A Baby Boomer Defines Life After World War II

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What it means to be a baby boomer - one woman's definition

I was born in 1952 in Oakland California. My father had been in the Army during World War II. My mother was very young. I was raised in the San Francisco Bay Area towns of El Cerrito and Richmond.

The following free-form narrative explains my feelings about being part of the baby boomer generation. Please note that I'm not speaking for all baby boomers, but this does define what being a baby boomer means to me.

Susan and Linda 

Who we were - the early days

Baby boomers:
We were children with no worries.
The world was a playground.
Lots of good things happened.
We had no understanding of prior terrors.
What went before had little reality for us.

My parents

Father went to war.
Mother pined for a lost love.
What traumas they went through!
Yet they survived, in physical form at least.

We, the children, knew nothing of that.

Mom-Dad-Linda-Susan 

Our television

We watched Captian Kangaroo and Howdy Doody
wondering how to get on the show like those lucky kids
and the ones on Art Linkletter's show, where
"Kids Say the Darndest Things."

We knew we were special
because Art listened to what kids said.
He laughed, we laughed.
Everyone was happy.

The war

The war survivors mourned lost "casualties".
They dealt with trauma.
Broken hearts. Broken dreams.

We children were blissfully unaware
yet the vibration of trauma and distress still rocked our world, invisibly.

We played on new playgrounds. Rode on new rides.
We loved, danced, explored, and sang.

We believed in this great country:
A masterpiece of higher civilization.

The truth

Then one day in history class
the teacher mentioned Dresden, Hiroshima and Nagasaki.
Our wonderful country bombed thousands of children out of existence.
"It was necessary," the elders said. "We had to do it to win the war."

"Wait!" I said.
"Were these not children just as I am?"
"Are these children who died not as important as I?"
"Am I supposed to believe that killing children as an act of war is honorable?"

Suddenly I didn't feel so safe anymore.
My beautiful world with it's manicured lawns
and blooming flowers
and well-fed children
hid something sinister and mean.

Something so awful,
people don't talk about it anymore.

We protest

I go ahead and live through my childhood,
but I latch onto the only philosophy that makes sense,
"Love everyone."

If only we can make our parents understand
that war is wrong
and that children deserve to live out their lives naturally,
then perhaps the world will change.

We grow our hair long,
rebel against authority,
gather in protest marches,
abhor VietNam's slaughter.

Our parents look on, horrified.
Was this what they brought us up to be?

My victories

Now I am old.
Fifty-seven later this summer.
I have my own little victory garden.
Victory over what?
VICTORY over scummy bankers
that steal all the money from us and our children
so we can serve as menial slave labor
in our pathetic attempts
to grab a small share of the American dream.

My victory comes from every little squash that appears,
every tomato that ripens,
every green bean that offers its substance to me.
Self-sustainability.
Life without more than I really need.
The ability to turn off the TV permanently
and enjoy life without brainwashing.

For these victories I am very grateful.

Anti-war books

Johnny Got His Gun

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More of my memoirs

...at my Cali Childhood site...

The Big Abandoned Tractor
A big tractor and a little girl.
The Long Shadow
One of my first memories.
Adventure Maiden's House
The house I lived in as a child.
Contraband Song
A song my mom didn't want to hear!
Rejected By Friends
Pushed off my skateboard by "friends".
What a Weird Body I Got Stuck With!
...At least, I thought so at the time...

How to Write Memoirs

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Your comments are welcome!

I will appreciate reading your views on these issues.

