Breastfeeding - The First 5 months
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Planning to Breastfeed
When I was pregnant I knew I wanted to breastfeed my son. I prepared myself in every way possible. I read tons of books on breastfeeding, looked at any and every online article I could find on it. I knew it might be hard - I knew I might want to give up - but I didn't know enough about the emotional changes that occur during breastfeeding. Here I share my emotions.
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Contents at a Glance
The First 2 months
The hardest yet.
The first few days of breastfeeding my son were extremely painful for me. It was a burning stinging kind of pain, but it usually subsided after about 1 minute. Of course my breast were engorged, but for me, that wasn't too painful, just awkward.Emotionally - Sometimes I would cry when I would breastfeed my son. Not because of the pain but because I wanted to give up. I felt like less of a mother because of these feelings. What got me through it was telling myself - just to it one more day - every day I had to tell myself this for the first month. By the end of the first month, I was used to it, and knew I could do it.
Technique
In the first few months you may feel as if your baby and you will never really "get it" don't worry - you will. Watching how other women do it may help.
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Books on Breastfeeding
Sometimes to get through the first few months all it takes is a little encouragement. I found my books always helped me out. Reading about the great benefits to your baby, and how it will get better can be just the thing to keep you going.
2-5 months
Uphill battle
By the third month I felt like a pro. My son also was a pro - he knew what my nipple was, and reached for it - having no problem latching on. There was no more pain.Emotionally - By the 4th month I loved breastfeeding my son. I felt we had an extremely close bond because of it. I felt proud in knowing all his growing was due to me. But there was another problem - my husband. Because I was breastfeeding my hormones were going crazy, which caused my sex drive to drop. We went from 3-4 times a week before Anson, to once a week.
It is a good thing to have an understanding husband. The decreased sex drives of new parents can also be due to the new baby - never having time, and then when you do - being completely exhausted. Just knowing that this too will pass will help. You won't be breastfeeding forever - and as you child grows you will have more and more time together.
This is all just part of a changing relationship. As long as you and your partner grow together - all will be OK, and your love will grow stronger.
Share your Photos
Not everyone wants to put up a photo of them breastfeeding on the internet for all to see. But it is a good idea to snap a few shots of it through the months. It is a great way to keep the memories alive.
I don't post my pictures of Anson breastfeeding in public, but I do have them, and I am sure I will be very happy to have them when he grows older and stops breastfeeding.
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Sharing Thougthts Online
Find an outlet! Find breastfeeding forums, chats, or start a blog! Connecting with other breastfeeding moms is a great way to share ideas, and help to get through the rough patches.
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Last(ing) advice
If you only take in a few things from this lens remember - give it one more day, and then another. No matter how hard it seems now it will get better. Connect with other breastfeeding moms - and be prepared with lots of info on breastfeeding.
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Oct 8, 2011 @ 11:33 pm | delete
- You should see the difference in babies that are breastfed. Also check out riding snow blower for the best advice on purchasing a blower this winter.
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Grabber12
Jul 24, 2011 @ 6:42 am | delete
- Its good to read this lense.Thanks for sharing it.
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- Its good to read this lense.Thanks for sharing it.
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thisisamyc Feb 9, 2011 @ 3:55 pm | delete
- Nice to hear real experience of breastfeeding with good and bad. Just wanted to add that it's much easier second time round but just as emotional!
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vintagemom
Dec 29, 2010 @ 11:48 pm | delete
- Great lens! Really good information about what you can expect to feel, both physically and emotionally. But, in the end, isn't the whole experience so wonderful and worth it? Best Wishes to all nursing moms!
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carlajo73
Dec 27, 2010 @ 8:47 pm | delete
- Breast is Best!!!
http://www.squidoo.com/breast_is_best
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love4free
Jul 19, 2010 @ 2:04 pm | delete
- Every new mom needs to read this. Lovely ideas.
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Jun 29, 2010 @ 10:04 am | delete
- Hi! I'm featuring your lens on my Best Things about Breastfeeding lens.
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JKieras
May 30, 2010 @ 10:25 pm | delete
- I agree - take it DAY by DAY - that's how I got through the first 2 months which were a nightmare! I just kept saying, just do one more day (over and over)... now I'm 3.5 months and love breastfeeding my baby!
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Desilegend Dec 3, 2009 @ 11:28 am | delete
- I had my moments at 1st but I love to breastfeed now!
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May 13, 2009 @ 9:44 am | delete
- Welcome to the 'Pregnancy and Baby' Group
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thrivingmom
Sep 21, 2008 @ 6:12 pm | delete
- I'm so glad you breastfed. I'm currently breastfeeding my second baby. I breastfed my first baby for over a year and the last several months of that I was already pregnant again.
http://www.squidoo.com/isbreastfeedingforme
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sheonline27
Dec 15, 2010 @ 10:48 pm | delete
- I have a one child and she is 3 years old now. I have breastfed her for 6 months and breastfeeding is very healthy to your child.
http://www.squidoo.com/what-is-exactly-the-feeling-of-becoming-a-mother-for-the-first-time
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