How To Attract Your Perfect Partner

I know where you're at. You're either in a relationship with the wrong person, or you just can't seem attract the person that's perfect for you. It's alright. You're not alone. And there are 5 simple steps you can follow to attract your perfect partner.

Step 1: Know What You Want

Know what you're looking for. The biggest mistake people make is they don't even know what they want. That's why you keep settling for the wrong person. You don't know any better.

If you just write down what it is you're looking for, you're already off to a better start. Write down 5 things you can't live without, and 3 things you won't tolerate from a partner. This is the first step in attracting your perfect partner.

Step 2: Don't Rush Into Sex

This goes for guys and girls. If you're looking to create a relationship, than your perfect partner shouldn't be someone you rush to jump in the sack with.

When you rush into having sex, you're already compromising your own values. Take it slow and enjoy the ride. I'm not saying you shouldn't have sex, but for the sake of happiness, wait a month. Go on some dates, get to know your partner.

When you finally do have sex, it will be magical. You'll both be craving it, and the passion will make you want each other more and more. My friend Donna Barnes, the NY Dating Coach, has a good saying: "Sex Will Make You Stupid". Slow down, and you'll be on your way to attract your perfect partner.

Step 3: Know Where To Find Your Perfect Partner

This one seems to confuse a lot of people. The truth is, this may be the easiest step. The best place to look to attract your perfect partner is "Everywhere"!

That's right, your perfect partner could be anywhere and everywhere. You just have to be ready when you see them. Now, if you want to narrow it down, then go do things you LIKE to do.

If you have a dog, walk your dog at a park and you may attract another dog lover. If you like golf, go to a driving range or golf course. If you're into healthy living, try the gym or Whole Foods Marketplace.

Do things you like to do and you'll attract your perfect partner because they enjoy the same things. Don't complicate it by thinking you have to go to a bar to attract your perfect partner. You can do just as well, if not better, at the library, as long as you like to read and learn new things.

Step 4: Don't Settle For Less

You've made your list of things you won't live without and can't live with. Stick to it. Don't settle for anything less than that. If you do, you'll never be happy.

Now, you're trying to attract your perfect partner. Keep in mind, there is no perfect person. The question is whether they are perfect for you. That's why we kept our list above very short. If you made it too big, you'll never find what you're looking for.

With that said, make sure they fit into the list you created. Those are your musts. You must adhere to them if you are ever going to attract your perfect partner.

Step 5: Just Be You!

Another easy one. Just be yourself. You'll never be happy if you have to go around pretending to be someone you're not. By doing so, you'll attract someone who expects that all the time.

If you have to lie to yourself about who you are, you'll never find true love. Just be you. Do things you enjoy. When you are happy with you, someone will come along and be the best thing to ever happen to you!

Those are 5 Steps To Attracting Your Perfect Partner. They're simple, but they work. Follow those, and you'll be on your way to a happy life with the person of your dreams. If you want more tips, you can always learn more by getting the best advice for attracting your perfect partner.