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6 Mistakes You Must Never Make When In A Relationship

The beliefs and rules you live by in life are factors that can greatly affect your Relationship. They can either "Make It", or "Break It!"  If you think that your love-affair is a huge failure because you and your partner are not following certain "rules", then it's time to break that belief.

 

There are always misconceptions. There can always be bad advice. People tend to listen when the majority state assumptions as truths. What we have to constantly keep in mind is the fact that NOT everything people say is true. Here are some love tips that can be HAZARDOUS to your love-life if followed by heart.


  • Relationship Advice #1: "Your romantic affair would be better if you straighten your partner out." Never entrap your mind into believing that if you change your partner; your togetherness will be great. Once and for all, you have to let go of the childish notion that other people are responsible for your own happiness.

  • Relationship Advice #2: "There is a right way and a wrong way to make your love life successful." Each person is unique and when two unique individuals come together, it creates a very special and distinct bonding. There is NO definite way to have a successful love-affair.

  • Relationship Advice #3: "A deep and loving affair has nothing to do with sex." Believing that sex is unimportant can be detrimental to your relationship. Sex is what makes your bond special. It takes you to a whole new level of intimacy. It takes you away from your daily pressures. So give time to savor and enjoy this gift in your romantic affair.

  • Relationship Advice #4: "A successful togetherness allows you to vent all your feelings." Having the privilege to pour your heart- out in a relationship is truly fulfilling, but when you utter something out when at the peak of your anger, then it can be a totally different thing. You are running the risk of hurting your romance permanently. Uncensored venting has caused far too many couples to break-up because one partner cannot forgive what the other partner said during the heat of the moment. When you are angry, get out and let it steam. Bite your tongue- before you say something that you might regret for the rest of your life.

  • Relationship Advice #5: "A successful relationship is a peaceful one." Everybody argues, even the most emotionally stable couple. Arguing can actually be healthy, as long as it's approached properly. It can release tension and deep-seated issues and inculcate a sense of trust knowing that you can share your deep-seated issues without being embarrassed or forsaken. So don't worry about how many times you argue, instead worry about how you argue. When you argue, focus on the issue at hand and never attack your partner. And be sure to have a closure after each argument, you may agree to disagree, but be sure that both of you achieved closure.

  • Relationship Advice #6: "A successful togetherness requires great romance." Yes, your love-affair should have enough romance to last you a lifetime. But you have to be realistic enough to know that the wild passion of romance occurs only in the first phase of the relationship (honeymoon stage), after a while it matures into a more secure, deep kind of love. It doesn't mean that when the wild passion has faded away, that there is something wrong with your togetherness. It just simply means that you are moving up to another level of higher intimacy. You can still experience that "wild passion" but just not as often as before.
     

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