Baby Products: A Journey from Conception to Birth and Beyond
We are expecting! Amazing. As I write this we are in our third month and as REAL newbies, we are now researching everything. Everyday we are learning the do's and the don'ts. We are discovering new baby products and finding the best products to raise a healthy baby.
What is the best decaf coffee to drink? The best vitamin to take? The best book to read? Here we will share what we learn with you.
This lens is, by defination a "WIP" (work in progress). Probably it will not be finished until our parenting days are over. Since we are now just starting this journey, we have no idea when or if that will ever be. So, be sure to bookmark this lens and come back often to see what new things we have learned on our way to parenthood.
Top Ten ESSENTIALS for a new baby
Help us to pick the things we MUST have when our baby is born.
We have to start shopping for things to have when our baby is born. We have no experience at this and would like everyone's help to determine what we absolutely MUST have when we bring the baby home for the first time.
Please add to the list below and vote for the absolute MUSTS.
Please keep to the absolute essentials for what we will need in the first days. For example we know we will need a car seat but since we do not plan to drive our baby in the first days after being born (unless it is an emergency), we do not think it should be included in this list.
Determine if and when you are fertile
Are you trying to get pregnant? If you are, you may be interested to know which dates to "try". You may be interested to know that there are online fertility calculators to help you pick the most fertile days:
* This fertility calculator worked for us. It requires that you know the date of your last 3 periods. AND it requires that the menstural cycle must be pretty regular.
If the fertility calculator above is not working for you,
* This fertility calculator only requires the date of your last period and the average length of your cycle. As it requires less information it may be less accurate. Use it the first time you try and remember to note down the date of your period. If you are not successful for a couple of months, you can always use the calculator above. That is what we did.
* You might want to take a more professional approch and buy Ovulation Predictors or Sperm Count Testing Kits. These tests will tell you when your body is ovulating or if your sperm count is an issue. We didn't even know these existed as home tests. Pretty cool that you can do this in the privacy of your own home!

Our Positive Pregnancy Tests
Pregnancy Tests
There are many types of pregancy test kits today. Most are VERY accurate, similar in accuracy to the test your doctor will use. Prices are getting lower all of the time.
They are very simple to use and all work more or less the same way, requring a small sample of urine. With a pregancy strip, you dip the strip in a cup of urine. With a cassette (such as the two shown in the photo above), you use a small dropper to transfer a sample of urine into the cassette.
In about 1 minute you will see the result. One line tells you the result is negative, two lines tell you it is positive. In our case, we got one dark line and one light line (see the photos below). So, we tried again with a different brand. But again we got one dark line and one light line. A third kit showed the same thing. Finally we realized that all the kits were telling us the same result. We are pregnant!
If you are just trying to get pregnant buy a large box and keep them handy. Like us, you will most likely be checking often.
Prenatal Vitamins
If you are intending to get pregnant, you have to think about vitamins. Sometime before you start trying to get pregancy or soon as you can, you should start taking prenatal vitamins. What is the difference you ask?
According to the Mayo Clinic, one of the leading medical centers in the USA:
Most prenatal vitamins contain more folic acid, calcium and iron than do standard adult multivitamins
* Folic acid helps prevent neural tube defects - serious abnormalities of the brain and spinal cord. Folic acid may also decrease the risk of preterm delivery and low birth weight.
* Calcium promotes strong bones and teeth for both mother and baby. Calcium also helps your circulatory, muscular and nervous systems run normally.
* Iron supports the development of blood and muscle cells for both mother and baby. Iron helps prevent anemia, a condition in which blood lacks adequate healthy red blood cells. Iron may also decrease the risk of preterm delivery and low birth weight.
Your normal multivitamin certainly contains all of these vitamins, but most likely NOT enough to support a growing fetus. Make sure you are taking Prenatal Vitamins or Vitamins developed for pregnancy.
Which is the best? Everyone will have their own opinion and we will not recommend one particular brand. Take example, folic acid, often you will read something such as:
"Before pregancy 400 micrograms is recommended. Once you become pregnant the dosage should be increased to at least 600 mcg and your doctor may recommend 1000 mcg or more".
There are lots of different recommendations and probably any prenatal vitamin from a reputable company is going to be fine. But it is BEST to start taking them BEFORE you start trying to have a baby. You might as well buy in bulk if it is less expensive that way.
Video About Prenatal Preparations
Dr Catherine Goodstein offers sound advice about prenatal preparations.
(Our Expected Delivery Date is May 27, 2009)
Baby Movement Sensor
A very important product for a baby
We will buy a baby movement sensor. As any parents, we are of course worried about everything. One thing we will worry about is SIDS. A baby movement sensor may help us with that. However, we have several concerns.
We read about them being over sensitive and not sensitive enough. Some compain of false alarms others complain that even when the baby is not in its bed, the sensor still detects it and no alarm is sounded.
In our case, we are planning on having the baby's crib in our bedroom. So we are worried that the sensor will detect us.
Lots of issues to research, but these sensors below receive very high approval ratings so they are sensors we will consider when making a purchase. If you have experience with baby movement sensors, please let us know your thoughts in the comment box at the bottom of this page.
