Living Life Satisfied How I Beat Depression
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Beating Depression Includes Unlocking Opportunities on My Road to 'Getting to Happy'
While reading some really great books I was reminded of my own writing talents and started ravaging through old articles I'd written. I eventually came across an article which shared my story of fighting depression, overcoming my fears, the benefits of living healthy, and not being afraid to step outside my shell. The article was all about 'How to Deal with Depression'. After reading the article I was painfully, yet truthfully, reminded of where I came from emotionally, physically, and mentally, while in pursuit of my own happiness (so to speak). As I look at my current progress and the major breakthroughs I have made, I know that I am truly thankful and blessed to see that my Dreams are indeed coming true. But like I said this article reminded me of where I came from. And with this I was moved to sharing an update on my 'Getting to Happy' experience.
Read my original article here:
Finding ways to beat depression naturally was very important to me. I did not like the way medications made me feel and I was afraid of becoming worse off than when I started my journey of depression relief.
- Living Life Satisfied: How to Deal with Depression
- Learn how to deal with depression with these tips and tools of how to fight depression.
What's On My BookShelf?
What I'm reading and how it helped me while overcoming depression!
Fifteen years later my favorite author manages to work her way into my plan of action. With the release of her latest book 'Getting to Happy' Terri McMillan continues to inspire me. Read the sequel to 'Waiting to Exhale'. This revisited story of four women, truly dear to each other, who return to show you where the 'meantime' has brought them in their quests to happiness. After discovering that their first go-round, at life's blissfulness, may not have all been what it was crack up to be, 'Getting to Happy' is a powerful message of strength and perseverance, and what it means to stand strong in the face of adversity, especially in personal relationships. A classic read and what a pick up for any coming of age reader.
How to Change Your 'Here' and 'Now'
Setting Yourself Up to Cure Depression
But what about the #1 Goal you set out to accomplish? What about that?
Well suffice it to say, I found myself looking at my more recent opportunities, thinking, "I will never make this work." "Everyone is going to think I'm crazy and it's something wrong with me." "Why do I even care what everyone is going to think?"
Because. That's just me. I'm a closet perfectionist. SMH. Those icky feelings started to creep back into my mind.
Over the last few years I have tremendously changed the way in which I approach my personal relationships, business relationships, and re-written the plan I am taking to reach my MAIN GOAL, my personal defined purpose. I have been taking charge by taking action, doing what I love, moving forward (even when it doesn't seem easy, I follow my passion when it speaks), mending some important relationships, and taking advantage of the opportunities I have not only made for myself, but those that have been placed before me.
By continuing to refer back to the things which gave me the encouragement to get started, I remain determined and persistent in my pursuit.
Remembering that every now and then I may find myself in a funk I remember to refer to
3 Tips to Fight Depression, Anxiety, and Manage Stress.
What's on My BookShelf?
What I'm reading and how it helped me while overcoming depression!
I have had this book in my arsenal for some years now. Finding yourself and the love you want starts when you clean house and make room for what is divinely destined for your life. Great read for any stage in the journey to beating depression. It reveals to you, what you should be doing, WHILE, your prayers are being answered.
3 Tips to Fight Depression, Anxiety, and Manage Stress
Tip # 1: Fighting depression.
Seek help, and never be afraid to express what you are going through. Others around you may not understand. But it is in your best interest to continue to explain what you are feeling and how you are feeling. Family and friends need to be aware to your situation so that they may help you take the steps to getting help. When seeking professional help be completely honest with yourself and your doctor.
Tip #2: Curing Anxiety.
The road to defeating anxiety often starts with taking control of your situation. In business and personal financing never approach an opportunity as a way to "get rich quick", because there is no such thing. Every opportunity is a chance to learn how to change your circumstance; whether it is financial independence, a healthier lifestyle, better parenting or building greater relationships, allow yourself to grow inside and on the outside, so that your opportunities will flourish.
Tip #3: Managing Stress.
