Attract Love With The Law Of Attraction

The online dictionary states the word 'attraction' meaning:

1. the act, power, or property of attracting
2. attractive quality; magnetic charm; fascination; allurement; enticement: the subtle attraction of her strange personality

Attraction really should be seen as the 'Law of Attraction'. We tend to forget about this law and no matter whether we believe it or not, it does exist. Like attracts like, so the people who come to us, are actually a reflection of who we really are. This can be difficult to understand at first, but their may be some deep issues inside us that is stopping great love coming to us. There are many laws of the universe that are always there no matter what. The most recognizable law for everyone would be the law of gravity. But, its always best to learn how to go with them then to try and work against them. Once you understand the law of attraction, it becomes more powerful for you to use it and you will start to attract the things that you do want, including the love of your life.

So, how do we know that the law of attraction is working around us?

We attract things and people by our thoughts and actions. If you see all the things that are wrong around you, then you will get more of that which you see and think about. So if you're looking to attract more love into your life, then you need to give it, see it and embrace it. This doesn't necessarily mean the opposite sex either. It can include family, friends, animals, plants, you - life in general. It can be hard when you're not used to doing it without someone giving you love first, but it can start with small deeds. So start doing little things for people and not wanting anything in return. Allow yourself to smile more and think of all the things around you that you are blessed to have. When you think life is tough and unfair, you will get more of that. Try just being kind and giving to people. Not only will it make you feel good, but it will put a smile on other peoples faces as well. The more we are kind, the more kindness will be given to us. The more we love, the more love will come to us.

If you want to attract love with the law of attraction and find you don't get as much love back that you would like, then you're thinking too much about what you want back. Make a conscious effort to make this a habit of being a more loving, giving and caring person and more good things will start to happen to you. You have to keep believing no matter what, not only because it is fun to visualize what we really want, but because their is a profound impact in why things happen to us when we stay focused on what we want regardless of what happens.

Our feelings are the strongest power to making the law of attraction work. So when we focus on something and add a feeling to it, that's when it will be brought into our reality the quickest. Our heart and feelings are the direct link to our soul, with who we are, what we like and dislike. This is what makes us truly unique and helps us to decide which partner has the best qualities that suits us.

You may start to notice with your friends and family how much they talk about other people in a negative way. How much they criticize, blame, are jealous, and how someone has something that they don't have. Try not to associate with that sort of conversation, it's easy enough to walk away or try and change the subject (speaking from experience). Just focus on how important it is to be more loving, kind and caring towards others.

Wouldn't you prefer a partner who is more kind, caring and loving?

Once you are aware of all the negativity around you, it means you're on your first step to becoming a better person. Make sure you are a fun person to be around too, because you must realize how energy draining it can be to hang around people who complain all the time. So while you're starting this process of learning to attract love with the law of attraction, you will appear more attractive to others and to be a much happier and positive person as a result.

As I mentioned before, attracting love to you requires you to believe that you are lovable. See in yourself what you want others to see as well. Go through your own attributes including the ones on the inside and out, and make a list of what you have that people would love about you. If you need help, just ask family and friends for their honest opinions and I'm sure they will give it.

Now with the attributes that you don't like about yourself, you can still learn how to hide them or change them. These are the non-physical like anger, impatience, jealousy, etc. The first step to diminishing them is to just be aware of them.

We can change for the better, but we have to be determined to change while still accepting ourselves for who we are on the outside no matter how low our self esteem is with our physical appearance. We tend to forget too, that there is someone out there who will love those physical things we don't like about ourselves.

Another powerful attribute that can attract more love to us is when we are busy doing something that we love and are passionate about. By creating that strong love when involved in doing a job, hobby, or something that we really enjoy means that we let go of negatives around us and portray a certain glow that many people won't be able to resist and will start to love that about us, especially those with similar interests.

We all like to feel attracted to successful people and people who are doing well in all areas of their lives. This can be because they create a certain energy around them that has a lot of determination attached to it. They are nearly always upbeat and looking for the solutions of every problem, rather than just focusing on the problems.

Scientists have proven that everything has an energy attached to it. So the reason we get what we have, is that similar energies attract. So when we are portraying a positive happy, loving energy, we will attract people with those similar energies. This energy also works with giving and gratitude. The more we give, the more will be given back to us and the more grateful we are, the more we will have stuff to be grateful for.

So start to take action now, today. Only good can come of it and you will start to feel much better about yourself.

Our thoughts have been proven to be a vibration that we send out every time we think something and when we add feeling to that thought, it starts to attract itself to us. Now if you like to be oblivious to that, that is fine, but it happens whether we like it happening or not. Depending on the nature of the thoughts, like will attract like. So if you're constantly thinking of how lonely you are and how there is no one around who really cares, then that's what you will keep getting back to you. So start by being grateful for you. That you have a great body, that you are smart, kind, etc. Think of all the things you love about yourself right now, and whenever a negative thought creeps in, stop it in its tracks. To keep yourself aware of negative thoughts, put up some paper around your room telling yourself how great you are and to only think positive. It does help - a lot! (again, speaking from experience :-) )

Also find something that you love to do, and put a lot of love into it. It doesn't have to be big, just something you find easy and enjoy doing.
There are also plenty of free things you can do if money is tight. Like a simple walk along the beach or in a rain forest and really enjoy the scenery and appreciate the nature around you. Listening to your favourite music, even cleaning up your room can give you a great sense of achievement. Giving to a charity or offering to help in charities can have a lot of love attached to the thought. Getting involved with animals, children, or even going to a free seminar on something you're interested in (investments, cooking, maybe?), and I realized when I look for these, there are plenty around.

Affirmations are known for making a huge positive difference in our lives as well, whether we say them out loud or to ourselves in our head. We usually say things over again in our head anyway, so why not make them positive and something that you want more of in life?

When I used to be a waitress, we had to carry a tray with a lot of drinks on it including champagne classes and I used to think I was going to drop it and then I would. Then I realized how powerful my thoughts were, so every time I picked up a tray of drinks, instead of thinking of dropping it, I would say 'I am the best' over and over again in my head. When I did that I never dropped it. Was quite funny and would make me smile, especially when some of the other staff would drop theirs.

So pick some affirmative words to say now that can help to attract love into your life. Whether its going to help you love yourself or help attract love to you, they are important. So think of some that you can say to yourself now. "I love and appreciate myself", or "There is so much to love about me". They should help you to get started. So now you have no excuse for being able to attract love. - Soulmate Secrets by Arielle Ford is one of my favourite books on attracting the right person for you.

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