To seduce a woman, you must take her into another world, a special world where only the two of you exist, a romantic world, a poetic world.
Sometimes this happens automatically with a woman: if you've ever fallen in love, you remember what it's like to feel like you are the only two people who've ever existed. You probably also remembered that, in that state, she really wanted sex. A lot.
If you haven't ever felt that, don't despair - by following these simple guidelines, you can learn to create those special feelings. It's your responsibility, if you want your relationship to be the best that it can be!
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- How To Write A Love Letter
- World's Most Romantic Hotels!
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- 15 Inexpensive and VERY Romantic Date Ideas
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20 Great Romantic Ideas!

1. Bury a "Time Capsule" together with trinkets, love letters or other romantic sentimental items. Then, draw up a simple map and store it in your safe deposit box. Date the map and decide together when you'll dig up your romantic treasure.
2. Create a special music disk together of love or fun songs. Have them ready for those special times together.
3. Plant a romantic note in a book your love is reading. It can be as simple as: "I love you," "I want you" or just XOXOXOXO.
4. Next time you're at the mall together, jump into a photo booth and take some fun pictures. Keep in your car or in your desk for a quick pick-me-up during the day.
5. Plant a tree together and plan to carve your names in it when it grows big. This can be a fun place to have a picnic or just hang out together; watching the clouds or stars.
6. Stop at a local coffee shop and spend some "two-gether" time there, or take a long walk or scenic drive in the county.
7. Send your love a letter at work. You can disguise it in a regular business envelope and it can be funny or/and romantic. Or even a little naughty if you're planning a special evening together.
8. Use heart-shaped sticky notes, one or a bunch to post little messages throughout the house or garage to add a little thrill to your love's life.
9. Pick up some dipping chocolate and fresh strawberries, cherries or bananas and make tonight's dessert incredibly romantic.
10. Take a long drive and stop at a new restaurant, or a deli to pick up a picnic lunch. Spend this time really listening to each other.
11. Name a star together and when you're apart; you can look at it and know that your love is waiting for your safe return.
12. Use glow-in-the-dark stars and black lights to create a romantic night sky inside.
13. Create a spa atmosphere at home with candles, essential oils, incense burners, mood music, massagers or other relaxation products.
14. Chocolate, the flavor of romance! Serve chocolate liquor in small glassware as dessert to vamp up a romantic dinner.
15. On a special night, dim the lights and put on some soft music. Then undress leaving a trail of your clothes from the front door to the bedroom.
16. Spend a quiet evening by the fire together. Roast marshmallows or have drinks available.
17. While your love is showering, sneak in and write, "I love you" on the steamed mirror.
18. Take a love letter or romantic vacation brochure and cut it into a puzzle. Mail a piece of the puzzle to your love every day or place each puzzle piece on table or dresser.
19. Make a romantic tape recording asking your love to meet you somewhere. You'll need confirmation that they can make it so be sure to leave a return number.
20. Next time you're walking together, grab your love's hand or walk arm-and-arm.
How To Write A Love Letter

You know what's in your heart but sometimes you just have a little trouble putting it into words. Here are just a few suggestions on how to write a love letter:
* In your romantic letter, state your lover's main strength. What part of him/her do you love or admire the most? It is important to mention this in your letter.
* When did you fall in love with him/her?
* Also mention in your love letter why you fell in love with them.
* Mention in the letter some of your most romantic times together. Reflect on those times, talk about it in detail, and your appreciation of the moment will show through in the writing.
* State something in the love letter that you see in him/her that they may not see in themselves.
* And lastly, while writing your romantic letter, reflect on how your life has changed since meeting your respective other. How have they impacted you? Talk about the positives.
The most important thing to remember while conveying your message is to share your feelings through honesty. Don't feel as though you have to hold back when writing your romantic letter.
World's Most Romantic Hotels!