Getting organized and managing your time is a great way to get in control of stress. By allowing yourself to grow inside, you make space for new opportunities. By using guides to help you stay organized (in the case of doing business you may want to look into outsourcing those tasks you do not want to let go of, yet for the sake of growth, it's time. Don't feel bad, I am here at this very moment) you are making a choice to accept your success and are taking action. Implementing a Plan of Action is detrimental to getting your circumstances under control.
Researching, devouring, digesting, and pulling together the information that is needed for your success, then getting organized, in order to manage your plan of action allows you to cut back the pressure you may be feeling in any situation.
“Day, n. A period of twenty-four hours, mostly misspent.- Ambrose Bierce”
It's Important to Stay Organized
The Best Way to Beat Depression Includes Organizing Your Surroundings.
Now may be the time to begin adding time management and organizing skills to your plan of action. A plan of action is simply the steps you feel will help you beat depression day by day. What will you need to do to change your current situation. Getting started for me meant getting organized and maintaining focus.
Why do people want to beat depression?
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Why do people want to beat depression?
1. Getting Your Life Back. The honest desire to take your life back compels us to seek answers
2. Helping Someone Else. Its common knowledge that before you can help someone, your own, personal affairs must first be in order.
Learning how to beat the effects of depression, with natural life exercises, teaches you skills to keeping depression from coming back.
3. Self-Fulfillment. Making others happy, or feel good about themselves, is very therapeutic. By knowing that you have shared a simple joy
increases the fulfillment you seek within your personal goals, aiding to your sense of fulfillment.
Exercise, Eating Healthy, and Hobbies
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1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup firmly packed light brown sugar
2 teaspoons baking powder
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1/2 teaspoon salt
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4 tablespoons (1/2 stick) unsalted butter, melted, or walnut oil
1/2 cup milk
1/2 cup strained fresh orange juice
1 1/2 cups fresh or unthawed frozen cranberries
1/2 cup pecans or walnuts, chopped
How many of us made the same New Year's resolution that we have made so many years before? I am going to lose weight, eat right, and be HEALTHY! We started the year as a renegade, calorie counting fiend, only to reach the end of our rope after only two weeks into the routine. Now here we are nearly finished with 2011, we still haven't reached that goal, and are thinking about starting again in January!
Being healthy is a choice that we make sometimes to keep up with our growing families, build our own self-esteem, and most importantly to reduce future health risks such as heart attack, heart disease, and even stroke. Here are 5 tips you may need to get you started on a healthier path.
1. Think Before You Munch
Always remember, "You are what you eat!" The better food habits you have the greater the risks of future health complications are reduced. A healthy eating plan is the key Before you can lose the weight you have to begin to feel that you have control of your eating habits. Stop counting those calories and start properly preparing your meals and controlling your portion sizes.
2. Remember Mom.
Fruits and Vegetables are your friends. We all dreaded the green bean casserole, fruit cocktails, and vegetable soup dishes that began to surface during the holiday seasons as kids. This Thanksgiving and Christmas season think about how you can introduce these items to your entire family to help you prepare for healthier living this New Year. (Remember we think alike. We will be returning to that diet come January 1.) Visit a few healthy cooking forums and pick up this seasons tastiest recipes to suit your healthy choices for Thanksgiving Dinner.
3. Get Outdoors.
I strongly suggest picking up a light exercise routine such as brisk walking. Get your legs going and your arms moving. Take in the fresh air and scenery and allow your mind and body to feel the relaxation you gain from doing some deep breathing. As you take your walk, inhale and count up to 5 seconds, hold this for a quick moment, and release slowly. Feel the rush? The exchange of oxygen and carbon dioxide is one of the best things we can do for our blood and cells. While walking this can help relax those aching body parts we all complain of.
4. Try Something New
5. Don't be afraid to visit your physician
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Getting Active Means Doing the WORKOUT
Focusing on a physical work out allowed me to beat depression by bringing attention to other aspects of my life were I was not using all of my time wisely. Along with getting healthy, being active means constantly learning. Being proactive in my education, the growth of my business, and my own road to financial independence emerged as items on my To DO lists, which I gladly approached head on once I followed my action plan, by simply doing the hard work.
Kick Yourself Into Gear and Sweat It Out!