Kiddopotamus SwaddleMe Blankets
To Keep Your Baby Cozy
Miracle Blanket
An Alternative to the Swaddle me
The Scoop On Swaddlers
They may work for some, ours hated them
Post Partum Girdle
You may never have heard of a post partum girdle. We had not. But products similar to post partum girdles are actually standard in many cultures. The idea is to hold wear this girldle to bind the abdomen after birth and help to 'reknit' the underlying tissues.
There are no studies done about it and as mentioned many people do not even know about it. But it does make sense. If you injure your arm, or break a bone, the doctor will bind that area in order to hold the tissues in place so that they may reattach properly. Giving birth does cause an amazing injury, so why shouldn't the same principal apply.
The post-partum girdle we bought is featured below. We dont know if it works or not. But will leave comments after we give birth. Otherwise, you can search for other post-partum girdles. The reason that we bought it was:
* Positive reviews from buyers
* Comes in several sizes
* We liked the product description (see below).
* Reasonable Price
* Something that could dramatically help your figure seems like a good investment.
Post Delivery Girdle Belt - Maternity Belt - Post Natal
Amazon Price: $16.99 (as of 07/10/2009)![]()
Worn over or under a panty, the post delivery girdle helps in the healing. It alleviates symptons associated with post delivery stress and discomfort, flattening the tummy, supporting your lower back, and preventing pain. Made from a three tiers of three inch elastic band and Velcro closures, this belt is easy to put on and take off.
Post Partum Girdles
The Scoop on the Post Partum Girdle
We give it a thumbs up!
Amazingly her figure is about 90-95% back to pre-pregnancy days. There is no saggy or baggy skin. We attribute this miracle to the post-partum girdle and would give it a big thumbs up rating.
Clarins Stretch Mark Control
The Scoop on the Clarins Anti Stretch Mark Cream
This stuff works!!
Baby Books
If you are first time parents like us, you will probably want to get some baby books. Not a book FOR your baby but a book about babies to help you learn to be a better parent. We thought about Dr. Spock, but decided after a bit of reading that his information is outdated.
After doing some research and seeing what was being recommended, these are the books we bought. Why did we pick them?
* They are all top selling books. If lots of people like them, there must be a reason.
* They are all highly rated books.
* We read alot of the comments and liked what the reviewers had to say about the books.
* These books were recently written. We were suprised to realize that parenting concepts change rather rapidly. You will want to buy something up-to-date.
* Attractive price: All of the books are betwee $10 - $12.
We still have a few months to read them and will let you know our thoughts after we have had a chance to read them ourselves:
Co-Sleeper
A co-Sleeper is a great baby product
Arm's Reach is a very popular brand of co-sleeper. Where we live, we can not easily buy Arm's Reach products, so we have bought a regular crib which is:
* Approximately the same height as our bed
* Has a door which slides down to a few inches higher than the baby mattress
* We will attach the two beds together so that there is no chace of the baby falling between the beds.
Sitter City
We don't need this yet, but it sounds like a great idea when we do. Sitter City in the first and largest community for baby sitters. Offering
* A four-step screening process
* Free access to background checks
* Comprehensive sitter profiles
* Sitter video interviews
* Save 10% on registration with promo code SCSAVE10
Great Links For Expecting Parents
- Baby Center
- This site has everything about pregnancy, from what is safe and what is not, to baby names. If you don't know Baby Center, it is definately worth a look.
- American Pregnancy Association
- With an impressive Medical Advisory Committee, American Pregnancy Association offers great information for pregnant parents to be.
- ABC's...Pregnancy Tips
- This is an A-Z list for pregnant parents offered by the US CDC (Center for Diseasse Control). Great suggestions from a authoritative source.
Other Sites For Mothers and Children
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Maternity and Post-Partum Girdles
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Many women feel that a materinity girdle (also known as pregnancy panties) support the abdomen and offer relief from backpain caused by carrying so much extra weight. But be sure to discuss with your doctor or midwife before buying anything that migh...
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Children's Gifts
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It can be difficult to decide on gifts for children. Children grow up fast and can be soon too old for the gift you are buying them. In addition, many gifts go out of fashion very quickly and a gift that was popular last year, can be old and boring t...
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Nursing Bras
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Nursing bras, when fitted correctly, can be your friend. But the major problem with nursing bras is that breast size can change pretty dramatically making sizing quite difficult. The largest change in size often comes immediately after birth when the...
Are There Any Baby Products You Can Recommend?
Tell us what you like and why!
chefkeem wrote...
Fabulous lens concept, Gene. Of course, I had no idea about most of the things you're talking about. And I can't help you with tips, either. But I'm glad to support this great page with 5*s and a hearty SquidAngel Blessing. :)
The_Health_Lady wrote...
Very nice lens. I don't have any products to recommend but I do see that you have my favorite book about pregnancy "What to Expect When You're Expecting". I don't know what I would have done without it. I must have read it a thousand times.
mbgphoto wrote...
Wonderful idea for a lens! Congratulations and blessings on your baby!

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