So You Are Split Up and Want to Make Your Ex Feel Bad?
Relationships don't just happen, they are built up over time and must be worked on and nourished. And then after all that the ******** goes and says its over! Grrrrrrrr
What right do theyhave to ruin a perfectly good relationship? Well maybe it wasn't all that perfect actually.Maybe they were an idiot at times. Yeh - maybe you actually want them to be hurting now, just like you are!
But then you don't want to really hurt them because actually, if the truth be told, you still quite like them. Oh its annoying isn't it!
Well you don't just have to sit there and be silent - there are a few things you CAN do to get back at them without really hurting them, and.... actually these things are some of the best tricks to getting back together too!
Two birds, one stone.
What right do theyhave to ruin a perfectly good relationship? Well maybe it wasn't all that perfect actually.Maybe they were an idiot at times. Yeh - maybe you actually want them to be hurting now, just like you are!
But then you don't want to really hurt them because actually, if the truth be told, you still quite like them. Oh its annoying isn't it!
Well you don't just have to sit there and be silent - there are a few things you CAN do to get back at them without really hurting them, and.... actually these things are some of the best tricks to getting back together too!
Two birds, one stone.
So Make It Easy On Yourself....
Why not try some of these techniques for making you feel better. They are a good way to show your ex what they are missing - what an idiot they were to dump you!
Tip 1 - BE STRONG This is really important! Do not let your ex see that you are desperate to get back with them. Don't beg them or bombard them with texts. If you do that then they will just think you are dum! You will look weak and stupi and that is not what you want!
You want them to look at you and see a strong person, someone who has moved on from the pain and is building their life again. If they see that you are moving on it will let them know that they have not ha ha!
Tip 2 - MINIMISE COMMUNICATION It may seem difficult at the time, when you are hurting and you are either trying to get back together or trying to get back at your ex, but this is probably the most important thing you can do. Not only will it frustrate them that you are not allowing them any contact. But also its the easiest way to let them see how much they miss you!
Tip 3 - BE FLEXIBLE There is no benefit to anyone by being forceful or demanding. This will just make you angry and will also mean that your ex will form a very low opinion of you. This is not what you want!
To really get back at your ex you must make them see what a good person you are and how they were a fool to let you go! Wouldn't it be great to have them wondering why on earth they broke up with you? Ha ha - and all their friends would think it too. Cos your totally awesome in every way and they were too dum to see it!
Tip 4 - GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND HAVE SOME FUN! There are two good reasons why you should do this - first of all it will make you feel a lot better to be out and having fun with your friends and secondly it will, AGAIN, make your ex realise that they lost a really great person! A person who is fun to be around.
They will be sooooo annoyed that you are out there having a good time WITHOUT THEM! Ha ha! Loser!
Tip 5 - BE YOURSELF!Being serious now - Your ex fell in love with you for a reason. They were attracted to that person that they met at the start of the relationship.
Now is the time to both remind yourself of what a great person you are and to remind your ex why they wanted to be with you in the first place.
You want them to look at you and see a strong person, someone who has moved on from the pain and is building their life again. If they see that you are moving on it will let them know that they have not ha ha!
Tip 2 - MINIMISE COMMUNICATION It may seem difficult at the time, when you are hurting and you are either trying to get back together or trying to get back at your ex, but this is probably the most important thing you can do. Not only will it frustrate them that you are not allowing them any contact. But also its the easiest way to let them see how much they miss you!
Tip 3 - BE FLEXIBLE There is no benefit to anyone by being forceful or demanding. This will just make you angry and will also mean that your ex will form a very low opinion of you. This is not what you want!
To really get back at your ex you must make them see what a good person you are and how they were a fool to let you go! Wouldn't it be great to have them wondering why on earth they broke up with you? Ha ha - and all their friends would think it too. Cos your totally awesome in every way and they were too dum to see it!
Tip 4 - GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND HAVE SOME FUN! There are two good reasons why you should do this - first of all it will make you feel a lot better to be out and having fun with your friends and secondly it will, AGAIN, make your ex realise that they lost a really great person! A person who is fun to be around.
They will be sooooo annoyed that you are out there having a good time WITHOUT THEM! Ha ha! Loser!
Tip 5 - BE YOURSELF!Being serious now - Your ex fell in love with you for a reason. They were attracted to that person that they met at the start of the relationship.
Now is the time to both remind yourself of what a great person you are and to remind your ex why they wanted to be with you in the first place.
Showing them what an awesome person you are is THE BEST way to get back at them!
Still Wanna Get Back With Them?
Yeh - I know how it is - You LOVE them! Ah, thats nice :-)
Hey if you still wanna get back with them then its not a thing to be ashamed of. its great that you know how you feel and that you believe that you have found love. So many people in this world don't, believe me!
So if you do wanna get back together with your ex you should take a look HERE at a few more articles I have written on the subject. It IS possible to get your ex back if you follow some simple rules that I will show you.
Really honestly! I know because I did it!
CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT MORE....
So if you do wanna get back together with your ex you should take a look HERE at a few more articles I have written on the subject. It IS possible to get your ex back if you follow some simple rules that I will show you.
Really honestly! I know because I did it!
CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT MORE....
How Do You Feel?
Lets connect :-)
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Julie
May 28, 2012 @ 9:22 am | delete
- revenge is never worth it. found out the entire relationship was nuttin but lies he told me nd he cheated on me the whole time and now the revenge has blown up in my face. as much as you want to never do it, be the bigger person you'll be better from it in the end.
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Kiara
May 2, 2012 @ 1:51 pm | delete
- alright.. but how do you use those 5 tips.. ! Like.. What if yo can't be around them physically for some reason.
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Kiara
May 2, 2012 @ 1:51 pm | delete
- alright.. but how do you use those 5 tips.. ! Like.. What if yo can't be around them physically for some reason.
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chris
Oct 29, 2011 @ 3:11 pm | delete
- um my ex broke up with me cuz someone said he would try to hurt me if she didnt leave me.....so 2 days later i find out shes dating the asshole who threatened to hurt me!cand then she said she was falling for him!
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Zach
Apr 7, 2012 @ 10:47 pm | delete
- obviously she's not the one you want. Move on, build up your life again! Don't fill up that hole in your heart with mud! fill it up with yummy chocolate that you want and love! (seems wierd but makes sense, doesn't it?)
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