Attracting Women Tips

You have a serious problem that is limiting your success with women. Your mind thinks it can accurately predict situations and prejudge people before you even meet them. Your mind doesn't know anything. Unless you go over and find out for yourself it's all just social mental
masturbation.

Social MM is when you make assumptions about a person or situation. You think just by looking at someone you can tell if she is a bitch or cool. You think you can predict which girls are going to like you and which ones wont. You say things like I bet they're having girls night out, they don't want to be bothered. At its worst stage guys with social MM say things like "nobody hooks up at this bar" or "all the girls here have boyfriends". These guys apparently know it all.

One night I saw a bunch of girls wearing these weird glasses in a trendy neighborhood in Manhattan. I told my friend that I refuse to go talk to them because I can't stand hipsters that think they are cool. Turns out they just had decided to have fun and come out dressed up as nerds. They ended up being really interesting girls. Another time I saw a really hot latina girl alone at the bar and my brain said "dude she must be a hooker". didn't talk to her. Twenty minutes later all her cute friends showed up and I felt like an idiot. Or how about the time I passed up a group of cute girls I thought were lesbians by the way they were dressed. Turns out they were the female roller derby team. They were awesome.

The next time you want to talk to a woman, take a second to write down the exact reason why you didn't do it. Be very descriptive. For example, you see a cute girl you want to approach but your mind says "she looks like a bitch". Now go over and talk to her. Oh she is visiting from
Texas and is really sweet. Interesting. Make sure later on you write down three things.

1. What you wanted to do (say hi to a woman)
2. Why you didn't want to do it (she looked mean)
3. What actually happened when you did it (she was really nice)

Pay special attention to the difference between what you initially thought and what actually happened. After a few days you will see that the aloof
bitches were actually hot girls on vacation from Brazil that just didn't speak English. The girl that "has to be with one of these guys" really just met them. The two girls "who probably just want to talk to each other" were excited to meet you.

I have done this exercise and it's really fun. You become shocked at how far off you are on your prejudgements of people. Every picture in your mind what you think a person looks like only to meet them in person and have been totally off. But hey, if you always end up being right, at least you can say I told you so.

Mental masturbation is stopping you from being social and meeting new women. Plus, your mind is wired to paint most people with a negative brush before you even approach. The bottom line is you can't predict people with any accuracy. You need to go over and find out for yourself.