The Art of Attracting True Love

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Can't Seem To Find The Love You Want?

In our fast-paced modern society where we are continually bombarded with stimulation from every direction, it is the rare individual who has achieved and is living all of their dreams. With the recent smash hit movie, "The Secret," many of us have become aware of exactly who some of these individuals are and learned a little bit about the mind-set that has allowed them to achieve all that they have achieved in their lives.

If you haven't yet seen the movie, you may have been first introduced to the Secret movie and the Law of Attraction by virtue of some of the cast members appearing on Oprah and the Larry King Live show on CNN. However you heard about it, "The Secret" and the Law of Attraction are some of the latest and greatest 'buzz' words that everyone is talking about and many have begun analyzing the content of their thoughts, feelings, actions and focus in an effort to use the Law of Attraction to achieve the dreams, goals and aspirations that up to now have been elusive. (continued below)

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Can't Seem To Find The Love You Want? - Cont'd 

So, what does all of this have to do with me? Well...(deep breath in). Over the past 10 years, I have spent literally thousands of hours reading, studying, and researching everything I could get my hands on and thousands of dollars traveling all over the US and Canada to attend seminars on self-help and personal growth. It was a few short years ago that I realized my mission in life was to share with others how to attract the love that they so desperately want to experience but can't seem to find. I watched "The Secret" when it very first came out in early 2006 and since then have watched it countless times. I found that each time I watched it, everything I had learned up to that moment became more solidified in my awareness and I began to have ideas for a series of products to create so that there would be a way, a 'formula' if you will, for a step-by-step process all about attracting and experiencing a relationship with the love of your life that so many are failing to experience. Over half of the population is single, most not by choice, and they are looking for love that they can't seem to find.

Let me just say that I am completely thrilled that "The Secret" and the Law of Attraction have recently come to light in a profound way. It really couldn't be better timing for me beginning to live my mission in showing others how to attract love into their lives. You see, I have been working on my building my Member website HowToAttractLove.com for the last several months and it is finally ready for it's official launch on April 24th. You can get on the Pre-Launch Notification List by clicking here...Pre-Launch List and I'll send you a quick note as soon as it's launched on that day so that you can be one of the first 500 to become a new member and take advantage of a special bonus.

If you'll let me, I can take you by the hand and show you step by step exactly how to experience the love you have been waiting for, hoping for, searching for your entire life. Follow me and before you know it, you will be experiencing a romantic, healthy and loving relationship far beyond your wildest dreams...

The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz 

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I have taken some my favorites from The Mastery of Love Cards, which "illuminate the fear-based beliefs and assumptions that undermine love and lead to suffering and drama in our relationships." As Don Miguel says, "Happiness can only come from inside of you and is the result of your love." So which one is your favorite?

You are only responsible for your half of a relationship.

There are two halves in every relationship, but you are only responsible for your half of the relationship; it is not up to you to control the other half. Respect the other half, and there is always going to be peace in that relationship.2 points

Forgive yourself.

The supreme act of forgiveness is when you can forgive yourself for all the wounds you've created in your own life. Forgiveness is an act of self-love. When you forgive yourself, self-acceptance begins and self-love grows.1 point

Love is the medicine that accelerates healing.

Love yourself, love your neighbor, love your enemies, but begin with self-love. You cannot love others until you love yourself. You cannot share what you do not have. If you do not love yourself, you cannot love anyone else either.1 point

Transform your life with self-love.

From now on, let every action, every reaction, every thought, and every emotion be based in love. Increase your self-love until the entire dream of your life is transformed from fear and drama to love and joy.1 point

Serve the one you love.

Once you decide to be a couple, you are there to serve the one you love, to serve your love to your lover. In every kiss, in every touch, you feel you are there to please the one you love, without expecting anything back.1 point

To begin a great relationship, know what you want.

Know what the needs of your body are, what the needs of your mind are, and what fits well with you. There are millions of men and women, and some will make a good match for you and others won't. The two of you only need to be like a key in the lock - a match that works.0 points

You are an artist of the spirit.

