Children with behavior problems

Ever gone to a restaurant and got seated next to someone who's children had obvious behavior problems? You know the scene- Child smart mouthing the parent,banging the table with his spoon and
screaming at the top of his lungs.

Then one day you discover that your child has become that child! You don't have to have a child with aggressive behavior.

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Why do my friends never want to come to my house? What am I suppose to do when my kids lie to me? Why does my child always sass me? Why does it seem like me and my children are always fighting? Do you often find yourself asking these questions or others?

Your life with your children doesn't have to be a family battleground or a constant power struggle. If everyone around you gives off vibes that suggest your children have behavior problems, then it is probably true! A solution to your problems is Here!

I was spanked as a kid, and it never really did much other than make me fear my parents and feel belittled. Since I didn't want that for my son, I learned a better way. When he did something I wasn't happy with, I TOLD him, "I don't like it when you do that" or "It makes me really angry when you do that" or "It really scares me when you do that!" If he continued to do what he was doing, then he got privileges taken away (and that DOESN'T mean sitting in a room full of toys and computers and video games).

They all get spankings when needed. We use this method as a last resort, meaning when we have tried everything else, and yes it seems to be my most productive method for curbing bad behavior. I think this to be the case partially due to the fact we don't over use the method, but only with what we consider behavior which NEEDS to stop.

We all have different opinions, that's what makes this world so great. All and all though, just remember even if your kids show abnormal child behavior you still love them very much.
If your unsure of which method is right for your particular situation try THIS APPROACH!

ODD is characterized by two problems:

* aggressiveness
* a tendency to purposefully bother and irritate others

The criteria for ODD are:

A pattern of negative, hostile and defiant behavior lasting at least six months during
which four or more of the following are present:

1. Often loses temper
2. Often argues with adults
3. Often actively defies or refuses to comply with adults' requests or rules
4. Often deliberately annoys people
5. Often blames others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
6. Is often touchy or easily annoyed by others
7. Is often angry and resentful
8. Is often spiteful and vindictive

ODD is the most common problem in children. Problems usually begin between
ages 1-3. ODD is more common in boys than girls before puberty, but is equally
divided in both males and females after puberty.

· Children with ODD are destructive and disagreeable by nature
· They like to push their parents' anger-buttons
· Every request results in a power struggle
· Lying is a daily habit, and stealing is a favorite hobby
· Getting others to react strongly pleases and amuses them
· They blame others for their mistakes and misbehavior
· And they have no remorse for the hurtful things they say and do

This doesn't mean they are "bad" kids -- they are just intense kids. And they
seek intensity from others as well -- especially their parents! Unfortunately, they
have discovered that their parents are the most intense and exciting when things are going wrong.

What parents may have viewed as punishment for their ODD child was actually a reward (i.e., the child received a bigger payoff for misbehavior).
child was actually a reward (i.e., the child received a bigger payoff for misbehavior).