Choosing romantic hotels is a subjective endeavor, but we tried to include something for every taste on my list. I took several suggestions from Dyson, since she's been visiting and reviewing romantic resorts for years. I also talked to Sarah Jang of the consulting and publishing company Wedding Solutions, who was creative director of The Ultimate Guide to the World's Best Wedding & Honeymoon Destinations. Among other criteria used in compiling her book, she looked for hotels offering couples-centric services such as breakfast in bed, private meals or rose-petal-strewing on request.
Both Dyson and Jang independently cited the One and Only Ocean Club on Paradise Island in the Bahamas as having an ultra-high romance quotient. It's got sand, sea and sun, plus spa facilities that Dyson calls "just spectacular." Eight private spa villas were designed with couples in mind; they offer side-by-side massage tables and whirlpool baths built for two, plus a sizeable daybed in which to enjoy the Asian tea service that caps every treatment.
Jang also signaled out Indonesia's Amanjiwo resort, part of the Amanresorts group, for special romantic mention.
"If people are looking for something that's different or not the standard Caribbean honeymoon," she says, "Amanresorts has really romantic, secluded destinations."
Located in central Java and composed of 36 suites, the Amanjiwo has views of Borobudur, a ninth-century Buddhist sanctuary, with hills and volcanoes beyond. The secluded Dalem Jiwo suite comes with a private terrace and pool, plus around-the-clock butler service.
To Dyson and Jang's suggestions I added my own idiosyncratic choices, looking for places that offer both privacy and a gorgeous setting--which could mean a New York cityscape, Florentine Renaissance sculpture or the Sonoran desert. I also kept an eye out for hotels offering special treats for duos, such as champagne and chocolates or side-by-side luxury spa treatment.
With hotels like these, you can leave the aphrodisiacs at home.
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1)Bring a good book of poetry or have you and your date each bring your favorite poetry. Then sit down one evening and read prose together.
2)Take a candle, a candle stand, some matches, and your own cereal goodies (cereal, milk, spoons, bowls). Go to the park and have Cheerios By Candlelight (choose your date's favorite cereal).
3)Take a walk on the beach, bring some sodas/sandwiches, and have a nice romantic talk. Sit on the dock with your feet in the water.
4)Take a horse-drawn carriage ride.
5)Go on a beach and cuddle on a blanket with candles all around, while you stare up at the stars and listen to the waves crash....Magical
6)Walk around a rose garden with many bushes so you can have privacy. It's even more romantic at nighttime when the moon is out.
7)Take your date out to a State park. Surprise him/her with a favorite home cooked dinner, complete with a red rose and candles. Unblindfold your date just in time to eat dinner while watching the sunset. After dinner, curl up in a blanket with your date, and watch the stars come out.
8)Take a moonlight canoe ride. Be safe (wear life preservers, just in case)!
9)Sit on your house roof or on the lawn and see who can count the most shooting stars. Talk about your goals and aspirations.
10)Throw a prom! Hand your spouse an invitation when he/she leaves the house in the morning with a blindfold and a nice outfit. Give instructions to spruce up, put on the blindfold when he/she gets to the door, then knock. You must look your best, also. Decorate your living room in a prom type style and set out a candle light dinner. Have music playing when he/she enters.
11)Find a restaurant in a little town about an hour away. Stop every now and then to take pictures of each other (or have someone take a picture of you together). Take romantic pictures, funny pictures, pictures of the scenery. If you time it right, you can get a picture of the sunset. Get the waiter to take your picture together. Then on your next date, after getting the pictures developed, make a collage of your date together.
12)Have a candlelight picnic in the backyard.
13)Rent ice skates at a local rink. After a couple of hours of skating, when hands are frozen and the excitement has worn off, go home and make some hot chocolate and enjoy cuddling in front of a warm fire.
14)Take a walk on the beach. If you live near the ocean or a large lake, taking a walk on the beach or the shoreline at sunset or in the moonlight can be very romantic and peaceful.