Find yourself and express yourself in your own particular way. Express your love openly. Life is nothing but a dream, and if you create your life with love, your dream becomes a masterpiece of art.0 points

Create the perfect relationship between you and your body.

Treat your body wtih all your love, honor, gratitude, and respect. When you make it your goal to adore your own body and accept yourself completely, you are learning to have a perfect relationshp with anyone else you are with.0 points

Love is compassionate and respectful.

Love is compassionate and respectful, but doesn't feel sorry for anyone. If someone falls, compassion helps you to say, Stand up. You can do it. Compassion comes from respect, and is the result of knowing that others are strong enough and intelligent enought to make their own choices.0 points

Love is kind and just.

When you are in love, a smile is always on your face. You feel good about yourself and because you are happy, you are kind. Love is also just; when you make a mistake, you pay only once for that mistake.0 points

Love is unconditional.

In love, there are no conditions; you love for no reason, with no justification. You are free to be what you are, and allow others to be what they are.0 points

Love has no obligations or expectations.

When you love, whatever you do is because you want to do it. It becomes a pleasure; it's like a game, and you have fun with it. When you love, you don't expect something to happen; whatever happens is okay, and hardly anything disappoints you.0 points

Let your heart speak.

The heart is in direct communication with the human soul, and when the heart speaks, even with the resistance of the head, something inside you changes. Your heart opens another heart, and true love is possible.0 points

Become a servant of love.

Love is what makes you happy, and if you become the servant of love and your partner becomes the servant of love, the day will come when you can be with your partner with no guilt and no blame, no anger and no sadness.0 points

Be generous with your love.

You are never going to be alone if you are generous with your love. What makes you happy is love coming out of you and if you are generous with your love, everyone is going to love you.0 points

Respect each other's dream.

In a relationship, there are two dreamers with different dreams. You need to accept the differences that exist between two dreamers; you need to respect each other's dream.0 points

You are responsible for your own happiness.

Happiness never comes from outside of you. If you put your happiness in someone else's hands, they can always take it away. Happiness can only come from inside of you and is the result of your love.0 points

To master love, you have to practice love.

The art of relationship is a whole mastery, and the only way to reach mastery is with practice. To master a relationship is, therefore, about action; it is not about attaining knowledge.0 points

So, What's The First Step to Attracting Love Using The Law Of Attraction? 

Clarity!

Quite simply, the very first step in attracting the love that you would like to experience is to get absolutely clear on what you would like to attract. Most people inadvertently and continually attract what they don't want to experience. One of the reasons is because they don't know what they truly want, they only know from negative experiences in past relationships exactly what they don't want.

What do you want? Write it down and describe it in as much detail as you can.

Stuck? Write down what you don't want on one piece of paper and then what you DO want on another piece of paper. When you're done, burn the one with what you don't want on it and never think about it again.

In part 2, which you'll find hyperlinked below, I'll share with you the next step you need to Attract the Love of Your Life...

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Have you seen "The Secret"? 

If you haven't, watch this trailer and then let me share with you my understanding of "The Secret" and the Law of Attraction and I will show you exactly how to Attract the Love of Your Life through my Squidoo lens lessons and my new Member site HowToAttractLove.com.

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Haven't Seen The Secret? 

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I cannot recommmend this movie enough! It's 90 minutes out of your life and only 5 bucks. I guarantee that your life will never be the same after watching this movie! If you can't watch it now, make yourself a note to come back and click this link as soon as you possibly can. I hope that you'll decide to go ahead and purchase the DVD so that you can watch it over and over again. It's that good...

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Describe the type of relationship you'd like to have and help others get a more clear understanding of what it is they want in the process.

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girlfriendguru wrote...

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ReplyPosted July 28, 2008

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aussiescribe wrote...

5 stars & favoured this brilliant lens. Yes The Secret is a breakthrough in human relations. How I wish it had arrived 20 years ago. I've approached ATTRACTING LOVE in my Feng shui ... how to attract prosperity & lovelens in another but related way.

ReplyPosted June 20, 2008

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great lens 5 stars 4 u

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The Law of Attraction and The Secret have impacted me greatly.

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ReplyPosted August 07, 2007

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