Breakups: Have you just had a break-up? Now what?

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How to deal with Break-Ups and get your life back in gear

Dear Friend, how is life treating you at this moment in time? Are you feeling lonely because your loved one has left you? Are you possibly heart-broken and still hanging on to what might be left of what you had? Maybe you're not yet sure who to turn to in this time of need? Or are you unsure of how to get out of a destructive relationship that you're currently in?

Break-ups are always complicated, the emotional anguish and mixed feelings that seam to have no end. Somehow everywhere you look you see happy couples holding hands. Caressing and kissing, yearning for that affection you used to have almost everyday and you miss it so much that you can almost feel your prtnet still standing by your side. The pain can be excruciating, not only mentally, the strength of the emotions effect you physically to the point where you can feel your heart braking and cannot find a way out.

We all remember our first love, those special moments, that feeling of untouchable wholeness, feeling complete. I remember it well, having so much to say to each other, never running out of words to say and always yearning to be together like there aren't enough hours in the day to spend together. Such a powerful connection, it somehow feels as if you're walking in the clouds and the world looks beautiful.

There's a term called the 'honeymoon period' that affects most relationships.After that initial stage of bliss and harmony and passion, things begin to move slower and that's when both partners need to keep the momentum going. Unfortunately Love does not come with a manual, there's no step 2 and step 3 to follow.

So in this time of need when you're left scared and in pain, be aware that there are is a way to take hold of that pain and change the way you look at it so that you can rise above the situation and make the best elements better, mend the wounds and begin to learn how to heal yourself faster.


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Hypnosis and how it can help with breakups 

Pick up the pieces ands get back on your feet again.

It has been said that the mind is self healing, but this has been known as a very long process and could take years. Unless you have access to the healing process, to actually take control of it and steer it in the direction that is best for you.

Hypnosis works because it is designed to target this process and accelerate it to levels that cannot be accomplished under normal circumstances:

Take this example: When you're camera has a few dirty particles on the lens, you don't shake it off and hope that with time, it's going to take better pictures. No, you get your lens cleaning kit out and clean the lens. Hypnosis is a lens cleaner, not a lens duster.

With a clear lens to look at the world through, you're no longer clouded with mixed emotions that make it difficult to decide what to do next, or even if you want to continue with life in general.

So the first step is to acknowledge that you want to feel better, no matter what your situation. You have a desire to regain that loving feeling that you had radiating from your whole being once before, right? The good news is that you don't have do anything but sit back, relax and let the powerful power of suggestion emanate from your computer, and you can have it within minutes.

Being familiar with hypnosis, I have been fortunate enough to have spent time with a world renowned hypnotherapist and author, Richard MacKenzie, who's been helping people with breakups for years in his clinic and fortunately he has created a downloadable MP3 for break-ups designed for people like you and me.

So if you're ready to start feeling better and want things to be different so that the next time heartache peers around the corner, you have a loaded weapon ready to strike back and never have the worry of this effecting your right to feel loved and appreciated, because you deserve it.

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    must of been a fool must of been a fool Apr 1, 2009 @ 4:05 pm
    12 months to the day we split i have hit rock bottom.It all started with in her words '' oh ive had the coil fitted at the doctors while i was having a smear check up '' saying it was to help regulate her periods but it was for my benefit aswell. Two days later she goes out on a friday night and she comes back home after being out for 7 and a half hours at 02:30 in the morning.No contact of txt to let me know if shes ok,just '' im at a friends i'll be home soon. '' I go beserk and tell her shes got no respect amongst other things.The following day she says its not right between us but theirs no one else.That evening i spend the night in a hotel,then think what am i doing its my house and our sons there whos six now so i go back home.I get back in to bed lying there and shes asleep.I think theres something not right here so i get out of bed grab her phone of the bedside table, its switched off.She never turned her phone off.I go downstairs with the phone switch it on and then bingo a txt comes in from this guy saying '' for ever and ever'' with a kiss. I woke her up and we ended up having a massive row.She says its a mistake and wasnt for her.Anyway she moved out and was coming back each morning to get our son ready for school and dropping him back at night then when i returned from work she would go somewhere else friends or so.Then she says theres nothing between her and this guy but hes made her realise that its not right between us.Then she says nothings happened but its going too standing 3 feet away from me in the kitchen.A couple of days later walks through the door and shrugs her shoulders and says feels wierd now,almost saying shes just slept with him for the first time.A couple of weeks pass and shes moved in with the guy.Then my son moves in with her because i couldnt do the school times due to work.By the end of the third week she got an engagement ring on her finger from this guy and shes swanning around the school with it and people have asked if i know,which i didnt.Prior to my son meeting the guy she said hes going to meet him and that it was going to happen.So i reluctantly let her have him that sunday but later found out shes already introduced him in the softplay kiddies barn behind our estate in our village to this guys 2 children.Months of mess followed and then i get arrested for harrasement sending txt messages.Five months after our split she gets married to this property developer who has 2 part time children but an instant family for my son who has no blood siblings which had been hard for me to take.I had to appear in court after they got married in Sicily as they also tried to say that i had something to do with burglaring there house and stealing his car and burning it out even though they did it themselves trying to push me out of the picture.Still after her sucking the life out of me bleeding me dry, i worked and she spent but twice as much as i had coming in.She even tried to get me to put her credit card debt on to the mortgage three months before we split.Then i find shes forged my signature on a loan she took out making it a joint loan without my knowledge.Ive been stuggling to come to terms with the debt shes left me in and the loss of my son from my home even though hes with me every weekend its still hard to take.Now im out of work and i cant see any light at the moment.
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    loy loy Feb 24, 2009 @ 7:38 pm
    uo gold
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    shyamala shyamala Feb 19, 2009 @ 2:51 pm
    Exactly a feeling of him being around. I started my day today a six days since he left. Go on long walks. unable to find my own a, chirping self. Everything i touch in the house we lived together reminds of him, and i cry feeling insecure.
    Searching for job. want to work so much so i get involved and make great use of me and sustain financially. Want to detach, silently praying him to be back.
    On the other hand i find lots of time to read, exercise and move around.
    Quite strong but a feeling hurts that i let someone use me.His love is so much filled around me and i think of those early bliss when he coaxed me together....it hurts and pains me.
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    jason w jason w Jan 28, 2008 @ 12:47 pm
    the feeling that never stops stabing in my heart just keeps getting stronger to the point that i think i cant breath, the pain that makes me drop to my knees and cry a poddle of tears that can never be picked up. a wish that can never be fullfill by noone but the other but wishes dont matter to her. the reach of something you need to servive but just 2 inches to far to get. it sad it painful and i dont know what to do.
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    relationship-squidz relationship-squidz Nov 26, 2007 @ 11:48 am
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    jeff jeff Jul 14, 2007 @ 9:21 pm
    hypnosis seems kinda scary for me. arent you unconscious when it happens though?
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    SansFaim SansFaim Jul 2, 2007 @ 9:31 am
    Hi Marios,
    Great lens. Good information. Never thought of hypnosis in these circumstances.
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    moorthys2 moorthys2 Jun 27, 2007 @ 12:49 am
    Great lens that says about the break-ups.The pain will be great if anyone dear to us has left .This lens with the down-loadable version of mp3 makes it to get relieved in a hypnotic manner.
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    Love the lens. It really gave me a good look into dealing with my breakups

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