15)Lay on a deserted beach and watch shooting stars.
8 Great Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life!

Fire up your foreplay skills
Some people regard foreplay as the appetizer, a small taste of things to come. This, however, is not the case. Foreplay can be just as good - if not better - than intercourse. Take your time to pleasure each other. Take it in turns.
Mod cons
To get your lover so turned on that you're clothes will be ripped off in the hallway as you come home, use the tools of communication that you have available to you at work. Tell him in an e-mail exactly you want to do to him when you get home. Text him a few saucy suggestions for your sexy night in. Why not ring him, while he's in the middle of a meeting (!), to tell him you aren't wearing any underwear, and then hang up. The build-up of these little saucy snippets during the day will have him gagging for it as soon as you walk through the front door!
Surprise!
If you've fallen into a sex rut of the same routine every time, why not break from the norm and try something different. Maybe surprise him when he walks through the door with a vision of you sprawled on the couch wearing nothing but a smile. Or turn up at his office dressed in a full length black coat, knee high boots and nothing else. Take him into the photocopying room and, ahem, "service" his machinery!
Location, location, location
If the most exciting place you've had sex turns out to be the foot of the bed, then you definitely need a change of scenery. How about exploring the rest of the house and see how many rooms you can "christen"! You'll never look at that ironing board in quite the same way again! Or maybe take a trip outside for a bit of au naturel lovemaking. Think of new and exciting places to have sex, the riskier the better as part of the excitement is getting caught!
Fantasy sex
Come on, admit it, we all have at least one sexual fantasy, one sexual experience that we'd love to have! However, most of us are to shy to divulge the saucy details with our partners for fear of embarrassment, ridicule or repulsion. And unless your partner is a God-fearing, prudish, innocent virgin, you can be sure that he has a dirty little secret himself. Talk it over and pretty soon you'll be experiencing your fantasy. (Remember to return the fantasy, no matter how much rubber it involves!)
Pick new positions
If, like a lot of people, you've fallen into a pattern of foreplay then straight to missionary then straight to sleep, repeat this motto over and over again - variety is the spice of life, variety is the spice of life, variety is the spice of life. Different positions can stimulate different parts of each others genitals and achieve major orgasmic bliss. So make like Samantha and "that" sex scene and try every position that you can possibly imagine (and contort your bodies into!)
Toys are us
If the aul climax comes a little earlier than expected, why not delay and build it up with extended foreplay. Sex aids and toys can be great for this as you can alternate between them. Go to any shop like Ann Summers and they're bound to have a multitude of different toys to try out. A particular favourite of women is the rabbit vibrator and the pearl necklace underwear. Do it if you dare!
You dirty girl!
If you find it hard to work yourself up for the main event, how about trying some dirty talk to spice up the experience. Use all those words that were banned when you were younger. The filthier the better. Some words of caution though - don't go so overboard that you sound like a Tueret's Syndrome sufferer!
Sexy Lingerie Parties!
The term lingerie party may be a little baffling to those who are not familiar with it. If you do not know what a lingerie party is, the first thing that probably came to your mind may be a social gathering of adults where everyone is clad only in their underwear.Lingerie parties do involve wearing - and sometimes removing - underwear, but a lingerie party basically is a social event where the guests get to buy quality women's lingerie at a discounted price. At the same time, they get to partake of the food and drinks the hostess has prepared for them as well as engage in some naughty games involving lingerie.
Dressing up for a lingerie party may be a challenge. After all, it is an adult party and it is an opportunity to meet people of the opposite sex. But how is a woman to dress at such a party?
Picking the Right Outfit for a Lingerie Party
Since the event is going to be a lingerie party and the lingerie party can be used as an excuse to be teasing and alluring to the guys, it can be very tempting to show up wearing something that is ultra-sexy and baring more than just a little skin. When that temptation calls to you, remember this: do not give in.
