to do?

Namely: Are you going out tonight to meet some
women?

Friday night is probably the BEST night of the
week to meet women.

Think about it:

It's been a long, hard week. People are getting off
work. They don't have anything to do the next day.
They can sleep in as late as they want. They're
looking to unwind and release some stress. In other
words...

They're out looking to have fun!

And what does having fun entail? Well, for most
women, having fun on a Friday night means -
MEETING A MAN!

That's right. We go out to meet women. They go
out to meet us!

But the question you gotta ask yourself is: Are they
gonna meet YOU?

This is important. This can mean the difference
between getting laid and quietly sobbing in the shower.

So how are these women going to meet you?

Well, that's entirely up to you. I can give you some
suggestions that will help you out, but honestly, it's
up to you to act and make it happen.

The first thing you need to do to make sure women
are going to meet you tonight is...

Are you ready?

GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!

That's step number one. You GOTTA get out and
go to where the women are. This means going out
with friends, or, if they're not around to hang out,
go out by yourself!

Regardless of how you do it, if you DON'T go out,
you have 0% chance of meeting women. (I'm
talking real women who could go home with you
TONIGHT! Not internet women).

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Where The Women Are...Continued 

The second step is **go to where the women are!**

1. Happy hour.
--Yes, I know, this is a bar thing. But, happy hour
usually occurs BEFORE things get too hectic, so if
you're older, this may be a good alternative to
fighting off all those youngsters out there. Most
women go to happy hour after work, and then go
home and change for a night out on the town. This
is a GREAT opportunity for you to set up a date for
LATER THAT NIGHT.

2. Bookstores & Coffee Shops
--If you have a little bit more of a laid back lifestyle,
bookstores and coffee shops are a good place to
check out on a Friday night. If you can find a
coffee shop that's open late, all the better!
Typically, the women here are quieter, book-
worm wallflower types. So it may be harder to
initially engage them, but it'll be easier to wrangle
them into a conversation.

3. Hotel Lobbies & Bars
--No, I'm not talking about the lobby of your local
"Day's Inn." I'm talking about the NICE hotels in
your area. You know, the 4 & 5 star kind with valet
parking and an extremely nice bar area. These can
be great places to meet women, especially
considering a lot of "hotel hotties" are from out of
town and looking for some adventure. This scene is
also more laid back and less intense than your
typical bar and club.

Okay, so now that we've covered step 1 & 2, it's
time to go to the final step:

MEET WOMEN.

Let's face it, even though women's lib is going
strong, women STILL don't typically approach
guys. They wait for YOU to approach THEM.

So that begs the question: How do you approach them?

In my book, "The Art of Approaching," I go into
this subject in detail. Inside my book, you'll find:

--Specific stories guaranteed to start a conversation
with any woman you meet.
--Funny one-liners to get her laugh right away!
--Tactics to easily get 10-12 numbers a night.
--A step-by-step guide that teaches you how to
overcome any fear or nervousness you may have
when it comes to meeting women!
--Much, much more...

At the very least, walk up to these women and say
to them "Hi." But if you really want to SUPERCHARGE
your ability to meet the kind of beautiful,
interesting women you've always wanted, be sure
to check out my book.

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How To Get Women To Approach YOU! 

When you want to meet a woman, you need to know how to break out
of this comfort zone.

How do you do this?

The answer is self-evident: You must learn to meet women BY
YOURSELF!

Friends can be a great asset, but most of the time, going out with
friends actually HINDERS your ability to meet women. Not just
because of the comfort zone factor, but because other guys who
don't know what they're doing with girls can actually ruin the
interactions you have with them - be it by jealousy or ineptitude.
So the best way to counter this is to LEAVE YOUR FRIENDS BEHIND.

But the prospect of going out by oneself can strike fear into the
hearts of men. After all, doesn't going out by yourself signal to
everyone that you're a loser with no friends? Doesn't it make you
look creepy?

The answer to both these questions is:

NO!!!!!

The simple act of going out on your own can shake your comfort
zone, because you have no anchors to keep you there. Often your
friends will act as an anchor to your comfort zone that keep you
from approaching women. And it is easier to break out of this
comfort zone without those anchors present. Plus, you don't have
to worry about failing with women and being judged by your friends
if they're not around.

But the most powerful thing about going out by yourself is that it
puts your focus on what you are doing. This means that every
interaction you have is without distraction, so it is more easily
examined and the problems you had are more easily identified. This
allows you to spot your sticking points more quickly and correct
them.

Not only that, but being out by yourself gives you the freedom of
flexibility when it comes to where you're going and who you talk
to. If you're bored with a place, you can leave and go to another
one. If you want to talk to a girl who your friends might poke fun
at you for, you can. Not only this, but you're free to mess up the
interactions you have, because chances are, no one there will ever
see you again, so you don't have to worry about what others think
of you.

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Get Women To Approach You Continued... 

Knowing what to say will help you to go out by
yourself and increase your ability to approach. There
are many examples of Openers to say in my book The Art of
Attraction, but some guys will need to know how to handle the
inevitable question "Where are your friends?"

