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The Best Love Advices Ever

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"Le relations durables", a book written by the French psycotherapist Gerard Apfeldorfer is best seller. Why? because people feel tired up by kleenex relationships: we want a love that lasts forever, but it's not always easy to find one. E Bizy ve lo riassume in 10 regole d'oro che lo psicoterapeuta segnala quali metodi per rendere la coppia duratura e solida.

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Love Decalogue

These are the ten basic rules set by Apfeldorfer in order to give strenght to your relationship:

1. stop believing in True Love and Prince Charming
2. if you give a lot, learn to ask a lot too
3. convince yourself that you're important and that you deserve a satisfying relationship
4. keep your independence and don't think that losing it is needed by a love relationship
5. always remember that your partner loves you for what you do, not for what you are
6. learn to talk about everything, don't keep secrets just for yourself
7. don't try to do everything together, every time
8. take care of your appearance, even at home
9. listen your partner very well, before judging
10. perfect and everlasting happyness does not exist: love must be built and protected day by day, even when you're tired
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This decalogue invites us to free ourselves from prejudices, both bold and new, as they are dangerous for our relationships. A lot of people waits for True Love thinking that you just meet someone and everything will be perfect, always and forever, and in this way lots of people feel depressed and sad. A lot of people dreams of "gone with the wind" love and lives just like "sex and the city", fearing to renounce to their independence. This means that we both dream of a perfect marriage and an unconditioned freedom.
We should start from basics: we must learn to love ourselves in an healthy way, so that we listen to our true wishes.
Love is a gift you build day by day.

Love advices on YouTube

some love advices on the web... those can be useful, and they come from real people, with real problems, just like you and me!
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