  • mukunda22 Jan 3, 2012 @ 11:44 pm | delete
    Baby Boomers ROCK!! ****Blessed****
  • BarbRad Dec 30, 2011 @ 4:55 pm | delete
    I'm a war baby, and remember the bomb drills where we all crawled under our desks, not really understanding the reality of the situation. I am also against war, but I don't think we will ever see the end of it. Human nature is what it is, and it is still for the most part, pretty selfish. It happens because people want something that someone else has. So do countries. We didn't want to fight WW 2. But had we not done it, we might be a dictatorship today and the protests of the 70's might not have been possible. Sometimes we have to fight to protect our liberty. But we need to choose our battles much more carefully than we have in the past. A very thought-provoking lens.
  • OhMe Dec 27, 2011 @ 6:34 pm | delete
    Congratulations on your well deserved Purple Star
  • Titia Dec 23, 2011 @ 11:33 pm | delete
    I think you covered your baby boomer generation beautifully. I'm not a baby boomer, I'm a war child, born in December 1944, the Hunger Winter in Holland. Somehow the flower power time never touched me. Thanks for sharing.
  • seeker2011 Oct 31, 2011 @ 7:30 am | delete
    Each generation bears its pain and sufferring from the time of Moses to the down fall of Rome, Slavery, Poverty, Industrialisation, War. Today children still suffer from starvation and war weary countries. What will our next generation of children face? Nice lense, thought provoking.
  • Margo_Arrowsmith Feb 11, 2011 @ 6:32 pm | delete
    Lovely lens. I am lensrolling it to Arrowsmith Printing The History of Small Town Newspaper in Mid Century Iowa
  • wordstock Jan 3, 2011 @ 10:37 am | delete
    The "we protest" touches me. Makes me want to cry. Angel blessed not just for an exceptionally good lens but for saying what I want.
  • d-artist Jul 18, 2010 @ 2:00 pm | delete
    came back to give a ~"Squid Angel Blessing"~
  • prosperity66 Jun 20, 2010 @ 5:47 am | delete
    I'm not of this generation but I'm pretty sure - not just because my grandmother told me over and over again - that you, baby boomers lived the best era of the 20th century. However, I'm pretty sure that, while you learned the horrible things that happened before your birth, you were disappointed to discover that candy land wasn't that sweet.
    All in all, I thank you for this page: I had a lot of pleasure to read it from the very first word till the last one and will surely come back often. It's personal view, it's very well written and explained and one can feel how you felt.
  • vallain Apr 17, 2010 @ 9:09 am | delete
    This makes me think about documenting my Baby Boomer childhood. Well done!
  • d-artist Feb 15, 2010 @ 9:02 pm | delete
    wonderful lens!...5*...and came to this country in 1950 after the war and lived in San Leandro, Oakland, San Francisco etc ...
  • pepys Oct 1, 2009 @ 7:25 pm | delete
    I am also a boomer - and proud of it. There are words you present here that resonate with some of my memories. Thanks.
  • Pastiche Jul 27, 2009 @ 12:51 pm | delete
    I was born in 1951 - your memories and thoughts resonate strongly with me. Great lens and poetry - we welcome this 5-star lens to Senior Geek Squids.
  • Frankster Jul 19, 2009 @ 2:48 pm | delete
    Wonderful lens. We are almost the same age so I can relate to what you've written. Thank you again for giving me feedback on my lens. Bear hugs, Frankie
  • Jul 15, 2009 @ 6:54 pm | delete
    Well organized and written.
  • poutine Jul 2, 2009 @ 10:56 am | delete
    Splendid lens.

    I'm also a baby boomer and I think we lived in the
    best of times.
  • C-Joy Jun 24, 2009 @ 10:08 pm | delete
    I truly enjoyed reading this - thank you!
  • naturegirl7 Jun 19, 2009 @ 5:00 pm | delete
    Wonderful lens. I felt every word and lived most of them. Outstanding!
  • California_Dreamin Jun 19, 2009 @ 12:24 pm | delete
    Great lens. I was born in 1960, so neither I nor my parents are boomers. I close an to President Obama in age. l think that our's is the generation that is is gong to straighten things out in America.
  • CCGAL Jun 18, 2009 @ 8:47 pm | delete
    Loved your photos! I'm a bumper boomer - born at the peak of the baby boom. Just joined the Sr Squids Ning ... this is the first Boomer lens I've seen. I like it!
  • KimGiancaterino Jun 18, 2009 @ 1:21 am | delete
    This lens was featured on A Day of 100 Squid Angel Blessings.
  • kimmanleyort Jun 17, 2009 @ 2:54 pm | delete
    Great lens. Love your poem. There is something really freeing about being in your fifties or beyond.
  • LizMac60 Jun 16, 2009 @ 6:19 am | delete
    A lovely lens about growing up and seeing things as they really are.
  • WindyWinters Jun 16, 2009 @ 2:44 am | delete
    Well Done, Linda! :)
  • paperfacets Jun 15, 2009 @ 3:19 pm | delete
    Linda, you have really defined something here and, no kidding, there are more than just a few points that ring with me. Move over Didion.
  • mysticmama Jun 15, 2009 @ 11:47 am | delete
    Thanks for sharing :-)
  • bdkz Jun 15, 2009 @ 10:43 am | delete
    Very nice!
  • BevsPaper Jun 15, 2009 @ 5:34 am | delete
    Beautifully done!
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