Something I've used to great effect is the answer "Oh, they're
around." This simple dismissive statement not only answers the
question, but as far as anyone knows, you're telling the truth.

But if you want to take it a step further, I've even used this as
an Opener at times I've been out by myself.

The "My Friends Ditched Me" Opener

This works good whenever you're out somewhere by yourself.
Basically, you approach your target or a group, and say:

"Hey guys, you won't believe this. All week, me and my friends
have been planning on going out and having a good time, because
we've all been busy and we wanted to blow off some steam. So we
made plans to go out tonight, right? Well, one by one they call me
up and say stuff like "I'm too tired," or "My girlfriend wants to
watch a movie," and stuff like that. Some friends huh? Bunch of
lame-o's. But I'm thinking there might be something more to this,
because last week two of my friends had a knock-down drag out fight
over some girl they both like, so the situation is all weird. Do
you guys have any friends who got split up by someone they both
liked?"

Using this, you set the stage that you're out by yourself because,
well, unlike your friends, YOU'RE not lame! Not only that, you
throw in a nice Drama Opener in there to engage the group.

And if you're still too shy to go out by yourself, then try this
little trick:

When you go out with your friends -- DITCH THEM. Go off on your
own and leave them behind for a while, then meet up with them
later. This can be quite an effective method if your friends don't
mind you leaving!

If you don't know what a Drama Opener is, check it out in my book
The Art of Approaching. It's got TONS of openers and other things
to say so that you never have to worry about how you're going to
meet women again. If you're one of those guys who gets tounge-tied
around beautiful girls, or if your mind likes to "blank" out on
you, then you definitely need to check out my book right now by
clicking below:

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The Art Of Seduction - Become A Better Seducer 

by Alex Coulson

The Art Of Seduction

Having fun is important when learning the art of seduction as it constantly keeps you motivated and moving. You will find that on your journey to
becoming a transformed Casanova that sometimes you can be feeling down on yourself (this happens to a lot of guys and its completely natural).

If you're approaching plenty of women and not getting the reactions you seek then its natural to feel slightly de-motivated to continue, which is why MOST guys give up the game within the first 3 months.

As humans we seek quick fixes and instant results. Sometimes you can start seeing immediate results and sometimes (more often than not) results are slow to realize.

When I run my seduction workshops most guys are at beginner level and haven't approached many women before, by the end of the night they've approached at least 50 women! And they realize instant results and they achieve an ultimate level of state, they feel amazing and want more.

Other seduction workshops I run students are at differ levels of seduction learning and prefer to focus on a key point of attraction, which we do and they again see amzing results.

Have you ever been to the gym and tried to gain muscle mass?

You work out for 1 solid week, stressing muscles, sweating all over the place, red in the face, huffing and puffing ... all that effort! And when you look in the mirror after two weeks you're still the same weight!

I have many times...

I find that I stopped and started the gym visits for the last few years depending on my state. I might watch a bruce lee movie and get instantly motivated again and go back, and again after a few weeks... I see no results so I give up.

It's a cylcle and I keep repeating this. I was quite amazed (I really was) when I found out that I wasn't alone and in fact most guys were doing exactly what I was doing (this could be you too?)

The same prinviple appilies especially when learning seduction.

Instant results are RARE (but can happen) : )

A key to excelling fast in the art of eduction is accepting that this can be a long or short road and it all depends on your willingness to learn and your comfort levels at this point in time. Below are some simple steps you can follow to keep up the spirtits and continue learning the art of seduction.

Having met some of the

1. Have no agenda; if you have no agenda or outcome then logically you cant be disappointed. If you head out for a night on the town with a 'purpose' i.e getting 10 phone numbers, X amount of make-outs and you don't acehveive these set goals then you'll feel slightly anxius.

2. Find a friend! It's better to go out with supportive and friends you know well as most importantly you all have fun together. If you treat pickup as a mathemtaica;l equation then women will sense this, having fun is important as it creates lots of emotion with women, so guys avoid boring interview questions, play with her head, tell jokes and casually compliment her (but only if its sincere) important that you don't overdo this one.

3. Dress pimp; don't dress in a suit or any business like fashion aka "boring". If you look funky, cool and stand out then women will automatically sense you have confidence to wear these clothes in the first place, it also conveys you are A FUN GUY. It brings a certain energy to the interaction. This brings me to my next point ...

4. ENERGY!!!!! Especially at night time have energy. Being high energy is much better than being shy and quiet (this isn't cute its creepy). If you meet a guy that speaks and cant be heard, and you have to lean in to talk to him you will understand that it gives off the wrong signals and its creepy. So start being LOUDER. Most of the successful guys I know who are AMAZING with women are super loud.

I'll talk to you soon!

Your friend Alex Coulson http://www.alexcoulson.com

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Great Places To Meet Hot Women - Dummies Guide To Dating 

by Alex Coulson

Meeting women is difficult for some while with others it can one of the easiest steps to finding women.

