How A Quick Background Check Revealed That My Daughter's Fiance Is A Jerk
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I guess you can call it.."mother's intuition". It's that God-given gift that I believe all loving mothers possess. That is why I accessed the internet and performed a background check on my so-called future son-in-law.
Let me tell you my story....
Approximately 13 months ago, my daughter met this guy at a dinner meeting sponsored by her company. His name is Bartholomew, however, everyone calls him 'Bart'..for short.
He's a very handsome young man with a solid educational background and a satisfactory job yet...he seems to always get nervous and agitated when the conversation geared towards his past or family.
This set off red flashing lights to me and therefore, I decided to do a criminal background check on him.
My husband thought I was crazy and was just being too protective of our daughter. However, he is now glad that I went with my first instinct!
What did I discover?
The background check revealed that Bart has a lengthy criminal record including domestic violence, aggravated sexual assault, "Peeping Tom" offense but most disturbing....manslaughter!
Both my husband and I was astonished, mad and happy! This guy has not only been lying to us but most importantly...our loving daughter! What a jerk!
We had to tell our daughter but HOW? She is so much in love with this creep...this is going to break her heart yet there was NO Way on God's green earth that we were going to let our daughter spend anymore time around Bart!
How did it turn out? What was the outcome? Click here and read the rest of my story!
So, before you hire that next nanny or babysitter or accept a roommate that you barely know or look for a lost love or classmate, perform a background check to protect you and your family's safety and sanity!
What....Not All Background Check Services Are Equal?
As I was about to begin my background check on Bart, I noticed that there were dozens and dozens of services for this task. I was a little confused.How would I know which one to choose? Did it really matter? I was so confused my hair begin to look like this guy's photo! To answer my questions, I had to do some homework....
In the past....when I wanted to compare products or services, I usually turn to a consumer information (CI) review. The reason why is because they have already done my 'homework' for me and therefore, all I have to do is read their results.
According to CI, it appears that the majority of background check services simply do not deliver the information they promise. In the majority of their investigations, the results were outdated or incorrect.
Fortunately, there were 3 background check services that stood out among all the rest. Other features I noticed that could be researched were reverse cell phone lookup and reverse address searches.
Therefore, if you need to check someone's background, CLICK on the photos below and check out the top 3 online search services:
Net Detective has been rated the #1 website for finding the truth about ANYONE...including yourself! They maintain one of the largest investigative databases on the net. Over 211 Million Real Public Records And Growing! Every background check originates from over a dozen sources, making it the most up-to-date and the most complete information resource available.
Reverse-Records.org is extremely user-friendly! The only thing you need is the person's email address, or phone number, or license plate number. Just enter any of this information, and you have their full name, number and current address!
CourtRecords.org is a company that provides comprehensive online records searches in many categories. They have gathered more databases, sources and data center links i My Background Check On My Daughter's Former Fiance
My Background Check on Bart Has Improved My Relationship With My Daughter
Yes...I was very concerned that my probing into my daughter's life could drive a wedge between us. My husband even pleaded with me stay out of it!
Thank Goodness that everything turned out great and that jerk, Bart, is out of our lives!
Therefore, I am a living witness that a background check is the perfect solution if you need to find a lost love, check on your neighbor, find an old classmate, see if there are any sexual predators on your block or if you're just plain curious like me!
Breaking News! My Daughter and Bart, The LIar, Have Officially Went Their Separate Ways!
Yes, folks, it is true....My daughter and Bart have officially broken up...she gave back the fake ring.
Yes...you read it correctly...he gave my lovely daughter a fake engagement ring. He finally admitted that the ring only cost him $59. He purchased it from one of the shopping channels late one night.
However, I did meet his mom for the first time a few days ago. She is a very wonderful person. She lives approximately 800 miles away on the east coast.
She told her son, Bart, to always tell the truth and to always be honest with my daughter concerning his anger issues, past criminal record and relationships. Instead, he decided to lie, mislead and trick us with his 24-hour "role play".
However, in the end....with the help of a background check...good won the victory over evil.
Got a story to tell about a background check? I would love to hear it!
Have you searched and performed a background check on a lost love or a schoolmate or a possible employee? Enquiring minds would like to know!
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Googleiz
May 23, 2010 @ 11:24 am | delete
- Thanks for the lens..
Jane Linn
Contributing Editor
http://www.articleonlinesearch.com
(Free Background Checks, People Search, Public Records)
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Michelle Gilbert
Mar 24, 2009 @ 12:07 pm | delete
- U people are stupid and ugly i mean look at the girls photo thats above this almost there is a gay piccure
and btw i like pancakes
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govrecCurtis
Nov 25, 2008 @ 12:40 am | delete
- Great story proves the value of background checks, glad things are looking up lol. I have a similar lense www.squidoo.com/backgroundpeoplecheck
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Janusz
Jul 15, 2007 @ 9:03 am | delete
- Really Really Great Lens! The outcome proved you did the right thing.
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Lady_Gotrocks
Jul 14, 2007 @ 9:40 pm | delete
- Awesome lens!!! 5 Stars!
You are invited to join the Raising Stars group
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