“The only easy day, was yesterday! ”
Facing Your Demons
Making up those broken relationships
Why do people want to make up with an ex or mend a broken relationship?
- Things were left unsaid
- They feel there is still a chance
- Miss close friendships
- Miss physical connection
- Believe in that person on a spiritual level
- Feel spiritually connect to the ex
- Can't imagine being without that person
- Want the friendship
It is difficult to cope with the feeling that you never thought that you would never hear, touch or see the person again. There are ways to work out the dynamics of broken relationships found in this easy to follow relationship guide.
Because this is an update on my own personal journey, I have to share with you my experience with this resource. Three years later I am no longer married, but after mixed and bitter feelings flew and bruised feelings past, I have a very sound and happy relationship with my ex. I was able to learn to better communicate my thoughts and feelings in a way that allowed us both to understand the things which went wrong within our once romantic relationship, allowing us to reflect on the friendship. Today we are able to separately and lovingly raise our son.
The contents of this guide also allowed me to work better with friends who I felt were not understanding and supportive during my downtime. Again it was my downtime, that's why they didn't get it. The Make Up Guide, guided me into new friendships and business opportunities, teaching me to make better connections with the people I worked with from day to day. New love and a highly satisfying relationship even emerged. (I'm just saying when you open yourself to communicating better, there is someone always listening. Thanks Bae!)
Doing What You LOVE!
Stop being negative, disbelieving, and skeptical and you will see how quickly self-growth takes place!
This is a borrowed mantra that I brought to this topic because of its relevance. I initially began stating this during the beginning of my fight to beat depression. Reminding myself to stop being negative was and still is paramount to doing what I love.
All too often I found myself, head in hand, trying to figure out when my NEXT chance at happiness would appear. In the meantime my life had become stagnate, and I had grown bitter. It is said that we tend to paddle about in "bad" situations for so long that we develop "bad" habits, which in turn become "bad character." Was I really becoming a lazy, cynic?
The person that sits wondering when they will be able to STOP living paycheck to paycheck, or loose that extra 10 pounds, is never as successful as the person who JUMPS up, takes a risk and INVESTS in something that will change the value of their dollar, or the person who clears out the fridge and cupboards laced with SODIUM filled mess.
So what makes the risk taker successful? Do they just snap their fingers and stumble upon a great opportunity?
Of Course Not! It Takes Time and Effort, Trail and Error.
Successful people have a passion for something and love doing work that surrounds their passion. And as the risk taker I know you are (If not you wouldn't be here) if you are not ready to actively seek help, or willing to put in the work and follow a proven system, that works, I can guarantee you will not find the satisfaction in life you are looking for.
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Staying Organized and Fighting Loneliness
Remember when I talked about Getting Active and Actually Doing the Work Out? You started by organizing your day to day routine and seeking out like minded individuals to see the changes in your energy. You were able to see how your attitude and physical health would begin to be affected by the increase in your daily active life. The point of this was to allow your mind to begin to let your thoughts flow.
Over the last few years my progress has included the development of concepts and ideas I toyed with while re-involving myself physically and mentally. It was in my best interest to get organized. Writing things down was working but after a while I needed the tools to help piece things together. Again I turned to forums and digital media. At this point I am actively involved with my goals, which keeps me actively planning and organizing the blueprint of my road to success. I don't feel loneliness. I feel busy, actively pursuing MY passions. I filled voids with things which kept me healthy, sociable, and working toward THE GOAL.
Here are a few of my current projects and the tools I have been using to help.
Links to people I have used to help me succeed in the past.
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Moving Forward and Following Through
Getting the BIG Picture
The best advice I've ever taken, and gladly give is for you to stop looking for the next easy way out. There truly is no such thing as 'Getting Rich Quick'. In my opinion being rich should be viewed in terms of spiritual wealth, or self fulfillment, the elation that comes with accomplishing milestones along the road to your individual dreams.
I was the worst when it came to letting opportunity after opportunity pass and never accomplishing anything on my mile long list of "this month's GOALS"!