There are so many places I frequent when meeting women it isn't funny! I may be picking up my dry cleaning and all of a sudden a cute red head walks in to pick up hers and we'll start chatting.

It's that easy for me!

I'm nothing special too! I'm freakishly tall, lanky, stoop slightly and have average looks however I still manage to strike up conversations with women EVERYWHERE I go!

Which means if I can do it then so can you.

This is a SKILL that most men can easily learn with patience and more importantly persistence.

Meeting women in bars is so old school. Now the hot and super attractive women don't even frequent bars anymore because they get approached so many times. They're sick of sleazy guys who don't get it approaching them!

I mean who wouldn't be sick of bars if you were approaches 30 times on Friday night!

Well I'm glad you're here with me and learning these life-enhancing skills. Meeting women will be the easiest skill you could have with some practice.

Meeting women in normal places:

-The Bookstore; good places to meet women and this is the typical dream place that women want men to approach them in.

I occasionally approach women here. I spot women browsing through a book and say Hey that's a great book! Would you like to know the ending? This always gets a good laugh. Most of all during the day focus on being playful and non-threatening. Meeting women will be a lot more fun and enjoyable.

-Supermarket; awesome places for meeting women. Start slowly and un-confrontantional and progress into asking what she plans on cooking you for dinner.

-Shopping malls; these are excellent places to meet women. Get their opinion on fashion advice as some crazy Irish guy just tried to crack onto you. Ask her whether any of your current attire says I cross onto the brown side. haha

-Parks; Get her opinion on anything here. In my experience most women are open to talking to people in parks, it should be quite easy you just have to see for yourself.

-Streets; I stop women all the time in the street and ask for directions, I then turn this around and get their opinion on something girly. This is the BEST way to meet women during the day. This does require some persistence, as it can be tough keeping their interest initially as MOST people walking in the street have a place to go. Then again some don't. : )

-Touristy Places bring a camera down to these places and ask them to take a picture of you. Then continue the conversation easily by saying that they would make awesome photographers and should join your staff. Say this jokingly. Most women in these places will be chilled and wont be anywhere in a hurry.

-Department stores (sells clothing), another good way of meeting women. Ask her for an opinion on pink shirts for guys! Tell her you don't get why guys wear them. -Coffee shops; my favorite (another one). Sit down and join them, tell them you can't stay long and get their opinion on something. Stress to them you cant stay long as it'll make them feel comfortable.

-While you're driving (this is upper funny to try) I have a friend that does this all the time and gets massive success from it too. He drives just a Volvo too! He'll be in the passenger seat and spot women while waiting for the traffic lights to change. He already has a cardboard prepared in his backseat and he'll stick it to the car window - ####098 LETS CHAT! The girl/s would giggle and call him then and there and he would chat. This is a very unique way of meeting women and is the most fun.

-Hotel Lobbies; if you travel quite a bit then this is a good way to meet women. Just make sure it's a BUSY lobby and has a busy lobby bar (most do) you can start conversations here easy, as it shouldn't be loud.

-Bus Stops; easy places for meeting women are bus stops. I usually start conversations with Have you been waiting long? Thanks! The other day I had to wait here with Doris I think they call her..She's the local hobo that collects plastic bags and feeds the pigeons! She had a bag full of live pigeons she was planning on selling! I give her more credit - she's a business woman in disguise that Doris moving up the corporate ladder! This usually gets me a laugh and I continue on from there.

Trade Shows; great places for meeting women as if you're an exhibitor you have a reason to chat with her. How's business, are you getting your name out there? How's your day going? You don't necessarily have to use an opinion opener here you can just chat with her.

You now realize that meeting women is a lot easier now that you know where to find them. You ALSO have the regular places that I didn't mention above like work, friends of friends, bars and clubs, online dating, social groups (tennis/clubs) and rock concerts : )

Talk soon! Alex

About the Author

Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.

For more information and to claim access to Alex Coulson's 5 Step System Audio E-course for FREE (limited time only) head over to http://www.alexcoulson.com

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Picking Up Women 

Picking up Women is often termed as the ultimate step and goal of seduction. Remember, a woman's mind is built of subconscious defenses and barriers which allows them to resist people who come to "pick them up". The important thing for a man is to pass through these defenses. And once he does that, he would very effective in picking up women.

How to pick up women is an art? Here are is some tips-

%u2022 Talk with the woman. Get into an interaction with the woman which will allow both of you to know each other. Keep the conversation short and crisp which will work for both of you. More often, this is the first step in the science of picking up women.

%u2022 If you are interested in picking up a woman who talks a lot, let her do the talking. Most human beings do not like being interrupted when they are speaking and women are no exception. Only when she has finished talking, you should ask a very good question which makes the woman feel that meeting this man may not be a bad idea after all.

%u2022 You could drop your card where she can call you if you guys meet each other in person. Arranging to meet a person is tricky. You could ask her to join you for a lunch or dinner. Many people are successful in this as they adopt novel techniques here. It is important that you try out something new when you are confident that the opposite party appreciates your effort.

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