It is perfectly okay to look pretty and sexy at a lingerie party, but there is a line that divides what looks sexy and what looks trashy. Try not to cross that line. When you go to a lingerie party, the best outfit you can come up with is something that emphasizes the right curves of your body. If you are wearing plus-sized clothing, it is okay. Full-figured women should be able to show off the ripeness of their bodies.
It is more advisable to wear separates at a lingerie party, however. Party girls like to try on different lingerie ...
Accessorizing
Putting on the right accessories to go with the dress can heighten the sexy look that you may be aiming for when you put together your lingerie party outfit. Your clothes themselves may be on the conservative side, but with the added punch given by the right accessories, you can come off as sexy and attractive at the lingerie party.
Take chandelier earrings, for example. Depending on the style, chandelier earrings with upswept hair can have a slenderizing effect and look so good with a halter top. It can also make an otherwise confining turtleneck shirt look stylish and alluring.
You should pay attention to your makeup as well. Highlight the best features of your face with makeup, but try not to overdo it. Heavy makeup does not have a place in a lingerie party.
Lingerie parties are fun events to go to. Look your sexiest at a lingerie party, but without looking cheap or trashy.
Sexy Kissing Tips
Make it Romantic
Women prefer the charms of a seductive and romantic kiss that takes place in seclusion rather than a quick one in a situation that may lead to embarrassment. The kiss need not always start with a lip-lock. Small kisses on the eyelids, nose, and cheeks can set the mood for a sweet French kiss.
Keep the Momentum
This can mean a lot of things, all of them guaranteed to heighten the kissing experience. Either partner can be the tease and break away from a kiss just that bit early leaving the other one asking for more.
Caress Her
Women often like to be caressed while kissing. You can start by caressing her hair from her forehead to her neck behind her ear and then gently feel her back. Alternate between using the full face of the palm and your fingertips.
Use your Tongue
Learn to use your tongue skillfully while kissing. Circling the tip of your partner?s tongue with your tongue lightly takes both partners further down the road to intimacy. Flick your tongue over hers; surprise her with your dexterity with your tongue. Sucking your partner?s tongue while kissing is considered incredibly erotic by some (But be careful! Some women don?t like it).
Experiment
There are several ways in which couples can add spice to their kissing experiences. Peppermint and chocolates add flavor to a kiss; partners can try to pass a small ice cube between their mouths while kissing; the roof of your partner?s mouth is highly sensitive and feeling it lightly with the tip of your tongue is bound to offer a pleasant surprise to your partner.
Ask your Partner
The most important aspect of any intimate experience is the comfort level with your partner and kissing is no different. Ask your partner about what constitutes her dream kiss, learn about what she likes in a kiss and try to give it to her in your personalized way.
Hygiene
The importance of oral hygiene cannot be overstated. For all your kissing skills, it is critical that your breath is clean. This assumes greater significance if you plan to get romantic with your partner after eating. It is best to have a breath freshener at hand for such occasions.
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Romantic Games: Yes, No, Maybe, Please

The name of this game is Yes, No, Maybe, Please. Here is the way it is played.
Each partner takes turns being the giver for 20 to 45 min. and the receiver for 20 to 45 min.
The giver spontaneously decides to do something to the receiver, but first they ask for permission to do it. For example, the giver can ask may I kiss your hand?
The receiver then answers Yes, No, Maybe, or Please.
Yes means Yes for that 1 time the romantic touch, kiss, etc is done.
No means No for now not No forever. Do not stop to analyze, negotiate, or manipulate a Yes. No is no.
Maybe means Yes, but do it once, and then ask if the receiver liked it. That answer will let the giver know if it is something to do again or not.
Please means I really liked it and you can automatically do it again one more time.
The goal is to not have sex, but to touch, kiss, read a poem, etc. It can; however, lead to sex after the game is over. It can be just loving time or it can be some very considerate foreplay. It is a learning and exploration. It is a great way to really know what
your lover wants and explore your own boundaries as the receiver. Also, it is amazing to notice how creative we can be as givers.
