Attracting Girls: How to Meet and Attract Any Girl You Meet
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Attracting Girls Made Simple...
You might think that attracting girls is a hard thing to do.
But the truth is attraction is a simple process which can be learned. In order to meet and attract the woman of your dreams, you must follow a clear pattern
In this Lens, I'll cover some basic advice and tips to help you become the kind of guy who is great at attracting girls...
First off, let's cover a great article which provides an overview for attracting girls:
The A to Z Method For Attracting Girls
Being great at attracting girls is a fairly simple process to learn. If you're having trouble with learning how to attract girls, here is a quick 'A to Z' breakdown on what you should do around women.
A- Attitude
When taking to a woman, you should give off an attitude which demonstrates confidence and ease.
B- Body Language
Study her body language and act accordingly. If she's giving you signs of attraction, then increase your efforts.
C- Cockiness
Women are attracted to guys who have a bit of over confidence or cockiness. By acting in a slightly cocky manner, you have to make HER work for your attention.
D- Discussion
Discussions or conversations are the key to building attraction. Make sure you that you talk about fun topics and avoid boring things like work or school
E- Excitement
Attracting girls is easy if you have an exciting life. So be sure to talk about things that people find interested. If you don't have an exciting life, go out and start doing things that are worth talking about.
F- Flirting
Flirting is the key to building attraction. Use your conversation to flirt and make innuendos.
G- Go For It
Hesitation is the ultimate killer of opportunity. If you see an attractive women go for it! Don't sit around and think too much. If you do, you might chicken out and think of a dozen reasons why she might not be attracted to you. By learning how to approach women on instinct, you'll become comfortable around them.
H- Humor
Like cockiness, women love guys with a sense of humor. Try using the "cocky/funny" method to tease her and make her laugh.
I- Interest
It's true that women generally go for guys who have captivated their interest. So talk about things that she likes and whatever puts you in a good light.
J- Jackass
When talking to a woman, avoid all 'Jackass' behaviors like getting drunk or being obnoxious. Save this stuff for when you're hanging out with your friends.
K- Kino
Attraction is created through the subtle build up of touching and physical contact. If she allows you to touch her during a conversation and reciprocates your advances, then you know she's definitely attracted to you.
L- Lifestyle
In order to get to the point where attracting girls all the time, you have to maintain a lifestyle that is exciting and interesting. If you have many activities outside of trying to meet women, you'll develop an attitude which tells them that you're someone worth knowing.
M- Many Stories
A guy that's good with women always has exciting and fun stories to tell. Just sit down and write down all the interesting things which have happened in your life. Then put them to memory and use them the next time you're talking to a girl.
N- Nervousness
Nervousness is one of the biggest killers of attraction. Before approaching women, try to relax and put yourself at ease. Just remember the worst thing that can happen is you don't get her number. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
O- Openers
Instead of using pick-up lines, you should use natural openers that spark her curiosity and interest.
P- Phone Number
Most of the time, your objective is to get her phone number and set up a date later in the week. Generally, you won't find too many girls are willing to go home with you during an initial meeting. So work for the phone number first.
Q- Qualify Her
Forget all notions of trying to impress her. Instead make her work for YOUR interest. If she picks up on the fact that you're qualifying her instead of the other way around, she'll work hard for your affections.
R- Rapport
Rapport is what we often call "chemistry" or "hitting it off". Without it, attraction cannot be built. So when you're talking to a girl make sure you're working on building rapport.
S- Sexual Innuendos
The true masters at attracting girls know the importance of sexual innuendos. If you can work these comments into a conversation she'll subconsciously wonder what you're like in the sack.
T- Teasing
Use your conversation and cocky attitude to tease her a little. The common advice is to treat her like a bratty little sister. In other words, never let her feel TOO comfortable with your conversation.
U- Uniform
When trying to meet and attract women, you should be wearing your "uniform". If you are going for the 'normal guy' look, make sure your clothes are neat, while remaining fashionable. But if you want to go for the ' rock star' type girl, wear an outfit that this type of woman will find attractive.
V- Value
There are certain behaviors which will increase your value in a woman's eyes. By learning how to increase your value, you'll become a guy that she has to work hard to attract.
To increase your value, carry yourself in a confident manner, talk to different women and live an exciting life. The more you can do to build a unique aura, the more value you'll have.
W- Winging
It helps to have a 'Wing Man' during your attempts to attract women. Another guy can lend support and give assistance in the approach.
X- Xtra Effort
Some women require a bit of extra effort to get them attracted to you. This means you have to be prepared to work a little harder to get some interested in you.
Y- You're the Prize
Always remember that you're the prize that women have to work for. If you can project this kind of attitude, then you'll have girls approaching you.
Z- Zone
Approaching and attracting women requires that you get in 'The Zone'.
Well there you have it…the A to Z for attracting girls. If you can learn and implement all 26 of these pointers, you'll find it's easy become a master at attraction.
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- Most of the time, you can't go from attracting a woman to seducing her. To bridge this gap, you have to qualify and build rapport. During this stage, you're establishing a firm connection. You're letting a woman fill in the gaps in your life and developing a bond that helps her feel like there's something special between the two of you.
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- Getting a woman's phone number can be a nerve-wracking experience. You've been talking to her for awhile and have hopefully built up enough attraction. But when it comes time to grab her digits, you've got to have a plan.
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Attracting Girls Starts With a Confident Smile
Why is smiling so effective for attracting girls?
Well when you smile at a woman, you're basically telling her a couple of things:
1) You enjoy being around her
2) You like her and you're probably attracted to her
3) She is a pleasant person to know
4) You like her personality and find her interesting
As you can see smiling at a woman is a powerful way to make a great first impression. In fact, it's one of the best ways to start building attraction the moment we meet a woman.
In other words, by smiling at her, you'll get her to like you. Here's why%u2026
By studying human nature, you'll realize that when people smile at us, we tend to return the gesture. So when you smile at a woman, she will probably give you one back. In a way you've given her a subconscious reason to immediately like you.
So to great at attracting girls, always give her your best smile!
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