I was flat broke. I had put money into so many non-profitable ventures and never saw a penny back. I kept complaining about my weight, and my health, and lacked the motivation to change my situation. I simply had my tail between my legs and felt defeated. But after being in a rut watching everyone around me move on and reach their goals, followed by years learning and implementing my personal action plan.
I changed the way I approached my opportunities and weeded out what would or wouldn't work for me.
I found my niche in life and realized that, "If there is something you love to do, nothing will stop you from being successful at it!
Since I had stepped out of my shell and set up the frame work for the next phase in my fight to continue learning and sharing how I beat depression, I was synonymously applying basic steps from FREE information I'd found online, and I began to grasp the concept of, "Not Reinventing the Wheel!"
It's all been done before!
Someone, somewhere, had been in my shoes, but had changed their minds and decided to LIVE LIFE SATISFIED! Satisfied in their relationship, satisfied with their job, satisfied with their health%u2026 plain Satisfied with Life.
The best things in life are sometimes found in the strangest places!
Back then I was faced with opposition from friends, family, and of course, my own conscious as I read page after page of articles, e-zines, e-books, and online courses. But I didn't care because if they could do it, so could I!
Living Life Satisfied
How I'm Beating Depression
So here is where I am today. Being able to Live Life Satisfied is simply stepping out of the life you DON'T want, and stepping into the life you DO want!Getting rid of pesky debt collectors
Going day after day to a job you despise
Finding success in your own home business
Finding ways to spend more time with your family
Managing a hectic lifestyle
Financial freedom
Taking the steps to a healthier life
We have all searched for the cure all to each of these ailments, and so many others, but in some way have overlooked the perfect solution; putting it on the back burner only to say, "That would never have worked for me anyway!"
Here it is!
Don't be afraid to search for HELP! There is a wealth of information out there that will allow you to change your circumstance.
YOU have already taken the first step by reading this far!
Take me for example. Remember that article I wrote some three years ago, on how to defeat depression. Here I am years later re-inspired and moved by that same article. My passion for what I love to do moved me to share an update. All those years ago I wrote this encouraging statement, more for myself than for anyone else. I share it with you in hopes that it may help you either beat depression or keep beating depression -
"So today, on this day I am making a bold and blunt decision to simply change my mind. I am changing the person I have allowed myself to become. I am taking back my integrity, my security, my faith, my happiness, and my well-being, by simply CHANGING my mind. I will no longer live in the past. I have to let it go. I will no longer be afraid to speak my mind. I have a voice that is bigger than yours. I will no longer be afraid to live life, sharing my smile. I will not run from what burdens me, but pray for peace, and face each obstacle head on, doing the best that I can to learn from past mistakes. Those mistakes I have learned from, will no longer govern my life." - The Audacity of a Changed Mind, Tiffany M. Washington, 2008 -revised date © 2011
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I can't just talk about my fight to beat depression. I have to literally show you what I have considered success in my journey.
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Being here even inspired a story I recently picked back up and will use as a tool to make me more productive in my literary life. Follow my progress as I continue to use creative writing as a one of many tools to living my life satisfied.
I have taken up Fine Dining. Something I have secretly yearned to do. I immerse myself in the moment to get a feel for what a true literary life, for me, is going to taste like. THAI!
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But what I wish to share with you most is my growth in my service to my community and commitment to being financially independent, which was important in my plan of action. I am eager to share my success with others at this point because I have reached a plateau.
Beating depression involves a constant battle at not giving up and living satisfied daily. It's a struggle. Believe me. But by following the plan and the tips to fighting depression I found most valuable, I have been able to build the frame work and gain the financial support for a community youth project in my hometown.
Getting organized and managing your time is a great way to get in control of stress. By allowing yourself to grow inside, you make space for new opportunities. By using guides to help you stay organized (in the case of doing business you may want to look into outsourcing those tasks you do not want to let go of, yet for the sake of growth%u2026it's time%u2026don't feel bad I am here at this very moment) you are making a choice to accept your success and are taking action. Implementing a Plan of Action is detrimental to getting your circumstances under control.
Researching, devouring, digesting, and pulling together the information that is needed for your success, the getting organized, in order to manage your plan of action allows you to cut back the pressure you may be feeling in any situation.
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