The giver can do simple things such as stroking the receivers cheek. There is no rush to do the next thing.
It is also interesting to note how difficult it is for some people to receive without responding back in kind. The receiver is the receiver and should keep their hands to themselves.
The receiver must be disciplined in making sure the giver asks before doing anything.
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1)24k Gold Roses
24K Gold Roses are literally a gift that your sweetheart will treasure forever. These real roses are preserved and covered in 24k gold and will last a lifetime! Each one is unique and each is handmade through a 40 step processes. Regular roses fade in days but these gold roses will last and be treasured by her forever. This is truly a one of a kind, unique gift that will show your sweetie how much she means to you. 24K Gold Roses last forever, just like your love for her.
2)Personized Romance Novels
If you really want to surprise your sweetheart with something completely unique, check out YourNovel.com. They offer personalized romance novels ranging from "mild" to "wild". These romance novels allow you and your partner to star in your own exotic, steamy, and especially romantic love story. Simply provide a few details and select from 15 different novels and you'll have an incredibly romantic (and sexy!) gift arrive at your door.
3)Her Own Star!
If you want to give her/him the Universe (well, at least a piece of it), then this is the perfect gift. At the International Star Registry, you can name a star after your sweetheart! With your package you receive a beautiful 12" x 16" parchment certificate with the name of your choice, dedication date, and telescopic coordinates of the star. You'll also receive an informative booklet with charts of the constellations plus a larger, more detailed chart with the star you name encircled in red. Make it even more special by telling him or her that they have three wishes to make on their star. Make sure you grant each of these wishes! ;)
4)Gourmet Strawberries
An evening with candles, champagne, and decadent, delicious chocolate dipped strawberries tops the list of ultimate romance. An added bonus is that both strawberries and chocolate are aphrodisiacs! If you want to go all out, you can even get chocolate dipped bottles of champagne and wine.
5)Message In A Bottle
Get pure romance with a message in a bottle. If you're looking for a truly romantic gift, this is it. You can choose from a huge selection of bottle designs and then write a romantic love letter to include in it. At a loss for words? Not a problem! There are more than 200 pre-written messages that you can choose from! Letters are placed in the bottle and delivered in gorgeous packaging.
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Sex On The Beach*1 oz Vodka
*1/2 oz Peach Schnapps
*1 dash(es) Grenadine
*Fill glass(es) Orange Juice
Measure one ounce of Vodka and a half ounce of Peach Schnapps. Pour this into a glass over ice. Fill the rest with orange juice and add dash of Grenadine. Then pull out the blanket and go at it with the one you desire most.
The Leg Spreader
*2 oz Captain Morgan's Spiced Rum
*2 oz Malibu Coconut Rum
*2 oz Peach Schnapps
*4-6 oz Pineapple Juice
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Buttery Nipple
*3/4 oz Butterscotch Schnapps
*1/4 oz Bailey's Irish Cream
Pour 3/4 oz. Butterscotch Schnapps into a shot glass. Top it off slowly with 1/4 oz. Irish Cream. It should look layered. Tastes best when the Irish Cream is cold.
Sex In The Cemetary
*1 oz Vodka
*1 oz Cherry Schnapps
*1/2 cup(s) Ginger Ale
*1/2 cup(s) Orange Juice
Pour all over ice, shake, serve. Add merichino cherry if desired.
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*1/2 oz Dekuyper Sour Apple Pucker
*1/2 oz Dekuyper Island Blue Pucker
*1/2 oz Vodka
*1/2 oz Midori Melon Liqueur
*1/2 oz Jagermeister
*1/2 oz Red Bull Energy Drink
Chill all ingredients, shake well, strain, and pour into shooter glass. Enjoy, and don't forget to drink more than one!
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